Why are the three views inconsistent?

Why are the three views inconsistent? In recent years, the problems of "three views" in couples' communication have been frequently mentioned, and even the reasons why colleagues and friends around them broke up are similar. It is not a common goal to answer the three views in a unified way. Let's see why we disagree.

Why do you say that the three views are not 1? 1. What are the three views?

Then we must first understand, what exactly are the three views? Too many people don't even know what the "three views" are, so it's inappropriate to talk about them.

The three views we usually talk about are outlook on life, values and world outlook. Disagreement between the three views means that the outlook on life, values and world views of both sides are inconsistent, not that you like extreme sports and I am afraid.

For example, if you like to raise fish, but your partner is not interested in raising fish, this is not a disagreement, but if your partner accuses you of raising fish and criticizes you for wasting money on useless things, then this is a disagreement.

Therefore, many couples do not realize that there are no two people with perfect souls in this world when they quarrel over the three views. Three views are appropriate, but two people should respect each other's preferences and don't sell themselves short.

If the object you want to pursue is exactly the same as your personality and hobbies, and the idea is the same, then 90% of the feelings are inappropriate.

In fact, there are so many people, how can it be so easy to meet someone exactly like yourself? When you meet someone who loves you, it is hard to get someone who knows how to respect you.

Second, the so-called convergence of the three views is only because of enough love.

My best friend Lili often tells me about her maternal love. She called her mother's second husband her mother's lover. Every time I hear her say that, I feel a little romantic.

Lili's mother and Lili's father were both young women in literature and art before they got married. They like reading books and raising flowers when they are free, while Lili's father has a bad temper and smokes on the balcony when he is in a bad mood.

On one occasion, Lili's father directly sprinkled ash on the flowers and plants carefully cared for by Lili's mother. Lili's mother was very angry and quarreled with Lili's father.

Lili's father didn't admit his mistake at all, but plausibly said, "What's the point of raising those rotten flowers and grass without any problems?" Lily's mother was silent after hearing this sentence.

That night, she packed her bags and went back to her parents' house. Before long, she filed for divorce.

At that time, everyone did not understand, so they advised her to make a living together. Divorced women have a hard time. It was not until Lili's mother met her second husband that Lili suddenly understood why her mother left her father without hesitation. The man Lily's mother met was not a literary youth, but a businessman, but he respected his other half very much. Knowing that Lili's mother likes planting flowers, he tidied up the whole balcony and made room for his wife to plant flowers.

Every weekend after work, he will accompany Lily's mother to water and fertilize the flowers. Lily said that when she was with her mother, he became very gentle.

Through the story of Lili's mother, we can also see that there are three different views, only love and no love. When he loves you enough, he will respect and protect all your preferences.

Three, three views will change, but the person who loves you is always waiting for you.

People's cognition of the world is different at different ages, and it changes with the change of the surrounding environment. At the age of twelve, you will fall in love with a flowered skirt at first sight, but at the age of twenty-two, you feel too naive.

The three views will also change with the people coming and going around. When you meet a friend who likes to be brave and get along with him for a long time, your personality and hobbies will gradually become subtle and you will feel brave. The same applies to love.

Two people influence each other in their feelings. Only when you really know each other can they become your perfect partner.

If you just ask the other person to agree with you, then such feelings are difficult to break in. Everyone has to wear off a little edge on their partner for love, so that they can really grow up in their feelings.

Don't talk about three views. The bottom line is that you don't love each other enough. You don't want to change yourself or accept each other. You two are like two hedgehogs. Even if you hug, you will be stabbed by the other party.

It's hard to meet the right person in this world, but if two people love each other, are willing to change their abilities for each other, and are willing to open their hearts and hug each other, then they can naturally get along well for the rest of their lives.

The "perfect" marriage is changed by two people working together. It is normal to have different opinions in feelings, but enough love can resist all problems.

Why are the three views inconsistent? The three views are inconsistent with their own values, world outlook, outlook on life and other people's views, and their views on the same thing are inconsistent and contradictory. For example, you think that traveling is good for your health, while others think that traveling is a waste of money. This is a typical disagreement of values.

Example: 1, there is a saying that if you disagree, you will never be the same person.

The antonyms of three different views: mutual affinity.

1, a soul mate, is to get to know each other without saying what you want. Describe each other's thoughts and feelings exactly the same. From the Six Ancestors' Magic Weapon Tanjing.

The Six Ancestors magic weapon altar sutra is called Song Qi edition altar sutra. Adapted by Ren Zong to Hehe (1054 ~ 1056) and Shang Song Qi. The volume 1 contains 10, about 20000 words. The full name is the original of Cao's Six Ancestors' Magic Tanjing, which is referred to as Cao's Xi Yuan for short. Some people think that this is the printed version of the monk Deyi in Yuan Dynasty (1290), which is different from the printed version from Yuan Shizu to Yuan Dynasty.

Example: Soul mates are bound to resonate and sympathize with each other in grief.

2. It means that the rhythm of the song is closed after a dozen beats. Metaphorically, it is easy for both sides to reach an agreement. Metaphorically, because they have the same feelings or interests, they can talk about or combine together at once. From Qing Lvyuan Li's "Qi Lu Deng" back to the 18th.

Qi Lu Deng is a long vernacular novel compiled by Lvyuan Li in Qing Dynasty.

Abstract: During the Ming Dynasty, Tan Zhongbi, a tribute student in Kaifeng, Henan Province, was a correct and cautious person with strict family education. Before he died, Zhong Bi left his son eight words: study hard and be close to righteousness. Children of the same age are Zhang Shengzu, Guan, Sheng Xiqiao and others. Since Tan Zhongbi died, the director came to seduce him. I heard that he was obedient because he was not bound. Five people became sworn brothers and ate and gambled together. Smells like a bad habit.

Several people run casinos, lead a life of prostitution, love to molest children and make money privately. Shao Wen got bogged down and went to prison for trial. The family went bankrupt and got out of prison. In order to pay his debts, Shao Wen cut down all the trees in his ancestral grave, prepared for hardship, and finally got lost and decided to repent. At the age of 20, I won't be confused. I will study hard and be awarded the county magistrate. Shao Wen often warned his son to learn from his father at the beginning of his life, and he was also very successful in the examination room. After Hanlin took office, he revitalized his family business.