People say marriage is indestructible. What should I do?

Marriage needs the joint efforts of both husband and wife, so it is necessary to communicate well, understand and respect each other, tolerate and support each other, and care for each other when things go wrong, so that marriage will be happy.

Remember a principle, your happiness is the most important! Don't delay others and wronged yourself!

1. Learn to label others and define their status in your life, such as close friends, superficial brothers, competitive relationships, enemies and so on.

2. It probably determines your attitude towards the people under each label, such as frankness, flattery, neutrality, vigilance, vigilance and hostility.

3. Don't speak too fast, first think clearly about the relationship between yourself and the other party, analyze the purpose of others (I can't do it myself 100%), and then decide whether to speak. Don't say death, just use rhetorical questions, use possibility, probably, maybe.

3. Learn to change the subject and play Tai Chi if you don't want to talk about it. Don't change the subject, smile more meaningfully. Maybe, maybe, maybe an answer. Vagueness can also be clearly known. People who have a good relationship with you sometimes don't want you to make it too clear.

Since I chose them, I must have known something about their family before I got married, so I should have been psychologically prepared. You have to face it. After all, you are elders and not unreasonable people. Don't fight the cold war, it will only make things out of control.