Funny talk about breaking up also has psychological tricks.

Don't always blame yourself for meeting people badly. Sometimes I fall out with my ex-boyfriend because of improper breakup. After all, they are former lovers, and no one wants to be hated by love.

The first move: break up peacefully.

This method only applies to rational and reasonable men. Most sisters don't want to break up with such a man, do they If you want to break up, it is definitely inappropriate. At this time, you might as well tell the truth and tell him where your problem is. For example, you no longer call each other, or your personalities are really uncoordinated. He will accept it frankly and suggest that we all have a "farewell dinner" and kiss goodbye or something. If you fully praise his reliability, Excellence, intelligence and other advantages when breaking up, then your breakup will be more pleasant.

The second measure: slowly cool down.

This is a common way to break up. For men with normal IQ and good judgment, the effect is quick. You always don't answer his calls, return his text messages, and make excuses not to see him. Doesn't he understand what you mean? But for humanitarian reasons, I should try to take care of my ex-boyfriend's emotions step by step. When you suddenly cut off all contact with him, even the most powerful man is prone to heart disease.

The third measure: play the yellow-faced woman.

In order to make your ex-boyfriend "hate" you, you need to destroy your image regardless, don't wear makeup, don't comb your hair, and you'd better wear anti-fashion clothes. Local, or LadyGaGa-style clothes should work miracles. When your ex-boyfriend is at a loss, you should tell him at the right time: "honey, this is the real me." Make sure the ex-boyfriend spits out with a spittoon in his hand.

By analogy, there are other similar tricks, such as "humiliating him in front of his friends" and "nothing is good for him". The point is, what he hates and what you do always touches his fidgety nerves.

The fourth measure: playing tricks on the gods.

When he played mahjong four times, you whispered in his ear, "No wonder the last fortune teller said that I was a nun in my last life, which would make the closest people lose every bet." He rear-ended his car, so you quickly took out your handkerchief and exclaimed, "Oh, I am really Foucault's life." He didn't win the lottery again. You pretended to drag him into this. "I don't blame you. The fortune teller said I had no property. "

Every time you say such a thing, you should be serious and pretend that you are talking to yourself, not to him at all. Over time, it is inevitable that there will be some small haze in the ex-boyfriend's heart. At that time, he will definitely take the initiative to say to you: "Let's break up."