Will spoiled women really have a good life?

Xiao Liu, 20 years old, I am a girl who is particularly coquettish. I have been a baby voice since I was a child. Many girls are jealous of me and think I did it on purpose, but I really didn't do it on purpose. I was born soft and waxy when I spoke, and then I couldn't understand the words and had an ending, which sounded like a doll. When I spoiled, many girls said I did it. Once I sprained my ankle and fell dead, and my eyes were red. But all those girls pointed at me and said I was stupid. Sometimes I dare not coquetry. I want to be stronger, at least I won't feel pain in my heart. So I think it's nonsense that a spoiled woman will live a good life. Men sometimes like spoiled girls. But this society is very realistic, and many women will hate this kind of coquetry. Xiao Bei, 25 years old, I think everyone should have a foundation of face value. I am so ugly, I still don't coquetry, because sometimes I will coquetry, but my boyfriend always tells me to be normal and know what a man learns from a woman, so coquetry has a basis of face value, and coquetry has something to do with personality. Girls with gentle personality are naturally coquettish and speak softly, and they all have a feeling of coquetry, which is naturally revealed and full of femininity. Huahua, 40 years old, "can't stay affectionate since ancient times and is always popular." I think coquetry is definitely a good routine. If a woman is a little effeminate, men will think that a woman is very weak, so of course I will give in and spoil her. Anyway, I will be spoiled when I am angry. My husband can't take me. It has been more than ten years, and it is really trying again and again. I think coquetry is really a flavoring agent between men and women, but it really needs moderation. As a woman, you should also be considerate of your partner properly, so that this relationship can last for a long time, so I think it will be good to be spoiled. Will spoiled women really have a good life? Let's talk about fate first. When you pin your destiny on one thing, it will be handed over to others, just like you choose a fortune teller. When you tell a fortune teller everything about yourself, it will be in his mouth, not in your hand. Spooling is an act. When you treat coquetry as your lifeline, your fate is out of your control. There is a big difference between coquetry and coquetry. People agree that the best life for a spoiled woman is actually to make the other person willing to do things for themselves through coquetry. Maybe some people will say that coquetry is not hair dia? Seeing those behaviors makes me sick. I can't stand girls like that. In fact, I feel the same way, but when you really meet someone you care about, although she won't lose her hair, when she presents her weak side to you, it's actually coquetry, and you will be willing to help her. Therefore, coquetry is not hair loss, not just the privilege of weak girls, as long as a woman can show her weakness to those who love her. It's normal for us to hate a girl sometimes, because you have no feelings for her. In the words of netizens, it is: "You are as gentle as a cat, and he hates your hair loss." Is it speechless? Yes, coquetry depends on the object. Without a suitable partner, I would rather show my steel side but be more attractive than boring. There is a very interesting example, you can have a look. It's very cold now. Once my husband and I were waiting for the bus outside, and when we saw a girl in front of us telling her that it was cold, her boyfriend held her in his arms, which was enviable. So I also spoiled my husband and said, "Husband, I am very cold." As a result, the goods said, "I'm cold, too." Then I coated it myself. Since then, I think being a woman is more suitable for me. For another example, when the husband and wife get up in the morning, the wife doesn't want to get up and tells her husband to lie in bed and have breakfast today. I thought her husband would just refuse to eat coquetry. As a result, her husband gave her a blank look and left. After a while, breakfast was served, and the wife immediately smiled and said to her husband; "Thank you, husband, that's very kind of you!" The husband waved his hand and said, "Throw a spell once in a while and sell it as cute as possible, but you can't spoil it all the time." No man will always spoil a woman who is like a vine. " I suddenly feel that straight men are straight men, but it does make sense. Entanglement is a comfortable life adjustment for both sides, which needs a certain atmosphere. In the first example, couples' love is in the primary stage, and girls' coquetry is easily accepted by boys to show their love. The couple have lived together for a long time, and there is no such atmosphere in a cold environment. It can also be seen that coquetry has certain requirements for the environment and people. It can be seen from the second example that coquetry is really useful. When we have been dealing with some problems head-on, coquetry, as a way of soft landing under certain conditions, is easier to achieve overtaking in corners. The second example, if there is no accident, the new couple will have a good mood that day, and these warm little passions and freshness will also be produced in life. This is the charm of coquetry. I want you to help me. The other person feels your weakness and gives you care, which is to complete the warming of feelings between this push and pull. In fact, this time is what we often say about a better life. It is in our own hands, and coquetry is just a way. Again, a girl's weakness is not her own sense of softness, but to make her feel that you need to care, which makes her unwilling to make you suffer. Because the other party is the one who works hard, he doesn't recognize you, and it's no use whispering. What's more, it will cause disgust. If you have always been a strong woman, suddenly one day, your husband feels that you are soft for a moment, which is different in peacetime, and his desire for protection is aroused. That feeling will make him enjoy the process of hard work. If you don't pay attention at ordinary times, it may have unexpected effects. Life forces us to be strong. Nezha told us long ago that fate is not up to me, but everyone has a gentle side under a strong heart. Life not only needs to bear ups and downs alone, but also occasionally makes the other person feel powerless at the right time, which increases the emotional appeal of life and injects freshness into life. After all, the same life will be boring for a long time, and once in a while, you will feel that life is still very happy. Ok, that's all for today. A spoiled woman has the best life. I feel that a spoiled woman can enjoy life more and control her own destiny more easily. You are also welcome to participate in the discussion and leave your own opinions. Will spoiled women really have a good life? The so-called "coquetry" phenomenon often occurs when men and women or husband and wife are in love. Therefore, whether a woman can be spoiled is the key to women being loved by men. Twisting is like sugar in coffee. Too little sugar makes love life too bitter. Bian Xiao learned that Japanese underwear brand Triumph has launched a "coquetry mode", in which women can choose their favorite products on their own websites, put them in a "coquetry shopping cart", fill in the delivery address, and then the system will send them to their boyfriends' mailboxes. Boyfriend can choose yes (payment) or oh my god (refusal). More than 80% of men will choose to pay, and coquetry payment has become a magic weapon for the rapid growth of this brand's sales. This model was quickly applied to the domestic consumer market, and Alipay developed the function of payment on behalf of others, calling it "coquetry payment". "Ghost payment" has become a major feature of promoting Alipay transactions. 20 13 the week before valentine's day, the average daily transaction of AliPay's "ghost payment" increased by 4 1% from the previous month. Brand merchants are not to be outdone. Procter & Gamble launched the "Ghost Style" application, which attracted countless netizens to watch and place orders. Vipshop has specially launched a large-scale promotional activity "Sajiao Festival", which has pushed coquetry to a climax. "Men make money and women spend money" has always been taken for granted. Why is "her economy" so hot now? This is indeed closely related to the increasing coquetry of modern women. Women in traditional society submit to men. Without independent personality and self-awareness, men can only obey, and women can't realize self-worth and self-satisfaction through coquetry. However, contemporary women have entered the stage of self-realization after their economic independence, personality independence and improved education level. In the process of pursuing self-realization, coquetry, a female nature, has become an important "soft power" for women. In the face of coquetry "soft power", men have become more willing to pay for it to meet the needs of women.