Why is there a fate between parents and children?

This question is not clear. From the sociological point of view, the love and combination between men and women is a kind of fate, which is the result of countless coincidences. Through the vast sea of people, this "one man and one woman" came together, isn't it wonderful? Why? I don't know. From a physiological point of view, after the joy and passion of men and women burned, millions of "sperm" troops rushed to the "uterus" city, as if there was a voice calling. And the "egg" princess who wants to say that she is still ashamed is waiting for the bravest warrior to appear, and then hand in hand to the coordinates of fate. Why? I don't know. It's hard to say, just like fate. The fate of children and parents is linked together. Perhaps less than October, perhaps as long as a hundred years, the emotions, resentment and hatred between parents and children, want to be quiet and difficult to stop, has become a blurred and changing landscape in this world.

What is the truth behind the fate between sentient beings, parents and children, and husband and wife? The answer given by the Great Wisdom Buddha may be the most satisfactory. First, the Buddha said that everything has no self-nature, and the fate is born, and the fate is scattered and destroyed. For example, seeds are born when they fall to the ground and die when they leave the ground. It turns into ice when cooled by water and into steam when heated. Birds fly in the sky and fish swim in the water, each with its own reasons. The fate between parents and children is also the result of karma, not subjective desire. Parents want their children to be healthy and smart. Can they do their best? All children want to have a rich family. Can they do their best? Everything is karma, and everything is subject to impermanence.

Second, cause and effect are both empty, and cause and effect are not empty. The fate of parents and children depends on the accumulation and dispersion of karma. However, the relationship between parents and children is inseparable from the law of causality. Buddha said that there are four reasons for the "affinity" between parents and children: repaying kindness, complaining, asking for debts and paying off debts. In reality, the relationship between parents and children can be roughly divided into four types: loving parents, vicious parents, filial children and disobedient children. The Buddha said that all beings are constantly reincarnated in the Six Paths by the karma of ignorance. Humane beings, on the other hand, will struggle with all kinds of good and evil behaviors and all kinds of unjust relatives and creditors from generation to generation. The fate between parents and daughters is just the illusion of unjust relatives and creditors. In reality, some parents abandon their children, some children abuse their parents, some parents dote on their children, and some parents are indifferent to their children ... What are the reasons? Cause and effect

Third, the son doesn't teach, and the father doesn't care about what happened before the fate between the child and his parents. In order to get a good result of the fate between children and parents, parents as parents should start from now, start from themselves, change themselves first, and then change their children, and guide them to establish correct concepts and make correct efforts. For your children and yourself. Remember, children's success is parents' greatest success.