What is the saying that husband and wife tell each other's fortune?

Today, I go to calculate my life. The fortune teller said that my husband and I had a good horoscope. What do you mean? And that fortune teller is the most famous in our local area.

The so-called astrology is to match the horoscopes of both men and women, to study in detail whether the five elements between the horoscopes of both sides are harmonious, whether the luck and fleeting time of both sides are serious, and whether the married life of the two people is good or bad in the future, and to put forward reasonable suggestions to prevent the unfortunate marriage from burning, so as to improve the quality of marriage. Eight-character marriage is one of the traditional marriage prediction methods in China, which has a long historical and cultural origin; Its research is rich in historical materials and broad social mass base, so it has realistic social value and academic significance to study it. The eight characters of marriage between men and women are based on the birth time and place of both men and women, using the theory of yin and yang and the five elements, combining the Universiade and the fleeting time, comprehensively analyzing the fate, inferring whether the two can get married, whether they can grow old together, when they are prone to crisis after marriage, and when their marriage is stable and happy. And give guidance to both parties to adjust their marriage fortune, which will help a happy life.

An eight-character marriage

1, a woman injured by a Japanese official can't marry.

All the women born in Wu Jia, Yisi, Gengzi and Xinhai were injured by the Japanese branch.

The Japanese branch is the marriage palace, and the husband is the "home" in your constellation. It is not the husband who appears in the in-laws' house, but the wounded officer who binds him.

Generally, Foucault will be the one with serious performance; Those who perform poorly will get divorced; No matter how light it is, it is a long-term disagreement between husband and wife. This situation can also lead to poor health of the husband.

2. The eight-character slanderer, a woman with many food gods can't marry.

It is Dick's job to be an official on behalf of his spouse. The return of the god of food will turn into an official injury, so it will turn into a disadvantage to the stability of marriage.

In terms of personality, women who are more vulnerable to being hurt by officials and gourmets prefer to take care of their husbands rather than being taken care of by others. They are bad-tempered, emotionally unstable, easy to cheat, and easy to lead to cheating with their husbands, so marriage is difficult to last.

3, the eight-character official can't marry a mixed woman.

Under normal circumstances, the official represents the husband, and the partial official (also known as the seven kills) represents the lover. There are both officials and partial officials in the eight characters, which shows that he has had husbands and lovers all his life.

Think about it, the eight characters are like a person's living space. In a woman's living space, husband and lover coexist. Will her marriage and love life be peaceful? Explain that the woman's marriage will be unhappy, she may divorce and remarry, and she may have an extramarital affair, depending on the specific combination.

4. Women in the eight-character marriage palace can't marry.

As we know, the marriage palace is like a wedding room where husband and wife live together. Every rush is like being hit by some force. Do you think the wedding room will be stable? Marriage palace is washed away, and marriage is the easiest. There are six groups of conflicting earthly branches: Meridian, Ugly, Shen Yin, You Mao, Chen Xu and Hayes. Any earthly branch in the month of birth or at the time of birth, which conflicts with the Japanese branch (marriage palace), and no other branches can be combined (combined to solve the conflict), belongs to the marriage palace. If there is land rushing to the marriage palace, it is also a time when marriage is unstable. Some eight-character combinations are not good, and women who have three punishments and self-punishment in the marriage palace will also be bad for marriage.

How can I find your horoscope marriage?

1, neutralizing each other

The strength of the five elements of the eight-character life figure is balanced with each other. When choosing a mate, Zhang Xinlong thinks that fate must correspond to the Universiade, and then, determine the other person's fortune status to see if the other person's Universiade is balanced.

2. The yen matches each other.

The two sides are neutral in character, and there is no serious punishment for hitting people. The two sides are combined with each other. After marriage, the husband and wife are United and grow old together. Such as; Men's yen is more gold, and women's yen is Mu Yi.

3. The combination of husband and wife palace

Husband and wife palace is a happy combination of life and destiny. After marriage, husband and wife respect each other with humility, harmonious relationship and happy family. The couple's palace is a Japanese branch, and when the Japanese branches of the couple's palace are combined, they become the god of love.

The above discussion is only a simple rule, but in actual operation, we still need to pay attention to the degree of hit, the authenticity of the pattern, the trend of the Universiade and so on. Only comprehensive consideration can avoid the misfortune of future marriage.

4. The five elements complement each other

First of all, we should know what kind of life is suitable for us to find to balance each other, because life has advantages and disadvantages, just as everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages. Only when husband and wife learn from each other's strong points and develop harmoniously with Yin and He can they know everything. For example; The man's five elements belong to fire and water shortage, while the woman's five elements belong to water and water shortage. The two of them combined with numerology to form a fire and water auspicious. After marriage, they are loving and happy, and their children and families are happy.

Step 5 turn an enemy into a friend

Every fate has its moments of confrontation, just like two armies at war. This numerology is generally ups and downs. If you find a spouse who can resolve the fate, the fortune will be smooth after marriage, the husband and wife will love each other, and the family economic situation will be good. For example, one side hits harder than the robbery, and the other side eats the stars. After marriage, the husband sings with the woman or the woman sings with the husband, and the marriage is thriving. Another example is; One side of fate is a strong smell of official killing, and the other side is a strong reputation. After they got married, the husband and wife cooperated tacitly, the resources were well integrated, the work and career developed rapidly, and the most important thing was that they were rich in life and had high family and social status.

What kind of constellation is the happiest?

1, two people have more personalities, and marriage is easy to be harmonious and happy.

For example, if a person was born in Ugly Year B, Shen Jiayue, Renchen Day and Bingwu Day, then the heavenly stems and earthly branches corresponding to the date of birth is Gengzi Year, Keith Month, Ding Youri and Wei Xinshi. The more they combine, the better their feelings will be, and it will be easy to leave each other, and their marriage will be harmonious and happy.

2. The eight characters of two people are both Wangfu in a certain way. They will have a common ideal and will be harmonious and happy after marriage.

If two people are both prosperous in wealth, career, printing and so on. Two people often have common goals and ideals in one aspect. Husband and wife work together for wealth or career, or two people like to study a certain aspect of knowledge and have the same interests at the same time. Living together will be more harmonious and happy.

3, strong and weak eight-character marriage is easy to be harmonious and happy.

If both husband and wife are particularly strong and will not give in to each other, there will definitely be many contradictions and quarrels. If one of them is strong and one is weak, it means that one person is strong, one person is soft, one is outside the home, and the other is at home. Both husband and wife learn from each other's strengths and like each other's strengths, so it is easy to run the family well and have a happy marriage.

4. The eight characters of two people hit it off, and the marriage will be harmonious and happy.

In the eight characters, the pattern of the two is similar, for example: both of them belong to Wang Yin; Or fortune synchronization; Or both are physically weak or physically strong; Or the fire, water and soil of Jin Mu in the five elements of two people all belong to the balanced type, or the extreme type, and so on. And the pattern is similar. They often agree on something, have a common hobby, talk easily, and both sides often agree. So after marriage, the two people feel very harmonious and happy.

5. The eight characters of two people complement each other, and the marriage will be harmonious and happy.

In the marriage between men and women, no matter how you look at it, if two people are fond of each other, the man's eight-character wooden fire is more and the woman's wooden fire is weaker, forming a complementary relationship. Through complementarity, two people can achieve a balance, so they will get along more harmoniously and happily, and bring good luck to each other.

6. Marrying the person you love at the most favorable time for your marriage will bring harmony and happiness.

The so-called favorable time for one's marriage generally refers to the time when men and women meet peach blossom stars, the time when fate meets, or the time when men and lucky women become officials. These are all good for your marriage. If the time is right, they will get right step by step, and their future marriage will be relaxed and smooth, and they will be more harmonious and happy. Therefore, when choosing the marriage time with the person you love, try to choose the period suitable for both parties to get married.

Characteristics of Japanese column in eight-character marriage

1, the fate of husband and wife is a taboo for men and women, and marriage is a waste.

A man needs a lucky star as his wife in life. If there are many fortune stars in his life, he is a taboo, or if there are no fortune stars in his life, or if fortune stars are released from prison, they are more prosperous than robbing money, which are all signs of unsatisfactory marriage. A woman's life is dominated by official killing. If there are many officials who kill their husbands and are taboo, or the officials who kill their husbands are missing, or the officials who kill their husbands are lifeless, it is more prosperous than robbery, and it is also a sign that the marriage is not smooth. Men's four pillars have no wealth or pure yang and pure yin, which the ancients called monk's life; The four pillars of a woman's life are also called monks without official killing or pure yin and pure yang.

2. The couple's palace was punished by six reds or each other, and the marriage was unstable.

The underground branch of the eight-character yen block is the husband and wife palace, which is the hub of marriage. The couple's palace is punished by six reds or each other, so it is difficult to get married. The couple's palace is forbidden by the core historical sites of life, namely the Dizhi, the Dizhi of the Universiade and Liuhong, and Liuhong is already eighteen or nineteen years old. Especially when the Sun and Moon branches collide with each other, it is inevitable that you will go to the couple's palace. The couple's palace is forbidden to meet Yin, who has applied for three punishments, and the ugly mother and son are punished. Men and women are punished separately, and most marriages are not concealed, so the chances of divorce are greater.

3. the marriage of the injured official on the female life day is not smooth.

Don't be careless on your birthday. If a woman has an official injury, it is difficult for her marriage to go smoothly. The main branches of Japanese wounded officials are Wu Jia, Yisi, Gengzi and Xinhai. In my experience, women who bask in the sun and eat gods every day should also be officials, such as Bingchen, Bing Xu, Wushen and Renyin.

Of course, there is no absolute thing in the world, and so is learning. There are many numerological reasons leading to unsatisfactory marriage, which are also related to factors such as times, personality and environment. To predict the marital status more correctly, we should make a comprehensive analysis according to my eight characters.

People born in the wrong day and destined to be lonely have bad marriage and love.

Regardless of gender, all the sun pillars are Bingzi, Bingwu, Ding Chou, Ding Wei, Wuyin, Wushen, Xinmao, Xinyou, Renchen, Ren Xu, Guisi and Guihai, all of which are wrong days. As the old saying goes, "When the sun falls on the wrong day, a woman meets her, her husband and wife are few, her sister-in-law is insufficient, and her husband's family is cold." When a man met him, he quit his husband's family, and he divorced his husband's family. It is extremely heavy for both men and women to commit two or three crimes on the day of confinement. The owner of the crime that day was not allowed to work outside the home, even if he had a wife and wealth, it became a waste flower. After a long time, he will still be enemies with his husband's family and will not talk to each other. "Yin and Yang fault refers to the sign that men and women violate the way of Yin and Yang, their marriage is not smooth, and their gas fields are mutually exclusive. At the time of birth, the husband and wife were not harmonious, and in serious cases they were divorced.

Any group of heavenly stems and earthly branches, such as Yizhi, Dingzhi, Xinhai, Wushen, Jiayin, Wuwu, Renzi and Bingwu, appears on the Japanese column or the time column, which means that this person is doomed to be lonely. Lonely and lonely, the marriage between the Lord and the woman is not smooth. Lonely Luan sang, "I don't know if a snake meets a wood fire." Why should the golden pig be arrogant? Where are the local monkeys and tigers? It's time to dance with lonely Luan. " Lonely Luan killed another cloud: "The wooden tiger has no husband, the golden pig has no husband, the red lies alone, and the black mouse guards its room." In fact, loneliness is self-harm or sheep's blade. Because the god of food is too strong, it also has similar characteristics of hurting officials and can be an official. A man's life is too strong, showing signs of hurting his wife. This is a sign that marriage is not going well.

5, the Japanese column hurts the spouse with a blade.

Women's life is the last word in the marriage palace. Men's birthday branches are Bingwu and Renzi, while women's birthday branches are Ding Si and Gui Hai, and they are the most unhappy in marriage. If the word "daily support" is the five taboo elements in his fate, the lighter will divorce, and the heavier will lead to the disability and death of his spouse. Especially if men's birthday party is Bingwu and Renzi, not only will the Japanese party be sharp-edged, but it will also rob money, and marriage will be even worse.

There are also Wuwu and Keith, which are also Japanese branches sitting on the Yang Blade, but Yang Blade is one of them, and its influence is slightly weak. However, some of these two Japanese pillars have spouses who are disabled. Women whose birthdays are Bingwu and Renzi are generally particularly competitive in their husband and wife lives, and they are often strong, which easily leads to the imbalance between husband and wife and affects marriage. The sun branch is the blade of the sun, but this word is favored by fate. Such people get great help from their spouses, but their spouses are inevitably disabled and sick.

6. Rizhu can hardly resist each other's feelings.

Since the birthday party represents people and the birthday party represents spouses, then husband and wife are in the same column and interdependent, just like heaven and earth. If cadres support each other, it is called "heaven and earth are not pretending", which shows that there is a lack of necessary and effective communication channels, and it is easy for couples to turn against each other, and the relationship is not harmonious. The good times are not long, and the cold war is a mess. Especially for those whose daily columns are Shen Jia, JOE, Yiyou, Shen Bing, Ding You, Wuyin, Jimao, Gengyin, Xinmao, Ren Xu and Guiwei, the atmosphere between husband and wife is bad, communication is the most difficult, and the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious.

If the heavenly stems and earthly branches of the eight-character sun column is consistent, it shows that although it is difficult to achieve harmony and tacit understanding between husband and wife, they can still be considerate, tolerant and accommodating. The combination of Japanese stem and Japanese branch is Dinghai, Wuzi, Xinsi and Renwu, and the combination of Zhongqi and Japanese stem in the ground branch is Jihai and Guisi.

7. It is easy for a husband and wife to cheat when they sit side by side.

The Eight-character Rizhu sits shoulder to shoulder, that is, the birthday cadres are Jiayin, Mao Yi, Chen Wu, Wuxu, Wei Zi, Zi Chou, Geng Shen and Xin You.

Side by side represents people like Japanese workers. The weak take shoulder to shoulder as a helper, and the strong take shoulder to shoulder as a competitor. Birthday ground branch was originally its marriage palace, where the spouse lived, but it was occupied by shoulder to shoulder, indicating that the spouse lived with shoulder to shoulder. This is not spousal infidelity. What is this? Among the eight branches, the male life pillars are Jiayin, Chen Wu, Wuxu and Gengshen, while the female life pillars are Yi Mao, Wiki, Self-ugliness and Heart-existence. Because sitting in the marriage palace coincides with the spouse star, it shows that someone has the same feelings with their spouse. It is also necessary to divide the marriage palace into enemies and friends, friends who like to use God, and enemies who avoid God. As representatives of friends, husband and wife are United and can advance and retreat together; On behalf of the enemy, the spouse loves to cheat, and the spouse always gives money to the lover.

An analysis of the unsatisfactory marriage of eight characters

1, the person who was born on the wrong day;

These days are mainly twelve: Bingzi, Ding Chou, Wuyin, Xinmao, Renchen, Guisi, Bingwu, Ding Wei, Wushen, Xinyou, Ren Xu and Guihai.

The so-called yin and yang are wrong, which means that the yin and yang of heaven and earth are either insufficient or not strong enough, and there is a risk of damage.

Therefore, the ancients often attached great importance to this day.

It is believed that the male life born on this day is mainly to pull away from the husband's family, which brings him luck to pull away from the gas, and also has a lot of right and wrong with the husband's family, with a cold relationship, poor interaction and few words.

People born on this day are easily controlled by their husbands, have poor satisfaction with their marriage, or can't marry into a poor family against their parents' orders, or marry into a disabled or mentally retarded family because of filial piety; Or with parents-in-law, father-in-law, cold relationship, sister-in-law and husband's family.

【 Yin wrong Yang bad evil spirit 】 The original:

What is the difference between yin and yang; Xin Mao, Ren Chen, Gui Si; Bing Wuding did not apply for the position; Heart has passed away; Bingzi Ding Chou Wuyin Day; Sing carefully in the zodiac; Where there is good wind, there is no wind; Candles are not free to welcome lang; Not because of filial piety; The dilapidated house entered a family dispute; Women are still everywhere; True or false aunt or mistress. Otherwise, there will be more or less punishment; The outside world is the frontier.

[Teacher's explanation] Inconsistency between Yin and Yang is a very bad jinx for women's birthdays. It is considered that the main branches of birth date or time are Xin Jianmao, I see Chen, I see Si, C see Wu, D see Wei, E see Shen, Xin Jianyou, I see Xu, I see Hai, C see Zi, D see Ugliness and E see Yin. When a woman encounters this evil, people who like romance may not be romantic, but they can't help but marry a husband casually. As a result, the man's family may be poor, so that the husband and wife turned against each other and even married someone else to be mistresses. If not, they will be punished a lot. Although widowed, the family is also falling apart.

2. People born on the day of the blade;

Sun Blade: Bingwu, Wuwu, Renzi, Dingsi, Keith and Guihai. It means that the Lord of the sun sits on the blade of a sheep. According to statistics, people born on the blade of the sun are mostly unhappy in marriage, accounting for a large proportion. Because the Japanese branch is a sheep's blade, it belongs to a vicious thing, like a sword, clinging to the murder weapon. Of course, you need to be careful. It is not easy to hurt yourself or your spouse, so most marriages are not smooth. At the same time, the main spouse has a bad temper and often suffers from fierce disasters.

People with nervous status have bad marriages, especially women. Because a woman's life requires her to conform to Kundao, it is best to be quiet and obedient.

What appeared in the column at sunrise this Saturday is called "Sun Blade" and what appeared in the column is called "Moon Blade". When looking at the horoscope, as long as the Rizhu appears, most marriages are not beautiful, and early marriage is easy to leave, and late marriage can reduce its fierceness.

Because the sun blade is a dry branch, it is the sun who sits on the ground to rob the emperor's wealth, and the husband and wife palace sits on the ground to rob the wealth. That means the other half has a strong personality and may cost me money. If so, then this reason is too far-fetched.

In fact, the real reason lies in "dark grams", which is a phenomenon that can't be seen in the eight characters, but it often has the opposite effect, that is, from the surface of the eight characters, it can't see any influence on the couple's palace, which is "dark grams".

Wu sits in the afternoon as the emperor, his wife is Ren Shui or Gui Shui, and his wife is the emperor. Therefore, Lunzi and Wu are husband and wife, and the collision of the earth branches and meridians means that the wife runs to the palace of husband and wife. This is called "wife Lu Chong (husband) wife palace", suggesting that there may be separation or death. Therefore, the Japanese Lord's male life in Wuwu is a curse to his wife, while the Japanese Lord's female life in Wuwu is a curse, because the husband of the Reform Movement of 1898 is a curse, and his salary is in the shade, so it is not a curse.

(Especially when a man marries a wife who is not his son in the afternoon) However, people who are not his son's wife, regardless of gender, will marry the other half, because the son's wife is Huo C, the son's husband is Tu E, and C E are all prosperous in the afternoon, so Ziwu Chong is also a "husband's (wife's) Lu Chong (wife's) palace", so it is a secret, so the son of his son was born in Guihai.

Women are the same in the afternoon, but men are different in the afternoon.

Ding Si female, Keith male, also need to pay more attention.

In addition, the situation of the martial goddess who is not the blade of the sun is also very serious, so we should pay more attention.

Rukun ordered Xin Yougeng Yin to return to Guihai in Wuwu.

In the early spring, the cold soil loves fire, and the May 5 th women not only did not help their husbands, but also helped them vigorously. (This husband also refers to a boyfriend who is related by blood.)

Taking Yin as her boyfriend, you Kegeng wore gold, and her boyfriend was poor, but after being with this woman, her fortune flourished, and her boyfriend had a mistress at noon.

This is also the sorrow of Fu Rong.

3. People born in lonely days;

Loneliness: Yisi, Dingsi, Xinhai, Wushen, Jiayin, Renzi, Bingwu.

The marriage is not smooth; A man is a wife and a woman is a husband.

The so-called: life is lonely, sleeping alone;

Some people think that the female life born in Lonely Luan tends to deny children.

In fact, "Lonely Luan" (lonely Luan and widowed evil spirit) first came from "Sanyuanhui" written by Wan in the Ming Dynasty, Volume 9: On Gods Lonely Luan and widowed evil spirit.

The full text is as follows; Ancient songs;

Wood fire is a bad omen for snakes. ),

Why is the golden pig so wild? ),

Where is the native monkey Muhu (referring to people born in Wushen and Jiayin)? ),

The fire horse vole sleeps alone on the pillow. )。

The above paragraph of Sanshenghui refers to the 60-year-old combination of personal birthdays; People born in Japan, such as Yisi, Dingsi, Xinhai, Wushen, Jiayin, Bingwu and Renzi, were born with the phenomenon that men are outside the house and women are inside. There are seven groups of lonely love days.

The basic principle of unrequited love day;

In numerology, a woman's husband kills an official (official, seven kills), and a man's wife is a wealth star (positive wealth, partial wealth). However, according to the twelve-year-old formula, if the spouse star escapes to the death of the five elements, it will be considered congenital and will bring about the phenomenon of husband and wife.

For example; The woman born in the fourth grade was killed by her husband as "water", and the twelve immortals of water fled to the land that had been "extinct" in the fourth grade Therefore, the female life is a person born by Ding Si, and there is a phenomenon that the husband denies it in essence. But if the theory; People who are born every day have turned the five elements into "gold" instead of water, and the twelve gold coins have fled to the place where "four" is "eternal life". Then there is no broken wife, so a man's life doesn't care about his wife.

Another example is people born on the day of the Revolution of 1911. His wife is a lucky star, while his lucky star is a "wood", and the twelfth longevity of wood fled to the sea as a "longevity" place. Therefore, a man born on 19 1 1 year does not have the phenomenon of wife constraint in essence. However, a woman born on the day of the Revolution of 1911 regards her husband's stars as "fire" rather than wood, which is the phenomenon. The twelfth generation of fire fled to the "sea" as a place of "extinction". Therefore, women's lives must be discussed on the day of 1911.

So are the other five days.

Such as female life1August 6, 992.

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Jiayin's Lonely Love Day has little influence, and the failure lies in this luck. Yin has applied for three sentences and has no kindness: cold heart, ingratitude, easy to be framed for evil things, often ungrateful, heartless and easy to conceive.

4. People born on the eighth day of nine ugliness.

Nine ugly days include Wuzi, Ding You, Ding Mao, Wuwu, Ji You, Jimao, Renzi, Renwu and Xinmao.

People born in these nine days sit on peach blossoms every day, which shows that they and their spouses are more passionate. Therefore, scandals often affect your reputation; Or something difficult to say, so marriage is difficult to go smoothly.

And a woman who died in vain is not good for her children.

Nine ugly days don't mean ugly, on the contrary, most people born on this day are beautiful or charming!

Its name is very ugly, which means it is easy to cause bad reviews in word of mouth. Especially those who are torn by feelings, publicized and publicized, and even have a bad reputation in court, so that their reputation is ruined.

Eight special days include Jiayin, Mao Yi, Wuxu, Jisi, Ding Wei, Gengshen, Xinyou and Guichou.

Because the momentum is more specialized, it is called Eight Specialized Days, which aims at grabbing wives and competing for husbands. It is possessive and mainly focuses on lust and enjoyment all day.

On this solar column, you are usually in good health, and perhaps your sexual ability is better and stronger, so it is easier to cause trouble and failure in wine and color.

Eight specialties are called "the blade of lust" and nine ugliness is "the time of obstruction", so eight specialties and nine ugliness are collectively called "the evil of lust", which is not conducive to marriage. Rizhu met eight experts and had an illegitimate daughter, while Shizhu met eight experts and had an illegitimate child.

After sorting out the above marriages, these days are: Chen Jia, JOE, Yisi, Bingzi, Bingwu, Ding You, Ding Mao, Ding Si, Ding Chou, Ding Wei, Wuyin, Wushen, Wuwu, Wuzi, Ji You, Jimao, Xinyou, Xinmao, Xinhai and Renzi.

As many as 26. Almost half of the sixty flowers. If we consider the situation of the spouse star and the husband and wife palace in the eight characters, and those who may have a bad marriage, such as peach blossoms and widows, it is more common. Perhaps because of this, some people say that everyone has his own misfortune and every family has its own experience, which is even more difficult to read.

In fact, it is not surprising that everyone's marriage may face some troubles.

But you must not be born for these bad days. You must think marriage is bad. The theory of evil god is only a reference, not absolute.

The most difficult thing about marriage is that you have eight specialties, sharp edges, and you are a jealous person in the eight characters. Men's lives are particularly bad.

There are nine ugly people in life, and there are people who are jealous of gods in the eight characters. Most of them have immoral things, which destroy family style and affect reputation. We must pay attention to them.

As for loneliness, misfortune and nine ghosts, as long as they don't commit other taboos, most of them are indifferent relationships and Yin people worship them. It's just a little trouble. Don't worry too much.

However, it must be understood that since it is a bad day in marriage, it is bound to be a potential factor of unsatisfactory marriage and needs reasonable attention. Some people commit these terrible crimes, or even worse, but after marriage, there is no problem with marriage. This may be the potential factor of unsatisfactory marriage, which may be manifested in the way of love, or it may be that others have learned the lesson of unsatisfactory marriage and realized the true meaning of successful marriage.