What is the psychology of my girlfriend who won't let me see her in Zhihu?

Now the pace of life is so fast, and the relative pressure of life is particularly great. The pressure that we have nowhere to vent is in the pure land of Zhihu. Not only your girlfriend won't let you see it, but also my boyfriend won't let you see it. I believe that most women will not choose to let their other half watch their social apps, because our life is in the real world, not based on various virtual networks.

Moreover, everyone will have their own privacy and won't let you check Zhihu, just like when your girlfriend checks your mobile phone, your discomfort is the same. It's not that if you don't show it to you, someone is lying to you outside, but that you want a relatively private space where she can vent her feelings, including her emotional problems with you, in this virtual network where no one knows who she is. I don't think your girlfriend's Zhihu just wants to show you. I don't think any friends in reality want to see it. After all, WeChat Weibo QQ has its own friends, relatives, bosses and so on. It's a place without self. To put it bluntly, there is no freedom of speech. Some things that can't be said are particularly straightforward, and what you want to say is not casually said.

So choose to go to a place where no one knows, let go of yourself and be yourself freely, because it is really too difficult to be yourself in this era. Maybe on Zhihu, your girlfriend can do what she wants, say what she wants, and spit on others in various ways, without worrying about being seen and gossiping about her, and you can also ask for help for the problems in your relationship, so that you can fall in love better.

If you still don't feel at ease, you still want to know your girlfriend's Zhihu. You can build a trumpet to pay attention to her and see the questions she answers. Maybe she is particularly strong during the day and will take off a lot of camouflage at night. She is just a weak woman, waiting for someone to take care of her. Maybe she is angry with her boss and unhappy at work today, but she doesn't want to spit it all out to her boyfriend for fear that he will find himself nagging and annoying.

In fact, two people need a relatively independent space together. In this space, I can do what I want, but I am often blocked. Moreover, in this space, my wife and people around me supported me and didn't throw cold water on me. The strongest relationship between them is trust. If you pay attention to your girlfriend's Zhihu and find anything unusual, you can ask her openly. If you fall in love, it will be honest, regardless of the happy ending.