Daily chat with high emotional intelligence

Daily chat with high emotional intelligence

People who chat with high emotional intelligence are always liked, and if you flirt with your sister and talk about high emotional intelligence, your sister will definitely have a good impression on you. Let's take a look at the routine chat and related materials with high emotional intelligence.

High EQ routine chat 1 1, it's hard to find a man like me if it's affectionate and old.

2. Have you eaten? If you don't eat, I'll take you to a five-star hotel ... opposite mala Tang, right?

I have been single for a long time. Even when jiaozi sees two sticks together, he has to separate them with a shovel.

4. After meeting me, you will find that being handsome can be so single-minded!

5, to go out for a walk, after all, such a good face is always hidden at home, which is a great loss to society.

6. Whether two people can stay together for a long time is very important, but for food, three meals are more important.

7. After living for so many years, I have been puzzled by one thing: why did the hook hang itself?

8. When you feel lonely, turn on the computer and play a ghost movie. After a while, you will feel that there are people in the toilet, kitchen and room.

9. Every time I take a selfie, I find that my face value is high and low, and I will be more handsome in a while.

10, it's not hard to be single, but it's hard to deal with those who try their best to make you end it.

1 1. Self-cultivation of girls taking photos: take only one selfie out of 3,000.

12, there are some things you can't figure out now. Don't worry, you won't remember them after a while!

13, my mother said, you can't make irresponsible friends, so my friends are idiots!

14, spring is coming, the grass is lovesick, the flowers are in love, the butterfly is married, and the baby of the rabbit mother can play soy sauce. What are you waiting for? Come and fall in love with me!

15, women who spend money without blinking an eye have only one end-good-looking!

16, people's brains will at least be short-circuited, and I don't even have power.

17, every time someone is mean to me, I think there is something wrong with this person, and he can still lose his temper at such a lovely me and be speechless. Q&A of High EQ Picking up Girls Routine Chat

18, I know I have a bad temper. If you can't bear it, you must reflect on yourself and why others can.

19. If you like a handsome guy, please don't take immediate measures. You should know him first. Soon, you will find that I am more handsome than him.

20. I admit that I was a simple child before I went to kindergarten!

2 1. I just made a very risky investment. If I succeed, I can make hundreds of millions at once. If I fail, I will beat Shui Piao with these two dollars.

22. My hobbies can be divided into static and dynamic. Static means sleeping, dynamic means turning over.

23. If the money is gone, you can earn it again. The baby is gone when it's off the shelf!

24. How important is interest? I bought my mother a smart washing machine that I had taught her for n times, and later I bought her a mahjong machine, which not only can be used, but also can be repaired.

25. Everything must come to an end, but if you invite me, I can eat more with you.

26. I feel the same way: I always feel that I didn't fight well after quarreling with others, and I always feel that I will win if I organize the language again.

27. The biggest sorrow in life is that youth is not a zit, but it is still there.

28. I want to be your little sun, either to warm you or burn you to death.

29. Why are you nearsighted? I blurred my eyes in order to look down on the world.

30. In fact, if you do it well, your psychological quality will be excellent.

3 1, good-looking can be called foodie, and bad-looking can only be called gits. (question and answer)

32. "Do you like small animals?" Me: Of course. "How much do you like it?" Me: How can I put it? Every meal!

33. Beautiful people are easy to forgive even if they make mistakes. Ugly people can't be forgiven by others because of their looks, let alone make mistakes.

34. The feeling of taking a courier is like reuniting with your long-lost flesh and blood, but often after disassembling it, you find that the child looks like Lao Wang next door.

35. Ma Yun once said: A person's career is inversely proportional to his appearance. I can't bear to look in the mirror. It seems that I am doomed to accomplish nothing in my life.

36. Whether you are doing well or not is unknown to others, but as soon as you gain weight, everyone will know.

37. When one or two people say you are fat, you don't think so, but when more and more people say you are fat, you will know the seriousness of the matter, and there are more and more liars.

38. Children are happy when they are sad, but we adults can't. We have to eat a good meal or buy something.

It's windy outside today and I'm scared. If everyone else is blown away, I can't. That's a real pity.

40. I have a bad temper, bad grades, bad temper, bad personality and bad looks. The only thing that can make me proud is: easy to digest!

High EQ routine chat 2 1, "Do you like anything in particular?" "I don't think so, do you?" "I like you very much."

2. "Do you know where the most beautiful scenery here is?" "No" "You, you are the most beautiful scenery."

3. "I had an accident recently." What accident? "I accidentally fell in love with you."

4. "Why are you here?" "I missed you and came." "Didn't you just hang up the phone?" "But I want to see you!"

5. "Do you run fast?" "Not too fast." "That's great. I'm sure I can catch up with you. "

6. "I had a dream last night", "What did I dream about", "I dreamed of you, and my pants were wet in the morning", "I dreamed of having sex again" and "I dreamed that you took off your makeup and scared me"

7. "Actually, I am an inaccessible person." "Really? How close is it? " "It's just slow and hot, and it's not easy to get close." "Then let me know that it is not easy to get close with a kiss."

8. "It's the day when I love you." "Let's go and eat the whole family bucket." "Then we are a family."

9. "Do you have a map?" "What's the matter?" "I'm lost in your eyes?"

10, "Do you secretly like me" "No" "Then I secretly like" "hahaha"

1 1, "Girl, how about I give you a divination?" "Good" "Oh, girl, let me count. You don't need me in your life. "

12, "May I kiss you?" "No" "What did I ask just now?" "May I kiss you?" "yes."

13, "I want to travel." "Where do you want to go?" "Your bed is a day trip."

14, "Husband, wife and son are a family of three, what's left after the husband and son go out for a trip", "Wife" and "Alas, here it is"

15, "I find that you are all right, but there is one shortcoming", "What shortcoming" and "What am I missing in my life"

16, "I'm afraid to be with you" "huh?" Am I that fierce? "Did I bully you?" "No, just because I'm afraid of my wife."

17, "Do you know what kind of fruit I like best?" What fruit? "This is your pistachio."

18, "I like a little brother." "Then he must be very handsome." "You are too narcissistic."

19, "In the number of 1-9, I am 9, what will you be?" "8" "Why?" "I want to look at you."

20. "I think I'm a playboy." "Why?" "Because I like every look of you."

2 1, "Hold my hand" and "Why?" "Didn't the teacher say to bring valuables with you before?"

22. "Can you help me wash something?" "Wash what?" "Just like me."

23. "Do you know what is in the eyes of lovers?" "Shi" "No, you are here!"

24. "Hey, will you like me?" "no" "you won't, no, I can teach you!"

25. "Can you swim? No. ""So you need to study? " "Because we are going to fall in love!"

26. "You chose shortbread. Do you know what oil this is made of? " "Butter" "Do you know what oil I am made of?" "Lard?" "Love tiger oil."

27. "Still not sleeping?" "I can't sleep" and "Because I don't have arms"

28. "Can you imitate a woodpecker?" "How?" "Take my face as a tree."

29. "It's good that you have gained weight again" "Nani!" "Idiot, there is still a circle where I can like you."

30. "May I knock on your door?" "What door?" "the door of your heart"

3 1, "The fortune teller said that my five elements were missing", "What" and "You".

32. "I want to talk to you about something when you come out." "About what?" "love."

33. "I've been a little busy recently." What are you up to? "Busy liking you"

34. "Who are you?" "I am a tiger." "Stop lying, you belong to me."

35. "I think you make me cold", "Why" and "Because I have no resistance to you"

36. "Are you afraid of trouble?" "I'm not afraid." "Can you stay with me?"

High eq routine chat 3 1. Three modes of daily communication

According to NLP, there are three modes of daily communication: stacking, cutting and parallel. What do they mean?

1, on the heap

It means that the topic of communication leads to a larger and more abstract direction, which often ends the topic. For example, the following conversation scenario:

Boy: What's your hobby?

Girl: I like reading.

Boy: It seems that you are a person who loves learning.

Girl: Where, where.

Step 2 cut back

Contrary to the above, deletion refers to guiding the communication topic in a smaller and more specific direction and continuing to deepen the topic. For example:

Boy: What's your hobby?

Girl: I like reading.

Boy: Which author's book do you like best (below)?

Girl: My favorite is the Japanese writer Haruki Murakami.

Boy: Well, I have read his books, too. I prefer his Norwegian forest. What about you?

Girl: I think Armageddon and Cold Wonderland are better.

……

3. Parallel

Parallelism is to transfer the topic of communication to another topic, that is, to change the topic.

Boy: What's your hobby?

Girl: I like reading.

Boy: Awesome. Do you like watching movies besides reading? (parallel)

Girl: Of course, I like brain burning movies very much.

So, how do we apply these three communication modes to our lives?

Second, how to use it?

Draw a conclusion first, pile it up as "ending the topic", cut it down as "continuing the topic" and parallel it as "changing the topic"

Tell a true story, a friend of mine, who works in an accounting company, is depressed and angry because he is young and questioned by customers. So she vomited this customer to her boyfriend on WeChat. As a result, her boyfriend said to her, "Check yourself first, and don't find fault with customers."

Guess what the girl's reaction is? She was more depressed and angry.

Boys are more inclined to go to bed. For example, when you have a period, he says that you drink more hot water, and your work is not good. He says that you should review yourself first ... At this time, the message that boys send to girls is: I will give a solution to this problem, and there is no need to continue talking. The topic is over.

When girls are upset, they often don't want to solve it very much. What she needs is "attention", "understanding" and "emotional resonance". Boys should switch to communication mode: What are your unpleasant feelings? What do you think makes you angry? Wait a minute.

So, when you meet someone who doesn't want to talk, don't want to listen to a person, and don't want to respond to the pursuit of others, you can end the topic with more piles and less cuts, such as:

Boy: Are you off duty?

Girl: Off duty.

Boy: It's suddenly cold recently, so keep warm. Several people around me have caught a cold.

Girl: Well, thanks for asking. You are a good man (end of topic).

When you meet people who are willing to chat, whether they are lovers, gay friends/girlfriends or the objects you pursue, remember to use less on the pile and more on the cut. If a topic is really finished, we might as well use parallelism to continue talking on another topic.

In short, the organic combination of superposition, cutting and parallelism is the benign communication. Did you get it ~