What are the general manifestations of selfish people?

Selfish people generally have four manifestations. First, I always like to put all my interests first. Selfish people usually put their own interests first. No matter what the circumstances, they always think that they have benefited, and it is the most important thing to get benefits. If two friends and colleagues encounter difficulties, it is to get along with a noble person and say that it is really enough to help one of them tide over the difficulties. Then, in the past, a person sacrificed himself and gave the opportunity to his good friend, which shows that this person's heart is upright. However, if another person only wants to keep this good opportunity for himself, but never thinks about his good friend, it means that this person is selfish and is not worth making friends with in the future.

Second, the speech is very sharp and domineering. Selfish people are usually very sarcastic and are particularly sensitive when facing some interests. They dare to say anything that hurts others. Usually in the family, when brothers and sisters compete for their father's inheritance, they can especially show a person's character. It is often the case that after the death of their father, the two brothers fought to win a scene, and even trivial things can be turned out as an excuse for them to obtain property. Among them, verbal abuse and aggressive attitude both reflect people's selfishness.

Third, I have many careers in my heart. We often say that if a person has many playboys, then we don't recommend making friends with such people. When interacting with people, people generally want to have a comfortable state. When making friends, the other person is always wondering which sentence is more appropriate. If it's more advantageous to do that, wouldn't it be too tiring for two people to get along? Usually, we think that if a person has a lot of petty feelings and often plays some wicked tricks, then this person is denied in personality. It is also a kind of selfishness, so we must distinguish it clearly. When I was in college, I met such a person. When making friends with others, he will think a lot in advance, whether this person will help him or not, and who is more beneficial to make friends with. He will plan a lot in advance and even make a very strict form to judge who he should make friends with and who he should not. This mentality is quite abnormal. In the process of getting along with others, it is mutual gift and giving, and it is meaningless to simply care very carefully.

Fourth, don't listen to other people's advice. Generally, selfish people are very self-righteous. No matter what decision they make, they always think that their decision is above everything else and their ideas are always right. Such people are very arbitrary and arrogant. No matter what people around him say, he doesn't listen, doesn't adopt other people's opinions, and only blindly believes in himself. This is not confidence, but conceit. However, as we all know, cooperation is usually the only way to do things successfully in such a society. One person's strength is not enough. It needs the cooperation of the group and the common wisdom of everyone to get things done well. Therefore, it is never helpful to say that we will not adopt other people's opinions.