Life should be flexible.

How unhappy life is, it is nothing more than feelings, career and life.

Sometimes, chatting with elders is also a kind of learning. Youth travel, from its opening to the present, is either young and playful, very simple and heartless; Either uncles and aunts, but also love to play, can play, and play with high cost performance.

When I was young, I talked about dreams, wild dreams; When I am old, I talk about life; All kinds of life are extremely valuable experiences.

I picked up some old cyclists, two aunts and an uncle. I think middle-aged people who travel are basically successful people with successful careers. However, my uncle once again subverted my point of view. At the dinner table, he always said something to us that I can't bear to forget: "You guys, do whatever you want, don't wait for decades." Be a person who can stretch and shrink, don't care too much. "

At that time, I once talked with them about my experience. After three rounds of drinking, when it comes to Mount Emei, he smiles but shows some helplessness. After that, I lived under Mount Emei for three years and didn't go up for three years. I asked why, but he told me faintly that it was nothing, just because I thought there would be opportunities to go up in the future, and there would be opportunities in the future. This idea, even for more than 30 years, has never set foot on that place where I thought I would have a chance until today.

However, fortunately, if you don't forget, there will be repercussions. He is over 500 years old, so he is quite transparent. He said that now, as long as there is an activity organization, I will go anyway. At my age, if I wait any longer, I won't have a chance in my life.

Yes, the hardest thing in this world is time. Life is a hundred years, talk long and short, just think of a hundred years. People who want to be, wait, wait, maybe it will be a lifetime.

(2)

Uncle's melancholy, aunt's loveliness. Yesterday my aunt ran into the kitchen and secretly asked me, is this girl your girlfriend? If it is your girlfriend, it must be very happy. I said no.

I don't want to write the following questions. However, at the dinner table, my aunt talked about marriage intentionally or unintentionally. The topic started with a fortune teller.

My aunt also stayed in Ningbo for a while. Speaking of Ningbo at that time, there was a woman whose fortune-telling was extremely effective. At that time, she accompanied her classmates in fortune telling. A large group of people stood in front of the fortune teller, all reaching out for fortune telling, but the fortune teller only grabbed her hand.

Aunt didn't elaborate on fortune telling, only the final result. The fortune teller said, "First, you can't get married before you are 28, or you will definitely get divorced. Second, your future career will be smooth and you won't encounter any major setbacks. Third, you can only live to 88 years old, and no one can say for sure. "

For the first two points, menstruation carefully recalled that when the fortune teller said that she couldn't get married at the age of 28, I also told her for sure that she would get married at the age of 25. At that time, I was 20 years old, and a little rebellion was inevitable. However, she is almost 500 years old, but she has a happy marriage, and as the fortune teller said, she got married at the age of 29, and her career is booming without much setbacks.

She said that in fact, a good marriage is run by itself. At home, I am the second child, the oldest and the youngest, so I do all these housework, so I am very capable. When I was six or seven years old, my mother and I went to work by bike. I don't know why, but my mother just wants her to accompany me. Because of their young age and small figure, the 28 big bars at that time could only ride half a lap.

When I was a child, I learned my aunt's capable qualities. She said, "When I was young, people had to suffer. Because those experiences can guarantee your happiness. "

(3)

Auntie is happily married. She talks about marriage, and we always think marriage is appropriate. She said: "A happy marriage is self-managing. Of course, it is important to have a suitable family, which means that there may be similar three views. "

I said, "the first condition for urban girls to choose a spouse now is material conditions, which may be family factors." The only son has been spoiled since childhood, so naturally he can't marry someone who can't share your troubles. "

Aunt immediately denied: "No, my boss and I are not suitable." He was poor, almost as poor as a mouse, but I didn't abandon him. "

Aunt looked proud when she said it. At that time, my family said that the man I married would not be happy in the future, but they were all wrong. A happy marriage was run by myself. I was poor at that time, so I bought my first house. No, it was us. I bought our first house. And at that time, we didn't have the money to hire people to decorate, and we did all our own home improvement.

This kind of thing seems to be a rebellious point that deviates from mainstream values in today's era. However, in fact, many times, it all comes from your inner strength. Aunt said: "at home, I am the boss;" But it's different outside. You need to give men face. Moreover, marriage needs to be run by itself. When I am at home and doing housework, I will tell my boss, what do you want to do? "

"Sweeping the floor, mopping the floor is too tired!"

"All right, I'll mop the floor."

Between words, aunt is wise, and it is not easy to manage a good marriage. Mutual tolerance and understanding are far from enough, because when two people are together, those tolerance and understanding will slowly wear away with time. In fact, the most important thing is habit. When tolerance and understanding become a habit, this is the beginning of a happy marriage.

(4)

The weather in Shengsi is excellent these days, but good weather can't cure internal injuries. Friends who are familiar with me all come to ask me why I drink, and it is on my birthday.

I used to be a teetotaler. I don't smoke or drink. But it seems reasonable for the ancients to say that wine can solve thousands of worries.

Thanks to my uncle, I lost sleep for two days and finally fell asleep in the wine.

Life is a little unpleasant, so ask heaven for wine.

Love and hate are endless, how many people are happy and how many people are worried?

However, time flies and it hurts to recall the past.

Once vowed to be higher than the sky, neither of them agreed.

I have no choice but to win a heart, and I will never part again.

Writing a poem is bullshit, and it goes with the wind.

May menstruation's family continue to be happy, may my uncle do what he wants and never wait, and may he ... think for a long time without any desire and do what he should do. Well, may the world be peaceful.