Zhihu, can you believe that blind fortune teller will divorce?

Should I believe that fortune tellers may divorce?

Not credible. Fortune telling only represents your innate destiny pattern, and you can change it through your efforts the day after tomorrow.

Recently, I heard such a true story that makes people laugh and cry. After several years of hard work, a couple overcame the space distance and various practical obstacles before they came together to form a couple. Who knows that they have only been married for three months, so they can't go up, so they quickly went through the divorce procedures and became strangers. The reason for divorce is simple. Originally, the young couple were working in different places and their parents were not in the same city. After marriage, they plan to go back to the city where the man is, so as to be filial. Who knows that as soon as he got home, the man's mother immediately gave the new wife a slap in the face, pretending that marrying a certain family is a certain family, and from then on, she must abide by the family rules ... I want to know who the post-80 s woman is now, and how can she bear such heavy words and discipline? As a result, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law broke up in discord, and her husband was caught in the middle. This is the first time I have encountered such a thing, and I am in a dilemma. I don't know what to do. As a result, the young couple quarreled again This is also a common thing in family life. It happened that this woman was the only child in the family. She grew up under the love of her parents, and suddenly she was very sad and conscious. In addition, she couldn't adapt to the later mother-in-law relationship. In the third month of marriage, she decisively filed for divorce, and the man was exhausted. In this way, two 26-year-old young people suddenly became divorced people in society.

Marriage is a real event that needs to be managed for a lifetime. I believe that in today's era when everything is "flashing", this is not surprising. Just looking at it is more sad. Did marriage deceive us or did we pollute the sanctity of marriage? When you meet someone who is looking for a love marriage with the slogan "Forever, grow old together", have you ever thought about how real eternity comes about? Is that just a simple yearning, not a dream you want to realize?

It turns out that as the saying goes, falling in love is easier than getting along. Falling in love is a simple matter for two people, but getting married is a matter for two families. In love season, lovers always try their best to present a beautiful side and are willing to beautify and tolerate each other. But after the real marriage, the tense nerves suddenly relaxed: we are husband and wife, we are our own people, we don't have to be afraid of losing them all the time, we can be ourselves. Then, each other's nature is gradually revealed. After the initial fresh period of marriage, both husband and wife will enter the running-in period. Wise and mature people will accept this process steadily and work hard to get through this stage wholeheartedly in exchange for the stability of marriage and love. On the other hand, people who have a poor understanding of marriage and low psychological endurance will begin to feel desperate as soon as they enter the running-in period of marriage, and feel that marriage is different from what they expected. Marriage changes the quality of love and beloved, produces negative thinking under gloomy psychology, and promotes the disintegration of marriage.

Marriage involves not only running-in between husband and wife, but also getting along with other family members. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem, not to mention the integration of family concepts and values, which is always difficult at first, but who doesn't go through such a stage in China's marriage? Strangers always need time to get to know each other, learn to love each other and find ways to get along. This process is long and needs an accepting heart and a positive attitude. If you give up when you encounter setbacks, marriage will be as fragile as paper.

Problems in marriage have existed since ancient times. In ancient times, people were able to overcome and persist because people paid attention to fame in the past. Divorce is an ugly thing. If there is no way out, they will naturally find ways to overcome the problems they encounter, thus resulting in persistence and tolerance. Moreover, in the past, people had less contact with the opposite sex, and the chances of entering marriage and extramarital affairs after divorce decreased, thus reducing the chances of being half-hearted.

In today's society, the openness of people's ideas and the freedom of emotions invisibly make people lose their determination to stick to their marriage and make it as fragile as paper. However, what is the most beautiful yearning in our hearts? Is that just a slogan? Even Jacky Cheung said in an interview that "divorce will be said when quarreling, but that's just not calm angry words."

In the face of marriage, you can be discouraged and disappointed, but please don't forget the eternal yearning in your heart. You must know that beauty needs wisdom and a firm and positive attitude. Is there a perfect marriage between husband and wife in this world? Let go of a person's hand easily, how many people can you hold in this life? If we turn the idea of giving up into the determination to face and solve problems, I believe that the solution will always be more difficult than it is. Don't think that marriage will be smoother if you change partners. Love may be different, but the way to run a marriage is similar. If you must, please change your attitude towards marriage. People who let go easily will never find beautiful legends, because marriage is a career that needs to be run for a lifetime.