Guiguzi: How to get fewer sinners and do things well?

Guiguzi Raiders, how to get fewer sinners and get things done well.

Many times, we do a lot of things, sweat and stink, but others are ungrateful. And some people, who don't do any dirty work, have their share of all good things and are often praised for their contributions. Is he a fairy? How did he do it?

Guiguzi pointed out in his Beast Law of the Pearl that if you want to run freely like a pearl, you must use animal skills. "Infinite, there must be a saint's heart, with unexpected wisdom; With unpredictable wisdom, empathy, and the chaos of Shinto. " By discussing everything from a changing perspective, we can clarify endless truths.

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"Round, so the language; Party, this is not right. "

Translation: flexibility is to make the other party's opinions harmonious; Be frank and straightforward, and do things correctly according to the rules.

Circle is a strategy, a flexibility and an adaptability. The Party is a principle, a discipline and an indomitable spirit. Circle and square are opposites, just like feelings and reason. Only by properly adjusting the proportion, which is lighter or heavier, can we grasp proper limit well.

Case:

Confucius has 3,000 disciples and 72 sages, but his most admired and favorite disciple is Yan Hui. After Yan Hui's death, he was devastated. However, his father Yan Lu suggested that Confucius sell his car and buy a big coffin for his children, but Confucius refused Yan Lu.

He explained that he couldn't sell a car: whether he was talented or not, his son would always be a son, and his son Kong Li was buried without a big coffin after his death.

Confucius is very learned and respects etiquette. On the surface, he is sad to get by on the other side's face, but he is familiar with the etiquette system. People of different levels in ancient times were treated differently when they were buried. So these are all principled, and he won't break the rules because of his students.

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If there is a circle, there is no way.

Blindly giving in, ignoring principles, and focusing only on the interests of yourself and small groups will eventually fail.

Case:

Li Si and Zhao Gao were both ministers of Qin Shihuang. After Ying Zheng's death, Zhao Gao designed Hu Hai to ascend to the throne, and worried that Prince Fu Su and General Meng Tian would not give in easily. So he asked Reese to plan with him, and threatened him that Fu Su didn't like him as prime minister, and Hu Hai was stupid, so he could continue to assist him.

Driven by interests, the wise prime minister in the first half of his life became confused, believed this nonsense and made the most unforgivable mistake in his life. In the end, not only the prince was implicated, but also the people were harmed, and he was tortured and died in prison.

Friends and colleagues work together, mostly for the sake of rice bowls, and some of them can make a fortune, so be kind and comfortable if you don't want to be promoted and get rich, so that Qi Xin can work together to get things done. But if friends and colleagues make unprincipled concessions, some people will only fish in troubled waters to save face. Most people are not worth the loss.

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A square without a circle is easily isolated.

If you obey the rules too much, you can't be flexible at the critical moment, you can't adapt to the ever-changing social trends, and you may be isolated and marginalized by society, or even submerged by the tide of the times.

Case:

In the Ming Dynasty, Yang Shen's "Yilin Felling Mountain" recorded the story of chasing a picture: Bole ordered his son to draw a picture for a horse with the "Horse Classic", which was similar after years. It's more important to sue my father. When I met a big frog, I said to my father, "Get a horse. It's the same, but you can't have it." Bole said, "Why?" Yes, he said, "His skull is enlarged, his eyes are drooping and his spine is sunken. But the hooves are not so tired. " Bole said, "This horse jumps easily. I can't bear it. "

It's pedantic, holding the horse sutra, but getting a toad, which is simply inflexible to the extreme. I really admire such a dead scholar.

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The inside is round, so there will be no trouble.

There is a dialectical relationship inside and outside Fiona Fang. Internal refers to the principle of being a man, while external refers to the method of doing things, and the circle is a circle. In other words, we should have the principle of being a man in our heart and a flexible way of doing things outside. Being a man really needs to be internal, because you have principles in your heart, so you won't do things indiscriminately.

Case:

On one occasion, Chu sent troops to crusade against Qi, and ordered Chunyu Kun to take "two hundred gold, ten pairs of white jade and hundreds of horses and chariots" to Zhao for help. Chun told Prince Zhao Chen his interest and asked him to send troops. Zhao immediately sent "100,000 soldiers and 1,000 chariots" to help Qi. When Chu heard about it, he withdrew overnight.

Wang Daxi held a banquet in the harem to celebrate the victory. When Wang Wei asked him how many glasses of wine he could drink, Chunyu Kun once again took the opportunity to sarcastically say: You can drink more or less, but "drinking is extremely chaotic, and everything is fine". Wang Wei believed his words more, so he stopped drinking all night to get rid of lewdness.

In the face of Wang Wei's contribution and reward, Chun is not indifferent. He must also congratulate himself in his heart, quietly feeling very gratified. As a courtier, he knows his mission and responsibility, but he is better at seeing opportunities and watching the fish bite. He did not rashly reprimand the king by virtue of his own merits, but gently exhorted him to achieve the purpose of moistening things quietly. He is really cultured at home.

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Fiona Fang is clear, the highest realm.

This is a highly unified principle and flexibility, a perfect combination of square and circle, and the most advanced strategy. To do this, you need a high degree of wisdom and cultivation. People who can do this all the time are by no means idle.

Therefore, it is not impossible to get things done well if there are few sinners. As long as we can comprehensively consider the overall factors, we can not only stress principles, but also take care of the majority, properly stress human feelings, and rationally distribute work and interests, we can achieve Fiona Fang's unimpeded, self-contained, handy and responsive reasoning.