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Why are many families claiming to be old wives often unhappy?

Couples will call themselves after living for a certain period of time? An old couple? Speaking of. An old couple? It should be a beautiful state of conjugal love, happiness and lasting affection between husband and wife, but this is it? An old couple? How many family lives have become boring, boring and indifferent, without warmth and beauty? Old husband and few wives? Affect the harmony and happiness of the family.

First,? An old couple? Less communication

As we all know, men and women have the happiest, sweetest and happiest time in love, that is? Falling in love? Stage. There is a key word and core in this period. Talk? What is the main process of two people? Talk? Communication with each other is the main content of this stage, that is, in constant communication, the two sides get to know each other, know each other, understand their own ideas and inner needs in common communication, and realize these ideas and meet their own needs to the maximum extent, so that their feelings are deeper and deeper, their hearts are closer and closer, and their lives feel sweet and happy.

And once married, what about between two people? Talk? The content and process began to decrease obviously, and the frequency of communication between the two sides decreased greatly with the passage of time, to the so-called? An old couple? At that time, there was little communication with each other, and some even arrived? An old couple? At the stage, the words between two people are obviously reduced, and there is almost no desire and thought to communicate. Do you think everyone is? An old couple? Well, there's nothing to talk about. Under the influence of this concept, husband and wife become speechless. Without proper communication, their feelings become distant and indifferent.

Second,? An old couple? No intimacy

In love, due to the constant contact and comprehensive understanding between the two sides, feelings are constantly improving. With the deepening of their feelings, they are eager for various forms of closeness, especially like the words and deeds of being close to each other. This is human nature. At this time, there are endless love words and sweet words between men and women, endless love, endless affection and endless heartfelt words together. The deeper the feelings, the more words? Numb? Numb? . When they are together, they are not intimate, arm in arm, or hug each other and are intimate. But after marriage, not only the gentle words disappeared, but also the nicknames commonly used in love were no longer used, either by first name or by first name. Hello? 、? Hi? Substitution, when it comes to this, everyone may say in unison? An old couple? Okay, so, so? Gross? number

There are no more physical contact and intimate actions and behaviors in life. You can say "all". An old couple? , again? Fuck it. how much is it? Awkward? , let a person feel? Tired? And then what? Gross? , completely? Old and not serious? Actually, it's not that I don't want to do it, and I'm embarrassed to do it. It is also a manifestation of emotional decline and indifference. Maybe people will say? An old couple? I definitely can't do those intimate words and deeds anymore, so why are there some? An old couple? When having an affair, what about those? Xiaomi? 、? Lover? 、? Mistress? What disgusting words can be said, and what excessive intimate actions can be done?

Third,? An old couple? Lack of concern

Fourth,? An old couple? Lose principle

Undeniably, in love, in order to win each other's recognition and goodwill, both sides show their best side to each other and hide their shortcomings and weaknesses, so it is inevitable that there will be mutual performance and concealment. And get along with each other day and night after marriage, so that everything you have is exposed and your true self is revealed to each other. At this time, many problems, habits, even bad habits, intolerable qualities, should have tried to change themselves or each other, but got nothing? An old couple? Come on, you still care about that. Change what, now? An old couple? Under the cover of connivance, forbearance and indulgence, all kinds of bad habits make family life miserable. Like my husband drinking and making trouble, huh? An old couple, who cares? I often worry about my husband's alcoholism, and finally my husband ruined his body early because of alcoholism;

Some people are addicted to gambling and don't want to change, but? An old couple, who cares? Finally, high debts or families are affected; Some are even fierce? Domestic violence? All here? An old couple? Self-anesthesia is a painful acceptance of humiliation, and some even exaggerate each other's infidelity and extramarital affairs. An old couple, don't want to toss, don't have the heart to make trouble with him? 、? We're married, right? These perceptions have been tolerant and forbearing, becoming insensitive, but they are very painful inside, suffering unimaginable pain and injustice. Just like this? An old couple? Under the indifferent mentality, I live a very disharmonious life. So? An old couple? It should be synonymous with love, a concept of happiness and harmony, a concentrated expression and representative of heavy and sincere feelings, but it is because? An old couple? Let life become indifferent, boring, indifferent, indifferent and helpless.