Chatting with high emotional intelligence

Chatting with high emotional intelligence

High emotional intelligence chat. Chatting with high emotional intelligence will prevent you from losing many job opportunities or getting along with the opposite sex because you can't chat. Let's share a chat with high emotional intelligence.

Chat with Gao EQ 1 1. This is how people with high emotional intelligence chat with the opposite sex.

There are many kinds of flowers in the world. I love roses alone, but I want to give them to you at the moment.

You are like air everywhere, and you will die without air.

Your figure is like Xu Zhimo's farewell Cambridge, rippling in my heart.

I don't know if I can see you again in my next life, but I am willing to take good care of you in this life.

I want to be your mobile phone, because wherever you go, you will put me in your trouser pocket.

What I find in you is what I look like.

Liking you is like making my 150 IQ zero, without self.

Your eyes hide the secrets of the Milky Way, so I want to know more.

I want to wake up every morning with sunshine, breakfast and unique you.

The Buddha said it was pure, but the moment I met you, I was doomed to miss it.

Second, people with high emotional intelligence communicate with others in this way.

After others help themselves, say "thank you" instead of "thank you", or add the other person's name after "thank you".

In chatting, people with high emotional intelligence will talk to people like this: "What you say seems reasonable, but will it be better?"

In chatting, people with high emotional intelligence generally say, "What do you think?" Instead of "no, you can't do this", "no, you are wrong. You should. . . "。

Don't talk to others in a condescending tone, and don't think of yourself as a lofty god. You know, others don't owe you anything, let alone your minions and slaves. Everyone should have their own ideas, their own thinking, don't impose their own ideas on others, and know the truth that they don't want others to treat them.

And we usually find that people with high emotional intelligence will consider each other's words, such as adding "OK?" At the end of the sentence. This not only expresses your opinions and suggestions, but also gives others more opportunities to express their emotions. It is a way to talk and chat with others, which also shows that you have not ignored him or considered his feelings.

In other words, when you get along with the opposite sex, you should do the same. Don't just think about yourself, think more about each other. Think and find problems from each other's point of view. Instead of just talking about yourself and discussing your own affairs, it's like a saying we often say: Wang Po sells melons and boasts herself.

Third, look at a person's emotional intelligence.

Mainly has the following performance:

1, don't judge others with critical thinking.

You know, everyone has his own life and behavior, and each of us has different environments and experiences since childhood. If you don't know, don't criticize rashly.

2. People with high EQ are more likely to manage their emotions.

The emotions referred to here not only refer to happiness, anger, sadness, joy, greed, anger, delusion and resentment, but also refer to a person's good self-control and self-management ability. For example, if I don't smoke now and want to quit smoking, people with high emotional intelligence will control themselves and stop smoking if they say no.

In addition, you will find that people with high emotional intelligence will have a better mentality, and they can have their own enthusiasm, passion and tolerance for others, whether for life, work or marriage.

Here, I want to tell you, learn to communicate with others, communicate more, and learn to praise others.

No one doesn't like being praised. If you get along with the opposite sex or friends, praise others as much as possible, which is also a sign of high emotional intelligence. But here is a concept, praise must be praised to the point.

For example, a girl who has not worn clothes for a long time suddenly wears a beautiful dress that you have never seen before. You can say, "The dress you are wearing today is very beautiful and feels elegant." This is a compliment, which indirectly shows that you are a person who usually observes carefully.

Fourth, ways to improve emotional intelligence

Get in touch with people with high emotional intelligence and listen to their talking and chatting skills, instead of standing still in their own small world.

Usually, you can read more books about EQ to expand your knowledge. You know, a good book is written by an author who spends a lot of manpower, material resources and financial resources. A good book can make you progress faster.

Try new things and broaden your horizons. Only through more contact and understanding can we naturally communicate with many people, narrow the distance and enhance the relationship between them.

Manage your emotions and don't get angry or angry easily because of one thing. Good mood can make you happy physically and mentally, prolong your life and infect people around you. Of course, this need comes from the heart, not hypocrisy, and everything starts from the heart.

Have one's own hobbies or specialties. Some people may ask, what does this have to do with emotional intelligence? I want to say here that when you have your own hobbies or specialties, you will be more confident and attractive, which is a sign that you have a good mood.

Chat words with high emotional intelligence II. First, if you chat for the first time.

1. Self-ripe

For people who are familiar with themselves, it will really cause others to talk about it. Of course, you can't go too far. Otherwise, others will think that you may be a little crazy, as long as you are a little approachable and easy to talk to.

For example:

(1) Big wavy hair with your velvet coat makes you look so elegant.

(2) The horoscope says that we are suitable for chatting today.

(3) Your clothes are very catwalk, and I think your clothes are very good.

Step 2 show yourself

Self-presentation can not only let the other person know about you, but also highlight your own characteristics and attract others' attention, so this way is desirable, but you must pay attention to seeking truth from facts and don't fart, so your impression in the eyes of others will be greatly reduced.

For example:

(1) Show the taste of life: I went out to eat with my friends, and I felt hungry before serving (I lost a photo of the restaurant).

(2) Lifestyle display: I feel full of power now. I just worked out in the gym for an hour, and now I'm going home to take a shower.

3. Topic chat

It is also called not taking the usual path, that is, using a topic to completely attract the other person to chat with you. The choice of this topic is very important. Different people choose different topics, so we must know each other's personality.

For example:

(1) Gentle type: Based on my intuition of fortune telling for more than 20 years, I feel that your personality is like a cat.

(2) Hot type: Your women's sixth sense is really accurate. We men seem to be naked in front of you.

(3) Stubborn: Although good-looking, there is a heart that does not give up easily under the good-looking appearance.

Second, examples of high emotional intelligence chat language

For people with high emotional intelligence, chatting is really simple and easy, but once you listen, you can make others want to chat with you, get close to you, and make people around you think you are a person with high emotional intelligence.

For example:

1. Seeing your photos makes me feel very literary, and literary girls are generally more romantic. Are you like this?

Every time you appear, I have a feeling of heartache. Every time you wear it, people always think that you are a great collocation teacher.

You look really good recently, and your work must be very smooth.

For people with high emotional intelligence, they fully consider each other's feelings when they speak, so they won't make others feel bored, and they won't think you are nagging, because they always talk and do things just right.

Third, examples of people with high emotional intelligence chatting.

1, black humor

Chimpanzees accidentally stepped on a bench pulled by gibbons. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. Someone asked them how they got together, and the chimpanzee said with emotion: Ape dung is all ape dung.

2. Monologue

If one day, you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side, no matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset, flashing in every inch of your life.

Step 3 care

The lowest temperature tomorrow 1 degree, and the highest temperature 13 degree. If you care about the weather, you care about yourself. Don't forget to add an extra dress.

The most touching speech skills of high emotional intelligence chat 3

1, social eloquence

Let the first sentence catch people's hearts.

A good way of speaking is welcome.

How to increase the charm of your speech

Arouse each other's desire to talk

Don't be stingy with compliments to strangers.

Be careful when talking to strangers.

Have a memorable conversation

Listen to others sincerely.

Exaggerate one's own strength appropriately in order to succeed.

Humor should express true feelings.

Laugh at yourself and avoid embarrassment.

Dissolve the blame of others

Be good at answering strangers' questions

Let the conversation end in meaning.

2. Eloquence

Win people's hearts with praise

Realize the competitiveness of others

How can I talk to make my friends like me?

Impress a friend with a sense of humor

Spice up friendship with jokes.

Just pick a topic you like.

Say something inspiring

A word of care wins a heart.

Learn to turn around when you speak.

Use language skillfully and turn an enemy into a friend.

Deliberately saying the wrong thing can also make the conversation pleasant.

Euphemism implies miraculous effect.

Don't talk nonsense if you shouldn't.

Learn to say "no" and refuse skillfully.

earnest words offend the ear

Praise is more convincing.

How to deal with exposed shortcomings

3. Eloquence

Ask people to do things and say things they are proud of.

Persuade your friends to help you successfully.

Persuade developed friends to help you.

Asking for help is a good way to attract funds.

Borrow money from an absent third party.

Let the other side speak from the standpoint of the strong.

Let the other person say what he wants to say.

A glib tongue makes things easy.

Questioning skills

A word stirred up a thousand waves.

It's easy to use the past to satirize the present.

To put it bluntly, things are smooth sailing.

Distant relatives are not as useful as close neighbors.

Emotional intelligence, social eloquence and good chat.

Urgent, speak slowly.

In case of emergency, if you can calm down and think, and then calmly make things clear, you will leave a stable and impulsive impression on the listener, thus increasing others' trust in you.

Small things, humorously said

In particular, some kind reminders, said in a joking way, will not make listeners feel stiff, they will not only accept your reminders, but also enhance their intimacy.

If you are not sure, say it carefully.

For those things you are not sure about, if you don't say it, others will think you are hypocritical; If you can say it strictly, people will think you are a trustworthy person.

Don't talk nonsense about what didn't happen.

People hate people who make much ado about nothing. If you never speculate or talk nonsense, others will think you are mature, cultured and conscientious.

Don't talk nonsense. You can't do it.

As the saying goes, "Without Jin Gangzuan, don't make porcelain". If you don't easily promise what you can't do, it will make the listener feel that you are a person who "keeps his word" and is willing to believe you.

You can't say hurtful things.

Don't use words to hurt others, especially between close people. Don't say anything that hurts others. This will make them feel that you are a kind person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings.

Don't tell everyone about the sad things.

When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if you talk to others, it will easily make the listener feel too stressed, suspicious and alienated. At the same time, it will give people the impression that they don't think about others and want to pass on the pain to others.

Be careful about other people's business.

Everyone needs a safe distance, and not commenting and spreading other people's affairs easily will make people feel safe in communication.