How to pick up girls?

There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with either twin. Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who has never graduated from primary school is kind to you, earning 600 yuan a month and buying you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft), and willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored. So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself. Finally, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser".

Edit paragraph 6. Pick up girls quickly

Lesson 1 Smart eyes know electricity:

Beautiful women also discharge? The whole world will know that a man loves a woman. As soon as he was electrified, it was clear at a glance. But women are much more subtle in this respect, and discharging is an art for them. Of course, art can sometimes make people feel confused. Therefore, the pronoun of "people" who are casual and affectionate often misses many "present" around them. [Let's see how beautiful women discharge? ]

Lesson 2 Prerequisites:

The classic lyrics "Beauty, Beauty, I love you, just like a mouse loves rice" have almost become a man's motto, and the way men "languish for Iraq" can't help sighing: it's all the beauty's fault. Although there are many women in the world, there are few beautiful women, and there are many men who yearn for beautiful women. So who will have the chance to win beautiful women? In addition to the necessary luck, I'm afraid it's more your unique qualities that make a beautiful woman move [what basic qualities do you need to win a beautiful woman? ]

Lesson 3 Side Door Left Road:

When a man goes out "hunting" and meets the right woman, he doesn't know what tricks he will use to ignite the spark of love. Eye contact? Language flirting? Or gently lick each other's palms with your fingers? [The strongest trick to learn to pick up girls]

How to hold her hand:

If you carefully observe some photos or magazine covers, you will find that women's hands are the easiest to be lonely. If you don't make something with props, you will feel that the model is too dull. In the world of men and women, don't let your female companion's hand "idle": hold her hand when crossing the road, and hold her hand when it is freezing ... If you love someone, please remember to "hold her hand" first.

Lesson 2 dating guide

Why do you always fail? Why is God so unfair to you? Don't complain, mastering skills in love is as difficult as meeting the right person. For a new relationship, a successful date is the key to perfect love. How to perform well on a date? What should I wear for a date and what should I pay attention to when eating? What kind of information did she hint to you? What the hell is she thinking [how does dating shine? ]

Lesson 3 Kissing Cheating:

Most men regard kissing as sexual foreplay, and their wishful thinking is how to get through customs quickly, but this impatient attitude makes most women disgusted! Although everyone has a different definition of the length of a kiss, on average, female friends still think that a man's kiss is not enough ... [Where is the best place to kiss] [Look at the six men that women want most] [Pay attention to the thoughts of ten types of women when they fall in love]

LESSON 1 Introduction to SMS:

Holding your hand, I have been swimming in the wind and waves all my life, playing love songs gently in my heart. A gentle kiss is always sweet in my heart. I hope to be with you until the end of my life. In fact, how can people in two of a kind be together all their lives? If there is an afterlife, I would like to find you again and throw my love back. Happiness has no end, and love has no end until eternity! [Love SMS of Love Juexue]

Talking about the past and the present:

As the saying goes, "A good man has no good wife, but Lai Han has a wife." Numerous examples in history prove that this statement is correct. If you haven't studied history much, look around and you will find that this is a common phenomenon in the field of love. Love is like a battlefield. When the opportunity comes, whether you are ready or not, don't fight for it. Later, I could only squeeze into the crowd of onlookers and sigh, "A hero has no good wife, but Lai Han has a wife." It seems that shame is the first element of marrying a beautiful woman!

Lesson 3 Veteran Experience:

No money, no diamonds, they are all experienced veterans of love. They are unmarried, their careers have just started, and their economic situation is below average, but they know how to please their girlfriends and express their sincerity. How painful would you be if their methods were put on you? [Talking about skills and spending less money can be romantic] [Thirty-six strategies for men to pick up girls] [List of lies that women often tell]

Edit paragraph 7. How to pick up girls

Pick up girls-don't be afraid, your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. If your initial confession is rejected by her, it is normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking? Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved. If you encounter setbacks, you will leave immediately, never talk to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. While you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may regret it in her heart! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you and never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart. She will think that you don't really like him, or how can you just give her up? Some people say that it is really difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. However, there are few examples to the contrary. Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead-bound, which will lead to a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If they don't succeed, they won't regret it. Who makes people like it? I hate people who follow blindly, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend. If they are men, they should be brave. Girls are sensitive and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples can be seen everywhere. Girls are very gentle with their boyfriends. Moreover, most good girls are devoted to their love. Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, and don't be so timid. On the one hand, people feel that you are unmanly, on the other hand, people feel uncomfortable. However, the most important thing is: in the end, you get nothing. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't expect others to give it to you! By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like, and girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I'd rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets.

Edit this short message about picking up girls.

1, the beauty of poetry lies in awakening the inner romance, the brilliance of prose lies in echoing the soul, the charm of novels lies in extending the horizon of life, and the charm of short messages lies in reminding you that being remembered is a kind of happiness! 2. Giving up is helplessness, giving up is incompetence, not giving up is ignorance, and not giving up is persistence. I am willing to keep this attachment to you all the time, waiting for you, waiting for you ... 3. My thoughts about you are like orchids in the valley, with a faint fragrance hanging over you, and my blessing is endless concern floating in your heart. There may be thousands of miles of ice and snow in Wan Li, but your enthusiasm and warmth make me feel that there is no winter in life. I never dare to expect too much, because I know that the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. I can only strive to pursue what I want, like a moth to the fire, no matter how it ends, I have no regrets! 6. If we are destined to pass each other in this life, all I can do is to deeply wish you happiness forever! Then accept all my little feelings and look forward to meeting you again in my next life ... 7. It is foolish to love someone. Why am I still stubborn! It's quick to forget someone. Why do I still have your shadow! 8. If one day you think of someone who loved you, I will always be one of them. If one day no one in this world loves you anymore, then I am definitely dead! 9. My love for you can't be measured by distance. No matter where you are, my heart is by your side. My love, you can only feel with your heart. 10, I love you so inexplicably and without hesitation. I know I won't be the only one in your life, but you are the love of my life! 2 1, time is a chain, happiness is a bead, and you can be happy for a lifetime by stringing beads on your chest; Happiness is a stone, and trouble is sand. If you miss the sand with a sieve, the stone will accompany you all your life. 22. In my mind, I asked Hongyan about the bright moon and spring breeze a million times. I hope Hongyan will bring my attachment to you. May the bright moon bring you my greetings; May the spring breeze convey my regards to you! 23. I miss you My acacia grows in the spring rain and dew, like a green vine winding around a tree, and you are an evergreen tree in my heart. 24. I think you are just a mobile phone, and you can stick to my face every time you call. I think you are a watch. You can read it at least ten times a day. Honey, I miss you! ! 25. Cloudy weather made you and I sing affectionate love songs. Xiaoxue, who sleeps in heaven, finds the joy of winter. I wish you a colorless, tasteless, silent, day and night blessing. 26. If I can, I want to hold you gently in my arms. If I can, I want to kiss you gently; Your happiness is my happiness, your sadness is my sadness, and I will share half of everything with you forever. Today, the night is still dark, the air is still cold, and the stars are still bright. I feel heartbroken that I don't love you, but tears in my eyes tell me that I don't love you enough. 28. Why, I miss you so much. Even in the middle of the night, I still can't sleep. . . 29. Leaving you is my best choice. Although I love you very much, it pains me to make such a choice. I know, since you don't have my place in your heart, why should I forget my infatuation? 30. It seems that there is no difference between thinking of you during the day and at night. In every trance, the cold dream is like your fingers passing through my eyes, just like your voice and smile.

Edit paragraph 8. Men have to do it.

1, the most important thing for a man is to be strong. Those men who complain at the first failure, feel depressed and fall down and can't get up are definitely not allowed. Men should be able to give women a sense of security. If you find a husband who can't take care of you, you will often cry in front of you about your misfortune and make you suffer the pain that he can actually recover. This is a great failure. 2. loyalty. Needless to say, I believe all women don't want their husbands to have an affair. 3, there is tolerance. You must not find a petty man, even if he loves you. But it's selfish to be jealous because of a little thing, whether it's going out on business with your boss for entertainment, or getting together with friends who haven't been around for years for personal reasons, making a scene after going home or moping around for a long time. Of course, he will say that he is jealous because he loves you, but don't forget to love someone and set her free. Sisters should never be housewives who are left at home by men in various ways and only do laundry and cooking. It's not that housewives are bad, but as women in this society, they should have their own social circle, be independent and strive for self-improvement, and never find men who can't give themselves free space. 4. Good health. Don't ask how powerful and tall that person is, but be sure to be in good health. There is something wrong with a woman's health, which can be called weakness. What do you say if a person is sick all day? 5, don't be a good baby. No one says filial piety is wrong. Filial men are very kind. However, everything between husband and wife is for xxxxxx's advice, and they have no opinion of their own. They always say, "Mom said. . . . . . . Mom said. . . . . . "Such a good baby in front of a mother must be unnecessary. Remember, you married a man, not a man's mother. 6. Love me, love my dog. If a man really loves you, he will love everything about you, including your bad habits, your friends and your family. . . . . If he can't stand your friends or family members' defects in some aspects or are dissatisfied with the people around you, then as a smart woman, he should try to avoid meeting them; If he is demanding, ask you to break up with them, don't hesitate to dump him! 7. Have a stable income. Love is very important, but it should be based on bread. You don't have to be rich, but life must be guaranteed. The so-called but unlike those who have been poor together, if a man can't even get the money to buy milk powder for his children, and he starts to worry about the mortgage next month at the beginning of this month, then you will have to suffer with him. 8. Self-confidence. A man who exudes confidence can make women rely on it with confidence. 9. Appearance matching. Don't ask him to be handsome, but if he doesn't seem to cause public outrage, you can't be a beautiful woman. Find a short, dark fat man around you. 10, careful and interesting. He may not remember your uncle's and brother-in-law's birthdays, but he must remember your birthday and wedding anniversary. These two days are very important in married life. It is best to go out for romance and receive gifts. 1 1, no bad habits. You can smoke a little and drink a little, but not too much. You don't want to go back to face a drunk every day, do you? He still smells of smoke from time to time, right? 12, strong social skills. It doesn't mean that you must take the initiative to laugh at people like that and hold hands like that, and you don't need him to be tough in social affairs, but you can't be shy. When we go out to socialize together, all he knows is to stand aside and giggle, but he can't find a topic to talk to your colleagues. A man who needs you to put on a show will make you lose face. 13, masculine. By male chauvinism, I don't mean male chauvinism. For a man who doesn't do any typical housework at home and reaches for food with his clothes, this is not desirable. Masculinity means that when you are bullied outside, he can stand up for you without hesitation and really protect you. Only this, this man is worthy of your consideration and commitment for life. 14, responsible for. A man must have a sense of responsibility and dare to undertake what he does, whether it is official or private. The kind of man who pushes something on others is not only despicable, but also shameful. Have a peaceful heart. The world is used to measuring a person's value by his career success. In fact, a person's value lies in whether his existence is important to others. Even if that person can't achieve as brilliant achievements as others in his career, his ordinary life is as important as the people around him, which means that he is valuable. If a man can't look at his gains and losses with a peaceful heart, and he is cynical all day, complaining about social injustice and unfair life, then being with him will also affect your mentality, which will easily make your mind bear extreme pressure and lead to your unhappy life.

Edit paragraph 9. The feeling of picking up girls

I am a girl. I am disgusted to see that some boys want to chase girls they like but dare not chase them, and they also want others to chase them backwards. From a girl's point of view, I know more about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer. When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking? Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved. If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. And when you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart. She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up? Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary. Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead and pester them to fight, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after encountering some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend. If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the sweetness of the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded. Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you! By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets! Life is beautiful, enjoy it and learn to find it!

Edit paragraph 10. You must know how to pick up girls.

The first address for women to meet is "Dear You-You". Maybe she will feel puzzled for a while, but this is a language that can stimulate women's love. The second theory is that women are generally weak in theory, so women will admire men who are good at numbers and physics. When you get along with your female companion, you might as well talk about some theoretical topics occasionally. She is likely to show respect to you. Third Decisiveness A woman's decisiveness is always weak in front of men. Even if it is a small matter, it is often necessary to seek the opinions of women. It is precisely because of such indecision that a man with a mother-in-law can hardly become an ideal object for a woman. The fourth hint is that women have a high degree of acceptance of hints. If someone told her that she was beautiful today, she probably really thought she was beautiful. Trying to say to the woman you like: "I don't know why, but now I suddenly feel harmonious" is not like an outsider! Women in the fifth direction have a poor sense of direction. Take her to a place she is not familiar with, and she will hold you tightly or gradually hold your hand. If a woman can't go home alone, she must accompany her to send her home safely, which is more effective than pursuing language. The sixth mechanical ability is also the weak link of ordinary women. A man might as well try to repair the telephone, video recorder and other electrical appliances and show her your mechanical ability! The seventh child is also one of women's weaknesses. Women are more likely to have a good impression on men who like children. If a woman with a baby comes face-to-face, and you are Doby baby at this time, I believe your female companion will also feel this warmth and become more and more fond of you. Eighth, white, round and bright women especially like "white, round and bright" things. Walking in the moonlight or dating in a place where flowers are in full bloom are all good choices. The ninth secret is women's weakness. Women only tell secrets to very close friends. Now that she has told you the secret, she has positioned each other in the same consciousness. Don't neglect the use of this weakness, if it can be used in the pursuit of the way, the effect is extraordinary. The tenth kind of music is also a weakness. Jazz music can excite women. Instead of taking her to the movies, it is better to go to concerts or concerts, especially for young women. Eleventh sympathy for women is very easy to have sympathy for things, and because of this, even men who have no good feelings will have sympathy. Try to wait for the right woman without an umbrella in rainy days. I believe there will be some progress. The twelfth magical word "marriage" is one of the most attractive words. However, don't cheat a woman's feelings by "getting married". This means is too despicable. The premise of exploiting this weakness is "really planning to get married". If you really have this plan, you must make it clear as soon as possible, because the most unsuccessful thing for men is to delay confession. Thirteenth intellectuality praises a woman's appearance more than her intellectuality. Just praising the appearance can't make all women happy. You can praise her for "chatting with an intellectual like you for the first time today". The fourteenth bouquet of roses and diamonds is the weakness of women's vanity. If economic conditions permit, it is best to send flowers such as roses or cattleya, and jewelry such as diamonds. The fifteenth color observation of women's favorite colors is helpful for further understanding. Positive women prefer white, while red women prefer brown and are more cautious. Women who like yellow are generous; Women who prefer blue are more difficult to get along with and have uncertain personalities; If you associate with older women, try to choose women who like purple; Women who like black are more likely to accept sexual demands. In the sixteenth season, women responded to the seasons earlier than men. When pursuing women, remember that "clothing is an advanced method". Seventeen hairstyles are a weakness of women. When a woman's hairstyle is praised, she will be very happy. Praise the hairstyle more and you will get good results. Fortune telling is the biggest weakness. To make good use of this weakness, it is best to read your palm or face; Because you can touch each other's hands or faces through fortune telling, make good use of it. Touch here refers to the touch of hands and shoulders. We can find that men who are better at taking part in accidental amusement seem to convince women more, which is the reason. The twentieth kind of soft feeling is aimed at women's psychological and emotional weaknesses. Most women like curves. The design of architecture is also the same for people, and women are more likely to be attracted by men who make people feel gentle. Twenty-first horizontal characters love horizontal characters is a woman's "weakness." All kinds of popular women's magazines are arranged horizontally. You can use some horizontal lines to communicate with women. Don't forget-English is the standard horizontal character. Article 22 The cleanliness of men with pure white shirts is what women pay attention to. Please prepare a pure white shirt, a fresh and clean hairstyle and clothes with the right taste, otherwise all pursuits will be impossible. The sound of the 23 rd telephone A woman's ear will have a huge and rapid response to the bass. Even if there is friction between the two sides during the day, try to call her at night. Maybe everything will turn around. Remember! Men who talk too loudly are usually not the type that women appreciate. After the 24th additional date, everyone will say goodbye, but if you hold her hand again, it may just be a friend's feeling. After this handshake, you will suddenly feel like a "couple". When you write a letter to a woman, you will add "I love you" at the end of the letter and write it twice. This kind of action will definitely make women move.

How to plan a successful date?

1. Too many dinners and gifts will only get you into the friendship zone. You should attract her with your humor, not a gift. 2. Give yourself hints and subconscious: Dating is to test her and see if she is worthy of your continued friendship, not to chase her. 3. Contact her by email to establish a sense of familiarity. After a few emails, call her to confirm the appointment time. 4. On the phone, joke with her and ask her if she is an eccentric person. This will subtly show that you are a humorous and normal person. Tell her to call you in your room, "so I won't wait around because you are late." Besides, it will be easier to take her back to your room after the date. 6. Use the "Slice Test"-ask her if she can't keep the appointment for any reason, and solve these problems before dating again. 7. Tell her "We are just friends"-tell her that you just want to be friends with her and let her know that you have no more ideas and don't need her. 8. Make her feel that you just want to have a cup of coffee with her. Don't leave her in your room for a while. 9. In the coffee shop, relax and treat her as your best friend. Lean back and discuss some interesting topics, such as drama, violence, scandals, black humor, and act arrogant and funny. There is no need to praise her at this time, but later. 10. If you plan to spend more time with her, you can go shopping with her and go to some interesting shops. When shopping with her, try to separate from her from time to time, showing that you have no need for her and have no intention of sticking to her.