Why not look too far when you get married?

Marrying a woman who is far away is the biggest problem.

compromise

Every parent doesn't want her daughter to marry far away. Women before marriage can never understand their parents' thoughts. They all think it's nothing to get married far away, but the hard part is that life has brought them involuntarily.

Girls are always the one who makes concessions in marriage. In thousands of years of traditional culture, this rule has long been written into everyone's subconscious. Once a woman gets married, it means saying goodbye to her family and her past self. Everyone thought that she married happiness, but in fact she married a long loneliness. Even without the Spring Festival holiday, busy work and family on weekdays make it extremely difficult for a woman to go home.

Marrying a woman and splashing water is a deep-rooted and hard rule in the hearts of China people.

Unlike decades ago, most families have several children now, and even if someone is absent, the day of reunion will not be too deserted. However, nowadays, there are more and more one-child families. Every child has been spoiled since childhood. When he grows up, it is difficult for the old man to accept it from the bottom of his heart, which is why the contradiction of who celebrates the New Year is becoming more and more fierce.

Before marriage, people naively think that love can overcome everything, but after marriage, life still follows the rules. At the wedding, I vowed that "where he is, he is there", but the times will always be loose, and no matter how deep-rooted the concept is, it will always be a little loose.

Some things just can't be satisfactory. No matter how you choose, you will eventually fall into a dilemma and get unsatisfactory results. Not all questions will have fixed answers, and not all enthusiasm will be answered.

Husband and wife may be able to make a rule in advance on this matter, but it is not suitable to add some rules and regulations to the future marriage, which is harmful to the health of marriage. Perhaps the best way for both husband and wife to face this problem is to understand and tolerate and make the biggest concession. Maybe the problem can be solved.