Zhang Ting took a photo 10 years ago, and netizens lamented the great difference between husband and wife: Are the old couple really happy?

Zhang Ting posted a family photo of 10 years ago and 10 years later on his social media platform, with the caption: "My love for you has not changed." In an instant, this confession triggered countless discussions on the Internet. In the past ten years, Zhang Ting has become more beautiful. It can be said that time left no trace on her face, but it added a mature charm to her. On the other hand, Lin Ruiyang is a different story. Many netizens said that ten years ago, Lin Ruiyang was very handsome, and the combination with Zhang Ting was a beautiful woman. But ten years later, he has become an old man, standing beside Zhang Ting, fully demonstrating the feelings of two generations. The difference is too big.

Despite the fierce reaction of netizens, they did point out one thing that has been discussed most about Zhang Ting and Rui Lin in recent years: the difference between their faces. Once upon a time, Lin Ruiyang was a hero in Qiong Yao's idol drama. Whether it is "screen dream" or "no arrogance", he is so tall and handsome that people will never forget him. But I don't know why. In recent years, he has suddenly aged a lot, even his hair is gray. It's hard to stand in front of more and more beautiful Zhang Ting without feeling.

It is for this reason that many people begin to believe that this may be the shortcoming of the old couple's little wives, that is, when two people with too big an age gap are together, one of them will inevitably get old first, and with the passage of time, they will face various differences and then produce various contradictions. It is conceivable that such a relationship is usually not very happy.

Objectively speaking, there are many problems in the marriage form of "old man with few wives". First of all, it is netizens' speculation about Zhang Ruiyang, that is, the age problem of the couple has gradually surfaced. In reality, the beginning of "an old man with few wives" is not always because of love. Some people are dizzy because of the novelty, so they blindly choose such a relationship.

At first, they may be excited by the surge of hormones and even obsessed with love, but when the novelty disappears and the real problems begin to appear, things change. For example, they will find themselves in two age groups, and their way of thinking, outlook on life and even lifestyle are completely different, which often leads to irreconcilable contradictions. If both sides can't adapt to each other's habits and try to blend in, then they will definitely break up in the end.

Therefore, we must be cautious when choosing the form of "old husband and few wives". This is not to say that this kind of marriage is abnormal, but it is similar to ordinary marriage and needs deeper communication and understanding. Love without consideration often leads to a tragic ending. Second, social questioning in the form of "an old man with few wives" tests the determination of both sides.

In an interview, Zhang Ting mentioned the embarrassing experience that she and Lin Ruiyang met their children's teachers when they went to the kindergarten to pick them up. Because Zhang Ting used to pick up children, the teacher was not familiar with Lin Ruiyang, so when he met Lin Ruiyang, the teacher said directly to the child, "Is this your grandfather?"

See this scene, Lin Ruiyang mixed feelings, Zhang Ting also some at a loss. In desperation, she had to pretend to be calm and said to the teacher, "This is the father of the child." Later, he left school with Lin Ruiyang. When Zhang Ting talked about this experience, his tone was full of sarcasm, and he seemed to have been concerned about it. But I think there must be some waves when she goes through all this. This also shows that there will be some embarrassing factors in the form of "one old and young wife". After all, not everyone likes this combination.

Once you choose this path, you should be prepared to face criticism. If we can't face all this calmly, we'd better not start, otherwise, we will only hurt each other. The problems faced by "an old man with few wives" should always exist objectively, but this does not mean that such a husband and wife form cannot be happy.

Because love or marriage is a matter of two people, not a product dominated by outsiders. As long as they promise to be together and are willing to solve the problems in their relationship, they believe that no matter what happens, they can live a happy life. Like Zhang Ting and Lin Ruiyang, their criticism has never stopped for many years. Those right and wrong have been lingering around them, but they never gave up on each other, but supported each other for ten years. This is enough to show their determination and why they are so happy.

Besides, many couples in the entertainment circle have lived happily ever after, such as Liu Shishi and Nicky Wu. When Liu Shishi and Liu were together for the first time, they met with a lot of resistance, because they heard all the bad news, and it was much bigger than Liu. They don't look like good partners. But over the years, they not only didn't break up as netizens expected, but also got married and had children, and lived a life that many people envied. Because they know how to manage love and are willing to protect each other.

As Nicky Wu said in the interview, they often have problems and many contradictions, but these problems have not dampened their determination to be together, but have made them work harder to understand and love each other.

More importantly, there is an irreplaceable feeling between them. In the face of such love, no matter how big the problem is, as long as you are willing to overcome it, everything will become a stepping stone to progress.

Seeing the love between Liu Shishi and Nicky Wu, many people finally understand that the most important thing in love is not the age gap, but love and the determination to maintain it. No matter what kind of love, there will be difficulties. If two people just enjoy the feeling of love blindly and don't work hard to manage this relationship, it will soon come to an end. However, it is not easy for both sides to care for the love of love and fill the ups and downs of this relationship. I believe that no matter how difficult it is, it will disappear.

So, don't look at the old couple with colored glasses. Like most people, they can get happiness. Don't be confused because your body is in the relationship between a husband and several wives. This is not a special feeling, but a normal thing. As long as you love with your heart, you can get the ideal result. Of course, make sure your choice is well thought out, not impulsive. You know, you can only protect any relationship through responsible actions.