Family education topic composition

A composition on the topic of "family education"

At present, there are 367 million minors under the age of 0/8 in China. Behind every child, there are a pair of eyes that are deeply concerned about "family education". Parents pay more attention to their children's education than ever before. Family education in China has also made great progress. The penetration of modern educational consciousness into the family, the establishment of democratic and equal relationship between parents and children, and the spring breeze of parents' words and deeds left a deep impression on us. However, there are still many problems in family education in China.

Family education undoubtedly plays a decisive role in the growth of teenagers. You must have your own feelings and thoughts about family education. Please choose your own point of view on the topic of "family education" and write an article of no less than 800.

(A) education of love

Mom, if you give me another chance, I won't be your son anymore, even though you love me so much.

Really, I deeply know that you can't love anyone as much as you love me, but you love too much.

What impressed me the most was the time I ate hot pot. After we went to the hot pot city, a young-looking waiter served one end of all kinds of hot pot ingredients we ordered. Maybe she's just working, maybe it's because the road is slippery. She slipped while putting a plate of meatballs on the table, and some meatballs fell on the table. Your face was covered with dark clouds at once, and you shouted at the waiter, "How could you? How can I eat these meatballs when they fall on the table? What hot pot city, the service attitude is so poor ... "The painful expression on the waiter's face told me that her foot was twisted, but the physical pain was far less than the spiritual humiliation. I can't forget the look of injustice, sadness, anger and pain. Finally, my father dissuaded my mother. Mother didn't stop until the waiter brought another plate of meatballs. She finally stopped yelling.

I can't forget the waiter's expression. She just made a mistake, mom. Why did you do that? Do you know what terrible trauma this painful shadow will cause? This waitress may have just joined the work. Have you ever thought about how much her social life will be affected after being reprimanded by you? I tried to convince myself that my mother was so angry because she loved me. She just didn't want me to get hurt Love can be tolerant, I know. But you forget the true meaning of love: old and old, young and young. If you only care about me, but don't care about other people's feelings at all, it's not love, it's selfishness.

Every time I see you hurt the person who hurt me a thousand times because of my injury, every time I hear you whisper to me that this good learning method should not be told to others, lest others get better grades than me, my heart ached. I tried to talk to you countless times, but you refused casually. I've tried to show you some famous works about "Noble Mind" countless times, but you turned me back on the grounds that I didn't understand them.

Sometimes I wonder, was it a mistake or a joke that I was born in this family and became your son?

So mom, if you give me another chance, I'd rather be born in another family, even though you love me so much.

(2) release children

Once upon a time, a man kept an eagle. Later, the eagle ran away. A few days later, the eagle's body was found on the mountain. The master can't figure out why the eagle died for no reason. Under the guidance of the old man Shoulin, he cut open the eagle's stomach and suddenly realized.

It turned out that the eagle was pampered in a cage, but it lost its hunting ability, its stomach was empty and it starved to death.

Children are a flock of eagles, and eventually they will leave the cage. Every parent, every family, is only a temporary haven. A ship that wants to go to sea will eventually go to sea, and the storms it will experience are inevitable after all. Many roads in life, many dark nights can only be faced alone, and parents can't replace and undertake their children's lives.

However, if you look at China today, where is there no "eagle" in a cage? They have never experienced it, and have been living cautiously under the care of their parents. When you go to school, your parents will pick you up and help you carry your schoolbag. In life, parents help to wash clothes and quilts, and help to wear clothes and tie shoelaces; Even when going to summer camp, some parents have prepared enough food and bags big enough to hold dirty clothes. ...

Imagine, how can such a group of "young eagles" who fly out of the cage survive? What can they do except feel the troubles and heaviness of life? Tsinghua University once expelled a student because he didn't know how to dress and tie his shoelaces at school. It is also reported that a girl didn't know how to eat eggs at school, so she had to go home crying with two eggs in her arms. Such a ridiculous thing is actually alive in real life. Is that weird? Not surprising! Such education will lead to such children.

Sugarcane without watering it is sweet. Children's growth needs sharpening, and children's ability can only be formed through sharpening. Makarenko once hit the nail on the head and said, "Overindulgence is a kind of destruction to children." This is not sensational.

Have you ever seen a lonely pine tree standing proudly on a cliff? Why does its stem not move in the cold wind? That's because when it leaned out of the boulder, it was already devastated by suffering.

Have you ever seen butterflies flying around? Why are its wings so powerful in the sun? That's because when it comes out of the cocoon, it tries its best to squeeze body fluids into its wings.

"The sword front comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold." "If the white jade is not destroyed, which is right or wrong?" Although the ancients have gone far away, the words are still in my ears!

Some people say that the future of the country is in the hands of mothers rather than those in power. Family education is related to the fate of the country. I hope that parents in the world will let their children fly in cages, let them experience storms and let them build strong wings.

(3) Butterfly wings

I spin in the dark and talk among the flowers, just waiting for that beautiful dream to bloom in the sun. The ancestors left a thousand years of hope: to inherit the spirit of beauty, and before the integration of beauty and the world, we breathed restlessness and persistence in the dark. The carrier of darkness is the cocoon woven by the creator with failure, pain and confusion. Who doesn't want to get rid of this pale shackles and fly to the blue sky? Who doesn't want to dance along a stream to arouse the feelings of returning to the girl? Who doesn't want to linger in the misty rain in the south of the Yangtze River? Who wouldn't? ...

But we know that fragile wings can't stand the wind and rain, and only a resolute and persistent body forged in loneliness, cold and darkness can make me enjoy freedom and beauty. Don't cut my cocoon with your scissors in good faith, help me wave away the suffering in my life, please don't! It is not a real concern for me to smell the flowers prematurely, but a kind of destruction-our land shrinks in the sun, becomes a dead leaf, melts into the soil ... with me. Let me face my own suffering. Tears of fish I long for the clear spring in the horizon, where my brave dream is tied; I am eager to blend into the vast ocean and turn my heart into blue; I want to swim quietly in the clear lake without a trace of dust. ...

With my head held high, the indomitable edges and corners in my eyes were broken, and I struggled to rush. A gorgeous glass cover makes people feel a little gloomy and ferocious. Hold me and it hurts. So I closed my eyes and let my scales float feebly.

The sunset is like blood, and I see everything around me in a mess, my dreams, my heart and my tears. Perhaps, the world in which this glass cage lives is very safe and warm, and there will be no storms or lightning, but as far as life is concerned, is this a landscape or a cage?

If you love me, don't hold me too tightly. The tide of other years is surging, bleaching the blood of history and the fragility of human nature into eternity. In this eternity, there are too many confusions and obsessions, wisdom and Qingyuan. How to make this "forever" crystal clear? How can butterflies breathe fragrance lightly, and how can fish interpret life freely? Listen-

Let every life experience the suffering he should bear, and let every soul become perfect in constant deformity-love, sometimes it is actually a kind of destruction. (58 points)

(4) Recall the fleeting time.

In a season of spring breeze and catkins flying all over the sky, a weak baby was born, and she began to thrive with a pair of loving eyes. With this, she began to look at this strange world with curious eyes. She began to learn, and under the careful guidance of her family, she began to experience a learning process from simple to in-depth, from not knowing much to knowing much, which was full of joy, pain, tears and laughter. How many years have passed in endless love!

Joy came in an instant, sitting in the cradle car, looking at the whispering swallow, so grandpa taught her to recite "helpless flowers fall, like swallows returning", oh, Song ci can fly; On the big round table in front of the window, he pointed to the red lotus, so grandpa shook his head and read, "Lotus can be picked in the south of the Yangtze River. What is the sweetness of lotus leaves?" Oh, the ancient Yuefu is colored and smells faint. On a dark rainy night, accompanied by the story of the prince and Cinderella and her mother's temperature, she crossed the Nile and the Danish Strait in her dream and played games with Grandpa Andersen with a white beard. In the bright spring breeze, sitting on the grass as soft as Beth, lying on the green Qin Sang, listening to grandpa's story of the Three Kingdoms, she really wants to ride a red hare and meet the majestic Guan Yunchang. These bits and pieces of joy made her interested in her future life and gained endless knowledge.

The pain left an indelible impression. When she caught the chicken and gave a smug laugh, when she had a whim to cut flowers and clothes, when she put down her pen and slipped out to make a snow doll, when she was put in a dark room for disobedience, she rudely accepted a firm "lesson." So she felt wronged, sadder than that Qu Yuan, and shed tears than the Empress Dowager of Southern Tang Dynasty. She got a warm and reasonable explanation, learned not to bully the weak, learned the hard-won needle and thread, learned persistence, learned patience, learned the basic principles of being a man, and gained strength that she could not learn from schools and books.

Tears and laughter enriched her plain life. Encouraged by her father, she climbed the Great Wall, Mount Tai, Yueyang Tower and the sea viewing platform. In the whirlpool of laughter and tears, she learned to have a majestic waist like a mountain and a broad mind like the sea. Every time she shed tears, she snuggled up to her family. This is the quietest haven. Every time she laughs, she shares it with the whole family. This is the most beautiful Shangri-La in her heart!

There is joy, pain, tears and laughter. This is her fleeting time. Time flies like water, time flies like water, but what never dies is that beautiful and meaningful happy time!

He ferried for me.

I think he was born in a gray age with no romance, a bleak and lifeless age. A little swaying can bring many surprises and flashes. Probably related to the mental outlook of that era and his own experience. He is very steady and reserved. He doesn't like my arrogance and willfulness, and asks me to plan ahead by "everything is established in advance, and if it is not pre-planned, it will be abolished". But he didn't know that I was tired, and the result and process were predicted, which made me feel that everything was programmed. He had high expectations for me and gave me a pair of heavy wings to fly like a lonely goose. I studied hard, but I couldn't get the grades he wanted. I gave up my passion and vitality for him.

He never praised me, even though I got a certificate of honor for my contribution. I once saw Xi Murong's words: "The innocence of youth lies in its gone forever, which can be met but not sought." I realized that I had deviated from my youth and dreams. As a teacher, he always likes to lecture me with a lot of words. He told me that if I don't understand something, don't say it's meaningless. He told me that no matter how wronged I was, I would take a step back. I didn't say that I don't like this tone of life, just because he is my hardworking and dedicated father, and I don't want to go against his words.

I remember some childhood memories. He let me ride on his shoulders and took me to the circus. He bought a lot of small print books for me to practice calligraphy one by one, and took me to climb a long mountain on a gray rainy day. He thinks it can make me happy and have an unforgettable childhood. However, he never knew that I didn't like to watch circus or practice calligraphy and climb mountains. I'd rather have fun with the children.

I really want to summon up the courage to tell him that without his bondage, I still can't change my original intention, and without his navigation, I still can't bury my yearning ... but one day I rummaged through his drawer, which was full of photos of me, big and small. I stood for a long time and suddenly realized that I was his hope and his dream, just like going to sea was my dream. We are all practicing hard, but we don't stand in each other's perspective and think for each other. Before, I always felt that there was a river between us. I was here and he was there.

Now, I know it's not him on the other side, it's him who ferried for me. However, I sincerely hope that one day, he can hand me an oar and we can master the direction together.

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(vi) Three movements in New Meng Mu.

Meng, 16 years old, studying in No.1 Middle School, is now a senior one student. His home is in the suburb more than ten miles away from the university, and there is no bus from there to No.1 Middle School. Therefore, Meng Shusheng gets up every morning and then drives more than ten miles to school. In the long run, Meng Xue will doze off in class. Therefore, Meng Mu resolutely decided to move his family to No.1 Middle School to study Mencius. Meng Xue readily agreed that he would no longer worry about going to school, no longer doze off in class, and his academic performance would soar. Meng Mu is very satisfied with his decision. Soon after, Meng Mu found that his son went to school much later than before, and he was very confused. So, when he got to school, he found that the time had not changed. The distance between school and home was so close, and the slowest walk was only ten minutes. Meng Mu was puzzled, so he made a thorough investigation. Finally, I found my son in an Internet cafe in front of my house. At that time, I found my son playing computer games with a group of classmates, shouting. Meng Mu is worried about the shocking events in the newspaper that degenerated from playing computer games, and that similar things will happen to his son. So, Meng Mu arrested Meng Xue, scolded him thoroughly, and then made another very firm decision-to move back to the suburbs. In addition, the time for Meng Xue to go home was set, and Meng Xue was asked to make a promise that he would not be allowed to set foot in the Internet cafe.

In this way, Meng Xue honestly passed through Grade One and Grade Two, but in Grade Three, the school made an unprecedented decision: to open an Internet cafe on campus. The news exploded in this city like a bomb. Meng Mu was also surprised by this, so he rushed to school at the first time to find out why. Meng Mu, who came out of school with a bright face, couldn't wait to pull his son to the front, announced that the previous ban had been lifted, and told Meng Xue earnestly that the Internet is a rapidly developing technology today, and future talents should understand it, so Meng Xue is now allowed to surf the Internet in his spare time. But when surfing the internet, you should play games moderately and not be addicted. The amount of information on the Internet is very large. It's very convenient to look up some information you want to look up in your study, and ... After some words, Meng Mu sighed long and announced again that he would move his home to the city center. The neighbor asked, "Your son is a senior three, and he is allowed to surf the Internet. This time, he moved to such a noisy downtown. Is that all right? " Meng Mu wisely replied: "Family education is not forbidden, but should guide education and let children adapt to society! Therefore, this move is right! "

(7) Letter to Meng Mu.

Dear Meng Mu:

2/kloc-A mother in the 20th century had a naughty and disappointing son. Two days ago, my son's head teacher called me and asked me to discipline him well and let him not get into trouble again! I asked what was going on. Guess what the child said? He even said that he wanted to be a knowledgeable and moral person like your son Monk, and always respect the old and love the young-God, no wonder the head teacher asked me to teach him a lesson! Can a straightforward and a little silly person like your son survive in today's world of flowers and flowers? Meng Mu, Meng Mu! You really hurt me. Why did you teach your son like that? What a mistake.

First of all, you shouldn't move to Meng Mu. Sister, do you know how high the house price is in 2 1 century? If we move to three families, we won't go bankrupt and my family will be poor. Tell you, the surrounding environment is not good, it is not good. Why should the child's family be so worried about him? Like my family, the one across the hall is an expert in "building the Great Wall"; On the left is a fortune teller who swindles money; The family on the right is engaged in making and selling fakes ... Although this environment is not elegant enough, it is enough for our son to learn all the skills-flattery, deception, deception ... It is really difficult for people without these two skills to stand on their feet in this world! But what about you? Move out of a businessman's house! Please. If your son Mencius had learned the businessman's duplicity and duplicity, he would have made a fortune long ago. How can I be so hungry that I have to say "sacrifice my life for justice" all day? Is it sour?

Secondly, even if you move, you can't move next to a group of nerds. As the saying goes, "Nothing goes to the Three Treasures Hall." Aren't you doing this on purpose to make your son a loser? Like our kiddo, she calculated that her son was going to be an official, so she moved to the house next to that building in Gao Qian, wondering how to change a good girl all day and let her son climb the dragon and attach the phoenix. Won't he be promoted soon one day? Nowadays, nepotism has increased a lot. It doesn't matter whether you know everything or what you are.

Third, you're dead. Why did you cut your loom? That's cotton satin woven with great effort-how expensive it is! Why destroy it to educate your truant son? What a waste! Nowadays, children want to go to school, but their parents are still too distressed to let them go! It's much better to go into the sea early and do some rich business than to be a great scholar who runs into a wall everywhere? In fact, your son is very smart and knows that he is going to skip class. I don't have the heart to push him into the fire pit by such despicable means as broken wires.

In a word, you, you are a stupid mother. You can't make a fortune and get promoted by teaching your son to be a great scholar. Well, of course I don't want my son to be so unworthy! I want him to be an outstanding figure in the new century!

(8) I think family education.

How should parents educate their children in today's China society? In my opinion, we can get some enlightenment from the family education of world champions.

Strict education is not out of line, and human nature moves the truth. This is the way parents have been pursuing to educate their children. Wang, a famous world long-distance running champion, was four kilometers away from home when he was eleven or twelve years old. Her father Wang Youfu said to him, "Since you like running so much, run to school every day!" So, the young king carried his schoolbag and insisted on running around all day, regardless of the cold and heat. Hours of exercise laid a solid foundation for his future growth. 1September, 1992, she finally became the world-famous champion of the10,000-meter long-distance running in the World Youth Championship.

Wang Youfu's family education seems cruel, but in fact, her father is not beyond his "endurance". He skillfully uses conditions to exercise her in life, which is in sharp contrast with the "stormy" education in real life. This is that strict education is not out of line.

The family education of the famous black football king Bailey is also of great significance for us to deal with the relationship between parents and children. When Bailey was thirteen or fourteen years old, he learned to smoke from his friends on the roadside. The father of a professional football player found out and went home timidly, waiting for his father's reprimand. However, his father talked to him in a friendly way and asked him how many times he smoked. Little Bailey also answered one by one. His father was reasonable and just said to him earnestly, "Although you have some talent in playing football, if you indulge in smoking and drinking," Little Bailey was so ashamed that he would lead an honest and clean life and eventually become the "black football king". Obviously, his father's teaching played a great role in him. He once said: "If my father hit me and scolded me that day, it might arouse my resistance and I might become a heavy smoker." If so, will today's football king be Bailey? Will the world football championship fall on him?

"Strict teaching is not out of line, human nature moves the truth", which is the mentor of two world champions. I advise parents who are still exploring the real parent-child relationship. I hope these two sentences can inspire you and really educate your children-strict education is not out of line, and human nature moves the truth.