What does Ma Yili want to express when he talks about "girls can't get married"? Do you agree with her?

Ma Yili's statement that women can't get married means that most modern women are excellent and can't find the opposite sex, which leads to a large number of older women. I basically agree with her.

In fact, compared with the requirement of three obedience and four virtues in ancient times, the status of women in China has undergone earth-shaking changes. We can see the light from women in all fields. It is precisely because contemporary women are getting better and better that contemporary men are not so prominent in the comparison. Another problem is that modern family-educated children have turned many boys into mothers or bookworms, lacking masculinity and courage to complete their journey. Women generally like men who can give them security. It happens that very few men have strong social skills and can give them a sense of security. In other words, there are very few men who can control contemporary women. This shows that many women can't find a partner. It's not that you are bad, it's that I'm too good. You can't give me the security I want, and you can't control me.

But having said that, I have to mention that the demand for men in contemporary society is indeed higher than that for women. For example, girls don't ask for a house, but men must have a house, otherwise they can't get a wife, which makes contemporary men generally have great pressure and anxiety to survive, and also makes them lack a little self-confidence and reduce their quality of life. Imagine how many boys who graduated from normal universities can afford to buy a house at the age of marriage after working for several years. Basically, they rely on family support, which also makes them lose self-confidence and become dependent. This is what happened in their life after they got married and had children. There are too few men who really want to earn their own money. Even if there is, it will take him many years to succeed in his career.

Therefore, the problem of women's difficulty in finding a partner in China has great social factors, is the product of social and humanistic development, and is a problem that we have to face.