What are women in Wang Fu?

There is a kind of woman who can work hard outside. They have independent thoughts and abilities, can handle the complicated interpersonal relationships in the family, make the family harmonious, and arrange everything in the family properly. Women in Wang Fu usually have these four characteristics. If you get married, you earn it, so cherish it.

First: thrifty housekeeping will make a living.

Some people think that women are too thrifty and too housekeeping, that is, they just dig, but this is not the case.

This is the case with Gao Hong. Since she got married, she has habitually remembered the economic expenses of her family clearly. Besides the monthly mortgage and necessary expenses, she will also save money.

Because her husband Haoran is lazy, sometimes, Gao Hong works overtime and Haoran doesn't want to cook, so he will order takeout, but Gao Hong thinks takeout is expensive and unclean. Gao Hong talks about him every time he sees a takeaway box. Hao Ran, who is slowly not afraid of nagging, also learned to cook a few side dishes, reducing the number of takeout. Gao Hong can still do it for children when she works overtime.

This epidemic, most industries have been affected, and Gao Hong and Haoran's companies have also been affected. If they didn't have the habit of saving money before, the high mortgage and car loan would definitely make them miserable.

Women in Wang Fu usually don't spend money lavishly, nor do they rob Peter to pay Paul economically. Of course, she doesn't haggle over every ounce, but focuses on the overall situation. Whether she can master the economic encyclopedia or not, she can allocate and use your funds reasonably and make detailed plans for your future. She knows how to be frugal and can give you a comfortable and warm life.

Second: understand empathy and reflection, and have self-knowledge.

Writer Xi Murong said: "Marriage is not just two people face to face, two people should face the world hand in hand."

Empathy between husband and wife is very important. If you can't do this, it will be difficult for couples to get along.

I have a friend, Chen Lin, who has a good family condition. She grew up in the palm of her hand, and her personality was a bit overbearing, but she was outstanding in appearance and had many boyfriends in college.

Later, she married a senior one year older than us. They were a match made in heaven, but they divorced after two years of marriage. The reason for the divorce is that Chen Lin is not only overbearing, but also unreasonable. After two years of marriage, the seniors are accommodating Chen Lin, but Chen Lin doesn't understand empathy.

Because Chen Lin is unlovable and lazy, she has always had a bad relationship with her mother-in-law, and her seniors tried to stand beside her, but Chen Lin not only refused to bow, but also threatened not to support the elderly. Finally, her senior chose to divorce Chen Lin because she couldn't stand her princess disease.

Two people get married because of love, can they really live a stable life and go on smoothly?

No, in fact, there are many complicated interpersonal relationships and trivial matters in marriage. In these respects, if two people can't do it, can't accommodate each other and understand each other, it will be difficult to be together for life.

It is very important to know how to put yourself in the other's shoes and reflect on yourself, so that you can continue to mature. A person should have self-knowledge, and only in this way can he know himself clearly.

Third: children will be educated to be filial to the elderly.

As the saying goes, a child's first teacher is his mother, and his mother's personality can easily influence the child. The most vivid example is Know No, in which Lin Xiaoniang and her daughter Mo Ran are carved in the same mold.

Lin Xiaoniang came from a humble background, but she was deeply loved by Mi Sheng. She is clever, and what she knows is mainly. No matter what mistakes Lin Xiaoniang made, as long as she cries, Misheng will be soft-hearted. Because of this, even if the big lady has been dissatisfied with Lin Xiaoniang for a long time, she dare not start work on Lin Xiaoniang casually.

Moran succeeded in inheriting this feature of Lin Xiaoniang. When the three sisters of the Sheng family were studying etiquette, Rulan and Mo Ran clashed and were punished. However, Ru Lan is "bossy" like a big lady, and even almost contradicts her father. Moran knew how to shed tears, and Yi Sheng was softened when he saw this scene.

Moran is just like Lin Xiaoniang, and the misbehaving Lin Xiaoniang also harmed Moran.

Therefore, every child's personality will be influenced by his mother, and the shadow of this child is hidden in his mother. A woman who can educate her children to be filial to the elderly will not be bad, but also make her family harmonious, warm and prosperous.

Fourth: your wife must be the king's own.

I never thought that women in Wang Fu had to sacrifice themselves. If a woman is unhappy in her own life, then of course she will not affect men. A positive person can influence people around him to become positive, while a negative person can also influence people around him to become negative.

Therefore, women in Wang Fu must be rich, not blindly self-sacrificing.

The woman in Wang Fu is a woman who pays more attention to self-improvement. She will have a good arrangement for her life and a good plan for her work. She will have a good attitude and can enrich her life. She must be a woman who loves life. She has positive energy and can see the beauty of life.

A woman in Wang Fu must be a beautiful woman with her own temperament, a small career, interest in life and a good personality.