Nan, a master of Chinese studies, tells us with experience that if we want to live an open-minded life, we must have an insight into human nature.

Jin Huan, a master of Chinese studies, once said:

When he was giving a lecture, an entrepreneur came to give a lecture every day, and then suddenly he didn't come.

Later, a classmate told him that the reason why the entrepreneur didn't come was because Mr. Nan Jin Huan scolded him in class every day.

Teacher nan huaijin is puzzled: "Why?"

Because when Mr Nan Jin Huan talked about giving, he said that people wanted Dobusch, so the entrepreneur felt that Mr Nan Jin Huan was saying that he had money but didn't give.

People often ask for it like this: put something that doesn't belong to them on their heads.

Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it.

No matter when and where, we should pay attention to things or events themselves and let go of "I" in order to gain a good mood.

One year, when Master Nan was practicing calligraphy, a friend saw it and said:

"You will achieve something in the future!"

After listening to what my friend said, South Ring Gold never practiced calligraphy again. He said:

"I don't want to be restricted by this bamboo tube. Like Yu Youren, I write to people every day. I am really trapped by this word. "

Later, Master nan huaijin also said that no matter what he was doing, he would remind himself not to be too fascinated, even when he was studying.

When Nan Huai Jin said these words, he wanted to tell us that we should do everything: we can afford it, let it go.

He later said that it was wrong to say that a person put it down without doing anything.

Because I didn't pick it up, how can I put it down? It's like something you haven't caught. How can you let it go?

The ability to grow and learn, but don't be too indulgent, everything is measured.

For example, this over-studied poem:

"The article in Sanjiang, Sanjiang article in my hometown. The article in my hometown is my brother's, and my brother learns articles from me. "

Most people don't do many planned things, not because they don't have time, but because they are lazy.

Master nan huaijin said that everyone yearns for the comfort brought by comfort.

One day, a student came to his office at seven o'clock in the morning and saw him working there. He said:

"Teacher, get up so early!"

Nan huaijin later told the students that he didn't get up so early, but he was reading there all night last night, watching the morning break, and thinking about what to do at nine o'clock, he simply didn't sleep.

He also said that if you let yourself go to sleep, you will sleep in the dark. If you don't sleep, you won't feel depressed until three in the afternoon.

The purpose of telling this story is not to tell everyone not to sleep, but to work and study day and night.

I want you to know, but I want you to know that you can put down a little comfort you crave every day and ask yourself to be more diligent.

Make a little progress every day before you get old, and don't regret it!

If you don't work hard, you may be scolded for not knowing.

Kou Zhun, the minister of the Song Dynasty, wanted his friends to evaluate him one day, and his friends asked him to go back and see Huo Guangchuan of the Han Dynasty.

Kou Zhun didn't know that his friend said he was unlearned until he went back to see The Biography of Huo Guang.

When I went for a massage, the massage technician patted my body gently and felt very comfortable.

Master nan huaijin said:

"People are often like this, taking slight pain as the highest enjoyment."

If the masseur is stronger, he will feel pain.

People have to experience all kinds of pains in their life, and only those who learn to have fun in pain will enjoy life.

A friend was told by the doctor that he was terminally ill. When Nan Huai Jin visited him, he smiled and said to him:

"This doctor doesn't know anything. Don't trust him. I saw your face and touched your pulse. You must live to be over 90 years old. "

Then his friend really recovered.

Master nan huaijin also said that if a person is down and out, when he goes to borrow money, you say to him, "Don't worry, I will pay you back what you owe."

In fact, you may be poorer than him, but your words saved him and helped him through the crisis.

Minande of ancient Greece also said:

"For people, language is a doctor who cures troubles. Because only it has incredible power to heal the soul. Moreover, ancient sages called language a panacea. "

When there is no financial resources, we can't give money;

Without material resources, we can't give materials;

When there is no power, we can't give power;

But language can be given, no matter what the situation, where and when.

Kind words with others are warmer than cloth.