My stepmother is eight years older than me. How should I accept her?

Think of her as an elder. No matter how old her stepmother is, she is theoretically her second mother, so she should accept it frankly.

No matter what the reason, the pain caused by the breakdown and incompleteness of a family is indescribable. The topic of remarriage is unacceptable to most children, especially when the stepmother is only a few years older than herself. Some people will feel that they can't stay at home at first, so they will choose to run away from home to escape the situation at home.

During the time when they move out, their father and stepmother will try their best to find their own explanations, but no matter how they explain, there will still be contradictions in their hearts. First of all, they don't want their father to marry another woman. Second, they don't know how to get along with a woman who is only a few years older than themselves. In what capacity should they get along? Inner contradictions are difficult to resolve.

In fact, I should try to understand her, try to accept her, and observe whether she really comes for her father instead of money, and see if she can take on the responsibility of being a housewife instead of spending the money earned by her father every day. If she can really take care of her father three times a day and always care about his health, such a stepmother is qualified.

A woman can be financially independent of her father, but also take care of her father's diet and daily life. Moreover, the age gap between the two people is so big. It can be said that this woman is worthy of respect, and it is the right choice to accept such a stepmother.