What is the key to whether a couple can go to the end?

Do men and women know about marriage and love? Like is the joy of falling in love at first sight, but love is long and tireless? .

So, what does a long-term marriage depend on?

For a long time, people always think that whether a man and a woman can get to the end after marriage can be attributed to countless factors that are inconsistent with the three views. What makes people laugh and cry is that some people think that husband and wife are? The numerology is wrong, is it incompatible with the zodiac? Some people pay attention to horoscope marriage, and attribute all disharmony and emotional imbalance to horoscope incompatibility.

Funnily enough, is the relationship between people really related to the zodiac sign? This statement does not mean that the three views are not more convincing.

Just, need to focus on is:

Many people with different views have come to the end in harmony; There are also many people who agree with the three views, but both of them became monks halfway. In fact, whether the husband and wife can go to the end has nothing to do with whether the three views are harmonious or not.

From this perspective, whether a marriage can last for a long time depends on other factors besides the three views. What could it be?

Two people who have been together for a long time will unconsciously have common interests and opinions, that is to say, the three views can gradually meet the conditions of the three views through the guidance of one party in the process of running in with each other, and different interests and hobbies will also cultivate common hobbies through getting along.

But there is only one thing that you can't change no matter how hard you try, and it is also directly related to whether the husband and wife can go to the end, and that is: personality.

Many people don't quite understand the relationship between three views and personality:

Judging from the three views, he thinks it is wrong, and his personality determines whether he wants to do it or not.

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We often say that a woman's marriage depends on a man's family style. In fact, besides the three views, it is also an observation of personality. Similarly, men will look at these when choosing women.

It is not difficult to deny that the common contradictions between husband and wife all come from: the selfish party who does not know how to be grateful and empathetic gradually worsens the feelings between husband and wife.

These two points are also the imbalance of husband and wife's unequal personality.

In the Thai drama Wife 20 18, Tarn and Nana can be said to have given countless couples a vivid lesson in marriage management.

Nana, once a strong woman in the workplace, resolutely became a housewife for her husband Tarn, allowing her children to grow up carefree and her husband to concentrate on his work without any trivial matters.

Tarn, a good man at work, a good buddy in the eyes of friends, a good boss in the eyes of subordinates and a good man in the eyes of his wife.

At first glance, Tarn and Nana were a godsend.

However, Nana doesn't know about Tarn's past love history, and she doesn't know that the real reason why Tarn broke up with his ex-girlfriend Mu Ning is because of Tarn's playboy, which is a direct manifestation of his lack of respect for feelings. It is difficult for people who have such behavior to correct it all their lives.

As expected, in the face of Ganya and Nana's marriage, Tarn knew that his wife was virtuous and gentle, and his children were smart and lovely, guarding the happiness that others could not catch up with, but he still did not refuse the temptation of other opposite sex and broke through the last line of defense with Ganya.

Finally, I left Nana and abandoned the most perfect wife.

The failure of the marriage between Tarn and Nana completely broke what people often say? People with different views can't go to the end? Gorgeous rhetoric.

Because Tarn, as a high emotional intelligence executive, and Nana, who used to be a strong woman, are in harmony, but for them, their personalities are out of balance.

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Tarn's character is not self-control in lust, and those who often lose self-control in lust will lose their sense of responsibility and awe in marriage and love, so the feelings between husband and wife will be unbalanced.

Moreover, people who are not self-controlled in lust know that everything should not be controlled, and they don't know that they can't control themselves, or that their desires are beyond the scope of self-control, and they have also amplified their IQ and EQ, preferring to think about countermeasures after a while.

So-called? How can I walk by the river often without wet shoes? There are two unforgivable things in love and marriage: domestic violence and betrayal. No matter what kind of behavior is bad, it is almost impossible to have a good end.

Moreover, in the concept of whether marriage and love can last long, the three views and personality are closely related in marriage and love.