What are the signs of love, indicating that the fate of two people is over?

Lovelorn is very painful, as if it were a magical injury in the game. There seems to be no scar on the body surface, but it makes people feel very painful. I don't know what will happen tomorrow, nor what will happen in the future. Life becomes dark, leaving only endless tears.

But no matter how painful it is, just like the sweetness of falling in love, lovelorn love will always pass. It's just a matter of time. One day, when you suddenly look back, you will find that you have survived countless moments that made you collapse. You can actually be excellent yourself.

In fact, it's not just each other's departure, but more importantly, they don't have love without warning. One second, they are still looking forward to their future, and the next, they are told that this future has been broken.

It is this sudden, will make everyone unprepared, inner disappointment and pain, infinitely magnified, beyond the emotional tolerance, collapse, crying, thus alleviating their current pain.

When things change, and then look back, you will find that in fact, in the relationship between the two sexes, there will be this sign.

Become unwilling to communicate with each other.

It is said that it is enough to recognize whether you really exist in a person's heart and disconnect from each other once. A person who has you in his heart will try his best to contact you and find you. On the contrary, a person without you in his heart will hardly affect his mood changes.

You know, in today's 24-hour mobile phone era, it is impossible for a person to contact you actively for a long time and reply to your message. It's really not how busy he is at work, but that he doesn't want to talk to you.

Indeed, for every adult, the pressure on the shoulders is great, especially for married couples, which is greater than their peers. Family, work, society and busyness seem to be the norm in daily life.

However, couples living under the same roof will meet every day, face many of the same things, and also have contradictions and frictions. In this case, the state of the two is not nothing to say, but nothing to say, which means that the fate has come to an end.

In fact, the number of contacts between husband and wife is reduced, and when they get along, they often have a cold war. No one is willing to take the initiative to break the deadlock, which shows that there is a rift in this relationship, and each has a sense of loss and disappointment.

Maybe when fate comes to an end, even couples living under the same roof will one day become strangers with nothing to say.

Deliberately fade out of friends circle

Men and women in love want friends and family to know their partners, let these people share their happy feelings, and let them see that they have taken off their bills, so they don't have to worry about it.

But if you are in love, you will find that the other person rarely brings you to his family or friends, and almost never mentions you in front of these people. In fact, this is not his negligence, it is his original intention, the purpose is to let these people gradually dilute their impression of you, and it is also paving the way for inviting you out of his social circle.

He doesn't care about you, and he doesn't regard you as his most important person, so if his family and friends have anything in common with you, he can break it if he wants. At the same time, he began to look for various reasons to reduce, or never see your family and friends again, and get rid of your circle of contacts, all in preparation for a complete breakup with you.

If your partner has this phenomenon, you should be on your guard. Don't always believe that he is busy. The fundamental reason why he is busy is that he doesn't want to be with you.

cold violence

Oates of the Netherlands said, "The most destructive problem in marriage is the lack of communication, especially in love, sex and money."

If quarreling is passive communication, cold violence is passive communication.

Couples who often quarrel will ignore each other and start a cold war. The cold war hurts feelings and hearts more than quarreling.

Liu Shufen said to Xu Bochang, "Outsiders only look at how I hit you and scold you, but I don't know how you hit me. You beat me with your attitude, and you made me feel like the worst person in the world. "

Liu Shufen couldn't stand Xu Bochang's perennial cold violence against Liu Shufen and jumped into the deep well in the yard in a rage.

Cold violence in marriage is a weapon that hurts more than fists and swords.

When a person still has expectations for the other half, but the other party has closed his heart, and the feelings between two people can't flow normally, marriage will become a stagnant pool.