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What is the face of a "villain"?

There are many discussions about "little people" on the Internet, some of which are incisive, worth pondering and thought-provoking. What is the face of a "villain"? Or how do I make up "little people"? . It is the "villain" who can't hide that others work better than him, others produce results, others earn more money, others get promoted quickly, and others live better than him. If you surpass him in everything, he will try his best to speak ill of you and find your weakness, saying you are not good either. In a word, he will damage your image and ruin your good deeds. This is what people call "little people". Confucius' criterion for distinguishing "villains" from "gentlemen" is: "an upright man is open and poised, villains are always like brothers. Xunzi brilliantly expounded the fundamental difference between "a villain" and "a gentleman" in his article "Without Learning and Skill". He said: "a gentleman is proud of learning if he can, but takes pleasure in telling it if he can't;" "Little people can be ashamed of learning, but they can't be ashamed of speaking. It is also a gentleman and a villain. " It means that a gentleman is talented, and people regard learning from him as an honor; Without talent, people will be willing to tell him knowledge. If a villain is talented, people will regard learning from him as despicable; Without talent, people will be ashamed to tell him knowledge. This is the difference between a gentleman and a villain. From this, we can see that the difference between "villain" and "gentleman" lies not in the amount of knowledge, not in the level of social status, but in ideology and morality. He also pointed out: "a gentleman worships the virtue of others and promotes the beauty of others, and cannot flatter them;" Justice points to other people's mistakes, not to destroy defects; Talking about one's own beauty is intended to be harmonious with Yu, to participate in heaven and earth, and not to boast; Keeping pace with the times and being submissive to Puwei are not daunting; Strong and resolute, unyielding and unbelieving, neither arrogant nor impetuous. "This is a gentleman's thought and morality. "Little people" are arrogant and rude when they are proud in the spring breeze, and treacherous and evil when they are narrow-minded; Smart people try their best to seize power, while stupid people are cruel and run amok. When it is reused, it will be arrogant and arrogant. If it is not reused, it will blame others and be sinister and vicious; When you are happy, you are frivolous and not solemn. When you are sad, you feel dejected and fearful. When you reach the top, you will get carried away ... One common feature of "little people" is jealousy. The purpose of "little people" is to harm others and benefit themselves, and forget the righteousness. The so-called "villain" is relative to the "gentleman". At the beginning of life, human nature is good, which is an accepted truth. After birth, the essence is the same. Why do some people become "gentlemen" and others become "villains"? This is worth pondering by each of us and studying by sociologists. After I entered the society as an adult, many relatives and friends repeatedly reminded me that your character is honest, frank and practical, which is your strength and fatal weakness. Remember! My mother also found a fortune teller to tell my fortune, and the fortune teller also said that I was hit by a "villain". No matter in the countryside or in the city, I walk with "little people" every day. It can be said that no matter what you do, people of that class and level will always be with you. You can't get rid of each other, and you can't escape if you want to. It can be said that "little people" are everywhere. So how to prevent the "villain" from hurting and avoiding the villain's anger? To tell the truth, so far, there is no good way or feasible weapon to stop the "little people" from plotting against them. Throughout the ages, the best way is to stay away from "villains" and kiss "gentlemen". That is to say, things should be done in different occasions, and the secrets should be kept secret, and they should not be outspoken. The ancients said, "You can't leave a word in your mouth, but you can't throw away my heart at all. "If you tell the villain that you are going to get a promotion (sign the bill) and many other good things, no matter the occasion or place, the villain is also facing a year of shelving (sign the bill). Can he not worry? He doesn't care about you and speaks ill of you. Who did he say would go? So, be careful what you say and do, say what you should and never say what you shouldn't. In this way, the "villain" has no chance, and there is no difference between "villain" and "gentleman".