Everyone has talent, but why can't most people bring their talent to the extreme?

Talent has both an innate part and an acquired part. The part of the development the day after tomorrow will not be discussed. Everyone's innate talent, if it can be experienced to the extreme, can at least enrich freedom. If you want to know your innate talent, whether it's checking the astrolabe, doing psychological tests, or checking fortune-telling software, I believe these will bring you some inspiration to understand your talent.

But! Knowing doesn't mean you can use it!

Being used doesn't mean being used in the right place!

If used in the right place, it doesn't mean that it can be converted into money immediately!

What do you mean?

For example, my astrolabe says that I am good at breakthrough art or entertainment. Two years ago, I looked at this line and didn't know what it was. At that time, I was still planning a children's paradise. Looking back now, my design was quite breakthrough, but it was a fantasy beyond the planning scope. My breakthrough made it impossible for me to love this well-behaved design post like a thorn. On the premise of not loving it, it's like working all night, working overtime until the early hours of the morning, and working continuously for 20 days. This is that when I put myself in the wrong position, my talent not only didn't give me extra points, but became an obstacle to my progress.

At the same time, in such a wrong position, how to give play to the talent of "being good at breaking through art or entertainment" when you are as tired as a dog? It's just chicken soup that you can forget in the blink of an eye after comforting yourself.

However, as I came into contact with awareness and began to use the tools of awareness and self-growth taught by awareness life, my dark side was cut open little by little. I followed the torrent of emotions, found the little pimple in my original life, released my emotions, and looked back at events from a positive perspective. Those negative conclusions and beliefs formed in the past collapsed instantly, and I also had more space to explore and develop my talents. Teacher Daozi often said that awareness is a demon mirror, faith is a demon, and emotion is the silk thread that faith manipulates our bodies. For me, awareness is more like a luminous diamond, which illuminates the unconscious mind unfamiliar with the mind through feeling, melts the silk thread of emotion, and finally restores the devil to its original appearance, just like the magma monster in Frozen in the Sea is actually lost in the heart of Fiyati, the goddess of life in the ocean. When the romance of the sea returned to the center of the sea, Fiati was still alive.

Event:

I remember when I was a child, my talent in mathematics was outstanding. Before teaching geometry in grade five, I could solve geometry problems that senior three students couldn't solve. In junior high school, the teacher talks about equations, and I play something else below. The teacher was very angry and asked me, is that okay? I'm not only talking about the answer, but also a very simple algorithm. However, it is a pity that my teacher asked me to take an Olympic math class taught by her husband ... Since then, my brilliant deeds in mathematics have ceased to exist. .....

Why? Because my bones are strange ... haha.

Actually, it's still my emotions and beliefs. Before my teacher discovered my talent in mathematics, I always did my homework at my teacher's house when I was in pure primary school. Before I finished writing, the teacher threw me a question bank. Anyway, I was idle, so I studied a math question bank as thick as a dictionary, which has already far exceeded the ability level of primary school students ... so junior high school math is too simple for me.

Note that at this time I am in a relatively free and voluntary state, without anyone's "spur", I have happily studied the question bank. There are no negative emotions such as fear, worry and compulsion in the whole process, which can even be understood as a boring child playing a math clearance game.

However, junior high school students were arrested and sent to the Olympics class, and the negative emotions were not a little bit.

First of all, I'm afraid I can't learn. Why am I afraid I can't learn? In fact, it was because I didn't feel how powerful I was at that time, because I felt that my mathematical talent was obtained by studying a question bank. In fact, I can say that I have made a lot of efforts, so I don't think it's a gift, but it's really ridiculous. The misunderstanding of talent really helped me, a child who was not confident and wanted to be appreciated by others.

So where does this false belief in talent come from? I think this is a collective misunderstanding. Even though people have always stressed the importance of hard work, saying that Einstein's genius is 1% inspiration and 99% sweat, most people still give genius a halo of rising step by step while doing nothing.

Callback events begin to be detected here:

How did the teacher make me feel when he said that?

Let me feel very panic, panic is afraid that I can't learn well.

What will happen if you don't learn well? Will be rejected and laughed at.

What happens when you are rejected and laughed at? Will be ashamed.

What are you ashamed of? I think I lied to someone.

What kind of person would lie? A bad person, a useless person

When did you ever feel this way when you were a child?

I remember one day my mother asked me a question about doing things. I said at that time that I liked the feeling of concentrating on doing things well, and I also said how hard I tried to do things well, which was very fulfilling and so on. So I told my mother according to my feelings now (I forgot the specific dialogue). After a while, my mother sneered that you were a net liar, and then Barabara collected a bunch of evidence of my procrastination. ......

I was really ashamed at that time. I feel that I have cheated others, and I don't know myself at all.

Repeated events in life:

So that in the later life, when others ask my opinion, I dare not say it. Always afraid of saying the wrong thing or "lying" and the subsequent exposure. So many times it is very clear, I am still not sure. And once I do say it, someone points out my mistake or puts forward different opinions, I will feel ashamed.

The truth of the matter is:

I'm just expressing my true feelings at that moment or that stage. The children are expressing what is happening now. When he is in a good state, he will naturally express positive things.

My mother didn't say this to humiliate me, but listening to me caused her anxiety and made her think I was lying, so my mother said this.

Look at the event again:

In fact, in any case, a primary school student can finish a super-class question bank by himself. I have a talent and interest in mathematics, but I judged that I was not smart enough to learn Olympiad. Where does this judgment come from?

When I was a child, I went to my grandmother's house, and my cousin was there. Grandma used to be a teacher, so she will teach us to write. After teaching us, we will have separate exams. That day, my brother got the first place in the exam. I am in the living room, and the door of the examination room is not high, but I feel dizzy. When I walked in and was tested, I didn't know why I couldn't write the aunt's character.

Grandma said: Your brother can write, but you can't.

Begin to perceive:

Grandma made me feel inferior to others, and I was stupid.

What happens if you can't compare with others?

I will always be said, and that kind of saying will make me feel humiliated and make me feel that I am not good enough.

This kind of situation will be repeated in later life:

I am anxious when I meet something to recite, and I am always afraid that I can't recite it. Deep down, I believe I am stupid. Even though the word smart has been in the teacher's comments since childhood, I don't believe it in my heart.

The truth of the matter:

Is it silly that I can't write a Chinese character? Is it because I don't learn as fast as my brother used to, so I can't compare with others? Of course not. In fact, my grandmother had been teaching my brother for some time at that time. It was the first time that my grandmother taught me, and it was also the first time that I really began to learn to write. In addition, my grandmother's home was a strange environment for me at that time, and I was not studying in a calm state. I am stupid and can't compare with other people's conclusions.

But the fact is, the "wolf" I was afraid of in front and the "tiger" I was afraid of behind are both fake, but that's because I never realized my emotions before, and I never went deep into what "wolf and tiger" are, whether it's true or not. In this way, without knowing it, I imprisoned my inner talent in an amber ball made of my beliefs and emotions.

How many such stories are there in everyone's life? Maybe you can recall where your talent is, but what did you believe in your heart that hindered your exploration?