When I met my younger brother during pregnancy, should I protect my child or donate my kidney to save my younger brother in the late stage of uremia?

On the one hand, the younger brother in the late stage of uremia needs a kidney transplant to save people, and on the other hand, he is finally pregnant with the same flesh and blood after five years of marriage. In order to save his brother, he had to give up his own flesh and blood, and in order to protect the children, he had to let his brother die. Who can he save? Protect who? Wei Wu fell into the most difficult choice in life.

First, it is difficult to get pregnant when you are old.

Five years ago, 27-year-old Wei Wu (pseudonym) married 30-year-old Wang Cheng (pseudonym). 27 years old, for a woman, she is married, but in a first-tier city like Shenzhen, there are many unmarried people at this age.

However, both parents are rural people, traditional. Once married, both parents are urging to have children quickly. Although renting a house in Shenzhen, Wei Wu and Wang Chengdu have stable jobs. Wu Wei works as an administrator in a foreign trade company, and her husband Wang Cheng works as a salesman in a pharmaceutical company, and her income is also passable. They think that they are old, have a secure life and have parents to help take care of their children, so they are actively preparing for pregnancy after marriage.

In order to have a healthy baby, Wei Wu specially signed up for a yoga class and went to practice yoga on weekends. But also bought a pregnancy book, ate folic acid, and thought about how to have a healthy and lovely baby every day. However, Wang Cheng quit smoking for nearly 10 years, and his social activities also decreased. I am urged by Wei Wu to run and exercise every day.

As soon as the ovulation period is counted, Wei Wu and Wang Cheng will get off work on time and start having babies at night. At first, the city will create some romance, put warm music in the room and sprinkle some red rose petals on the bed, so that both sides can be more involved.

Although both sides spent a lot of thoughts, food, exercise, books and atmosphere, there was no movement in Wei Wu's stomach.

Second, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are alienated because they are not pregnant.

At first, Wei Wu and Wang Cheng thought that fate had not arrived, so they didn't take it to heart. But a year passed, and her stomach still didn't get bigger. Wei Wu's mother-in-law thinks that Wei Wu is disappointing and that it is her problem. I often give her a look, sarcastically saying that Wang Cheng married a chicken that can't lay eggs.

Sometimes when Wei Wu is not at home, her mother-in-law still turns a deaf ear around the city, telling the city that if Wei Wu still can't have children, she will divorce and marry another one. After all, the Wangs have been passed down for three generations, and the Wangs can never be separated here.

Under the pressure of their families, Wei Wu and Wang Cheng began a long journey of seeking medical advice. Wang Cheng used to smoke for many years. Wei Wu was worried that his sperm motility was not enough, so he went to the hospital to check the sperm motility, and the test results were normal. There is nothing wrong with the sanitation in the city. Is it Wei Wu's problem? My mother-in-law didn't like her originally. If it's really her own fault that she can't have children, I'm afraid the marriage will be divorced.

With a nervous mood, Wei Wu, accompanied by Wang Cheng, went into the hospital and had a series of tests, including ovarian development and whether ovulation was normal. There was an exam as fierce as a tiger, and the cost was "25 thousand" The examination results show that Wu Wei has no problem, but she is older.

If the test says nothing, take medicine to recuperate. She has eaten western medicine, drunk Chinese medicine and used prescription and folk prescription. After taking the medicine, Wei Wu's endocrine was out of shape, and those tonics that Wang Cheng and his mother found from nowhere gave him a nosebleed.

However, after taking medicine and tonic, Wei Wu's stomach still didn't respond, which worried the whole family. Science was useless, so Wang Cheng's mother began to use superstition to make those jugglers tell Wei Wu fortune and give her medicine. Wei Wu knew that these things were not credible and threw them away secretly, which made the old lady have a big fight with her.

Third, a village is pregnant after five years of marriage.

I've been to hospitals, temples and tried everything. Wei Wu and Wang Cheng, who have been married for two years, still failed to get pregnant. Both of them are stunned after taking medicine, and the homework during ovulation is also a formality. If it weren't for Wang Cheng and Wang Cheng's good emotional foundation, I'm afraid the old lady would have forced them to divorce.

What Wei Wu and Wang Cheng intend to do is to adopt one or do artificial test tubes if they can't get pregnant naturally again. The old lady was so angry that she went back to her hometown in Anhui with her wife.

My parents-in-law went back to their hometown, leaving only Wei Wu and Wang Cheng in Shenzhen, which was naturally a lot easier. There is no need to go to the hospital every week, take medicine and drink soup every day. But when everything is relaxed, the fortune is quietly changing.

In September this year, Wei Wu didn't have her period for a long time, and she felt sick after brushing her teeth in the morning. She lost confidence in pregnancy, but she didn't think she was pregnant. She thought it was the sequela of taking medicine before, so she found time to go to the hospital for examination. After the doctor's treatment, she found that Wei Wu was pregnant.

After hearing the news, Wei Wu still couldn't believe it. She repeatedly confirmed with the doctor that the result was still the same. Wei Wu burst into tears of joy. She cried and called Wang Cheng, who was away on business, to share the good news of being late with him. Wang Cheng also cried excitedly and quickly called his parents in Anhui. Knowing that her daughter-in-law was finally pregnant, her parents-in-law immediately bought a high-speed rail ticket to Shenzhen the next day.

Fourth, my younger brother needs a kidney transplant for uremia.

While Wei Wu and others were still immersed in the joy of pregnancy, a bad news came that Wei Wu's younger brother was diagnosed with uremia. Hearing the news, Wu Wei suddenly lost her high sex.

Wang Cheng comforted Wei Wu and said that if he was ill, he would treat you. Spending more money is a big deal. I believe that the current medical technology is not a problem. To Wei Wu's surprise and Wang Cheng's surprise, Wei Wu's younger brother had advanced uremia and needed a kidney transplant. Through the matching of relatives around, only Wei Wu succeeded in matching.

Of all relatives and friends, only Wei Wu succeeded in matching. I don't know if it's lucky or unlucky. The baby in the belly is only three months old, and my brother here is in the late stage of uremia. If you want to treat your brother, you can't give birth to the baby. But Wei Wu and Wang Cheng were married for five years before they finally got pregnant. If you don't want it, I don't know when I can get pregnant or not.

Wei Wu's husband, Wang Cheng, kept his mouth shut about protecting the fetus or saving his younger brother, but his parents-in-law naturally refused to allow Wei Wu to abandon the fetus in order to save people, or even let them divorce and let Wei Wu run away from home without children.

Your palms are covered with meat. The younger brother is related to himself and is the pillar of the Wu family. At the age of 30, he is in the prime of life, with elderly parents and a pair of dependent children. The child in the belly is his own flesh and blood, the root of Lao Wang's family, and the result of five years of tossing and turning. Fetal protection? Or donate your kidney to save your brother? Wei Wu can't decide.

Fifth, the sister-in-law forced her mother-in-law to death.

Just when Wei Wu was in a dilemma, her sister-in-law came to beg the Wangs with two young children, and more adults and children knelt in front of Wei Wu and them.

"Elder sister, you can help Tong Wu, don't you want his two children to be orphans without a father! Do you want to see no one when your parents retire? "My sister-in-law was kneeling and crying.

Wei Wu clutching her pregnant belly, some laboriously bent down to help her sister-in-law and children get up.

"Uncle, aunt, brother-in-law, sister, if you don't promise to save Tong Wu, my two children and I won't get up ..." Anyway, my sister-in-law won't get up.

"Hao Hao, Yu Yu, get up with your mother and stop kneeling." Wei Wu couldn't persuade her sister-in-law, so she let the two children get up. But my sister-in-law grabbed the hands of two children and knelt down with her.

"If you don't get up, forget it. We Wangs don't owe you the Wu family. You can always kneel if you want! " Wei Wu mother-in-law finished pulling the boss into the room, and then slammed the door.

"Sister in law, do you think I don't want to save Tong Wu? He is my brother, and I don't want anything to happen to him, but ... my belly is also my own baby ... "Wu Wei couldn't explain to her sister-in-law, so she couldn't help crying.

Wang Cheng, who sat on one side, saw Wei Wu crying and hurried forward to comfort him. "It is not easy for us to have a baby. If I don't want this, I don't know if I can get pregnant in the future. If it costs money to treat Wu Tong, I am willing to pay for begging, but it is also difficult for us to give up the baby in our belly! "

To say either good or bad, my sister-in-law left Wu Tong's house with two children, but the problem still lies with Wei Wu. No matter what kind of decision you make, it is selfish and thankless.

Tong Wu didn't know who to discuss with, and secretly posted his story on social platforms, expecting a fair stranger to give him a correct answer. In fact, she knows that the answer can't wait, and the final choice still depends on herself.

(The picture in the article comes from the Internet)