Help me! I'm going crazy! !

My friend, I sympathize with you. First of all, I'll give you a word: if you are in a big position in Sri Lanka, you must first suffer from it, starve it and do whatever you want, so be patient and have benefited from its incompetence. Your words immediately reminded me of an article I read in junior high school. I hope it will help you. If you don't avenge this, Mr. Liu Yong wrote "Gentleman":

When I was twelve or thirteen years old, I loved reading martial arts novels and often hid under the bed. I'll take it out as soon as my mother goes out.

Martial arts novels seem to be mostly revenge stories. The protagonist will always be a child with a blood feud. First, he saved his life with the help of the nobles, and then he got the secret of Wulin. By mistake, he met a ganoderma lucidum fairy fruit that matured only once in a thousand years. Otherwise, I'll let my Wulin predecessors get through the second pulse of Ren Du for him, and I'll suddenly become the best player in the world from a weak teenager and go straight to my enemy's lair to get back my blood debt.

At that time, I not only read martial arts novels, but also compared pictures according to the moves described in the book and memorized the dialogues inside. Among them, I think the most "cool" sentence is "it is not a gentleman to not report this revenge." I have been using that sentence at school since I learned it.

Others beat me in the competition, and I said, "This kind of revenge is not a gentleman"; I was torn by my classmates while playing ball, and said, "This kind of revenge is not a gentleman." It seems that after learning such a "cool" sentence, you have to find some revenge if you don't.

Of course, adolescent children like to be competitive. At that time, I always heard that there was a little Taibao. Because others feel uncomfortable looking at him, they stab people. I also know that many students have joined gangs and group fights.

That kind of "fighting" seems endless. If you hit me more today, I'll pay you back tomorrow. There will be more people tomorrow, and I will catch my breath. The day after tomorrow, I will gather people to get justice, which really conforms to the proverb in the western United States-"Gunshots always ring twice." Today, you fired a shot, but people fell down and failed to return your shot. Someone will come to "fix that shot" another day.

In high school, one of my classmates was repaired by someone from another class.

He is so thin that even the gang members don't want him. He was very angry and told his father that he actually scolded: "Who told you not to call back?" Then send him to learn Taekwondo.

He went to study outside first, and then joined the Taekwondo Club of the school. The more he practices, the stronger he becomes. He can knock off the corner of the table with a slap.

Sometimes, students will deliberately remove the batten from the chair and put it between two tables for him to split. He can break a thick stick, but his hands are fine.

The news spread to other classes, and his bully was nervous to death.

However, my classmates clearly have the right to "seek justice", but they are unmoved. Let's start by saying, "Practicing Taekwondo can't be used for fighting. This is the rule of Taekwondo Club.". He said, "Why? It is not glorious to win. "

After a while, when his classmates mentioned that he had practiced kung fu for revenge, he actually smiled: "I really should thank that man." Without him, I wouldn't be here today! " "

Not only did he not take revenge, but he became friends with that man.

I have had this experience myself.

When I just graduated from college, a TV company asked me to host a special program. The director of the program saw that my writing was good and asked me to be a screenwriter.

However, when I paid the money at the end of the program, the director not only didn't give me the screenwriter fee, but also deducted half of my hosting fee. He gave me the receipt and said, "You signed 1600 yuan. Because the program is overdrawn, I can only give you 800 yuan."

I didn't say anything at that time, so I signed it, thinking, "It's never too late for a gentleman to take revenge."

Later, the director asked me again, and I helped him do it several times.

The last time, he didn't deduct my money, and he became very polite to me, because at that time I was attracted by the general manager and suddenly became a TV reporter and news anchor.

"We" often met in the company later, and he smiled a little embarrassed every time.

I wanted to sue him once, but as the classmate in high school said, can I be today without him?

If I can't even breathe, can I still get the chance to be an anchor?

He gave me a chance. He is my noble man. He has made a mistake. Why should I take revenge?

Later, I went to America to study.

One day, an employed classmate complained to me that his American boss "ate" him, not only paid him less salary, but also deliberately delayed his application for a green card (US residency).

I said to him at that time, "Stop being such a bad boss." But you can't work that long. You always have to learn more before you jump ship, so you have to learn secretly. "

After listening to my words, he not only worked overtime every day, but also stayed to recite the writing methods of those business documents. Even he took notes next to the workers on how to repair the copier, so that one day he could go out and start his own business and save some repair fees.

Half a year later, I asked him if he had any plans to change jobs. He smiled to smile:

"no! My boss is very impressed with me now, and my green card will come down soon. The boss also asked me why my attitude 180 degree changed greatly and became so positive? "

His grievance disappeared, he took revenge, but in a different way, he introspected, in fact, he didn't work hard.

About ten years ago! I met another interesting thing. An old friend suddenly learned fortune telling and astrology from his birthday, Wei Zi and his name.

He studies fortune telling, not because he thinks it is effective, but because he wants to prove that fortune telling is deceptive.

The reason is that there is a famous master who tells fortune, so he won't live beyond forty-seven years old. He vowed to smash the master's signboard.

Guess what?

The more he studied, the more afraid he became, because he found that he counted himself as dying.

At this time, he changed. He ran to charity and said, "I won't live long anyway." Make good use of my remaining years and do something meaningful. "

He is very active, and everyone says he has changed, from an anxious snob to a gentle and loving gentleman.

Unconsciously, he passed forty-seven, forty-eight, and now he is fifty-three, radiant and full of vitality, living healthier than anyone else.

"You can smash the master's signboard!" I played a joke on him the other day.

His eyes lit up and he asked me, "Why?" He smiled again. "If that person hadn't reminded me, according to my previous personality, I would have had a heart attack at the age of 47. He didn't forbid it! "

Dear friends!

Do you like to fight bravely? Do you always have grievances? Do you have the resentment that "a gentleman will not avenge this"?

Please think about these stories I told.

You know, enemies can inspire your potential and become your nobles.

You should also know that a lot of hatred, resentment and injustice are actually your own problems.

You should also know that the best "revenge" in this world is to make yourself successful with that grievance, treat your enemies with that success and "post-success mentality" and turn them into friends.

Isn't it the greatest success in life when "when is the revenge" can become a win-win situation of "meeting and laughing"?