The fortune teller said I was lazy. _ The fortune teller said I was lazy.

What if my girlfriend says I'm lazy?

Being with your girlfriend for a long time will naturally expose your problems. At this time, your girlfriend suddenly called you lazy. Do you know what to do? Boyfriends are too lazy to get used to it, or what to do if they get married in the future. The following is what my carefully prepared girlfriend should do when she says I am lazy. I hope it will help everyone.

What if my girlfriend says I'm lazy? 1 method/step

Don't let him be lazy on purpose

I have heard a young man "train" his girlfriend like this, saying that no matter what he does, he should pretend that he is not doing well. Of course, in front of his girlfriend, he should ask her to help him do the dishes and wash clothes. After a long time, I don't need to do anything. My girlfriend will take the initiative to help me do something. I think, did you marry a daughter-in-law to find a nanny? Nanny quit when she got angry. If your boyfriend is not the kind of patient who can't move, please don't let him be lazy on purpose. With the first Mashan, there will be a second time. How do you change it when it becomes a habit?

Don't listen to those excuses for being lazy.

If your boyfriend is lazy, he will give you 10,000 reasons, including that he can't wash clothes, mop the floor, do it, don't do it, and even coax you, saying that if you do it now, you can teach me how to do it later, and then there may be a lot of sweet words waiting for you, coaxing you around and happily helping him bear all the burdens, and then next time, next time and later. The result is probably that after a long time, if you start complaining, he will be too lazy to coax you and even hate your complaints. So, will love exist and marriage be happy? Remember, even if he has 10 thousand reasons to give you, he should look at the facts and speak.

Let him do his own thing.

I believe the teacher has taught children in kindergarten. I remember when the baby was very young, I wanted to help him put on his shoes. He told me in Ruan Nong's children's voice that the teacher said he would do his own thing. You see, even the baby knows the truth, and he is a big man as a boyfriend. How could he not understand? Not ignorance, but laziness. No matter how big or small, as long as it is within his ability, let him do his own thing. For example, he usually sits in front of the computer and asks you to pour him a cup of tea. A big man can't even pour a cup of tea? Even if he is busy working on the computer, he will always have time to pour a cup of tea, right? If you really don't have time to pour tea, do you still have time for tea? For this kind of thing, you'd better not reach out to help.

Observe the reasons for his laziness.

There must be a reason why men are lazy. One reason is that their parents are used to it when they are at home, which is also a large part of the reason why men are lazy. At home, boys are generally not allowed to do housework, which is basically done by parents. After a long time, they formed the habit of laziness. Either you learned to be lazy yourself, or you deliberately "blocked" your girlfriend. These all need your help to correct. If you indulge once today, he will go further tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow will make many demands to make himself lazier. Do you think his laziness can be changed again? But if you don't find out the reason for his laziness, a person will condemn him for his laziness, and his laziness will never change until the reasons behind it are removed. For example, his laziness is used by his parents. If you change it today, his parents will get used to it tomorrow. What should I do?

Don't be too "capable"

I believe many married women will feel this way. You feel dissatisfied with a man's laziness and want to get rid of his laziness. However, you find that the effect he made is not good at all, and you will have a mentality that you are not as good as yourself. So after a long time, you and he will have this feeling: if you do well, you will do it, so you do everything. So, if you are so capable, why do you want him to do so much? If you do it and don't like it, why do people bother to please? So remember, girl, don't show your ability, even if you are really capable, you should restrain yourself appropriately. You are so capable, why can't your boyfriend enjoy it?

Don't nag him about being lazy, just express it.

This is what almost all women will do, that is, in the face of her boyfriend's laziness, she nags and nags. As a result, her boyfriend is really annoying, and she is also bored to death. My boyfriend's laziness has not changed, but he has become a nagging dissatisfied woman. If you ask me, you don't have to nag What can you change by nagging so much? Wisdom makes you both tired. When he is lazy, point it out to him directly, and tell him clearly and simply that you can do it yourself, and you won't be wrong. Please ask him to do it at once, without delay. Maybe at first, he will be a little uncomfortable with your frankness, but after a few times, he will understand that your character is the kind of temper that guarantees ambiguity, so he will not continue to "challenge" your patience.

Never indulge his other bad habits.

On weekdays, you can't indulge his laziness or other bad habits. If you connive at one of his bad habits, he will certainly try his best to win you over and connive at another. In the long run, is lazy habit still a bad habit? In his eyes, it was a reassuring thing. Isn't it too difficult for you to change it for him? No matter in life, when two people get along, there are some bad habits that are not good for you and him. Help him get rid of it together, one by one. When those small habits are improved, the lazy habits will naturally change with your requirements.

Be yourself.

I want to say a few words for those boys. Many girls are too lazy to wash their underwear, let alone do something for their boyfriends. If two people are together, there is no room designated as a foothold in the house. My boyfriend works hard outside, and when he comes back, he has to help his girlfriend do this and that, and even help her wash clothes. No one can stand this for long. Then, what right do you have to accuse your boyfriend of not being diligent? Of course, some girls will say that we are also the treasures of our parents at home and have never done trivial things. Is it too much to find a boyfriend to hurt yourself? I agree. Who in the family is not my parents' little princess? Just now that you have reached the age of having a boyfriend, you should be sensible and responsible. Isn't it good for two people to work together for a happy marriage in the future?

What if my girlfriend says I'm lazy? 2 methods/steps

1, we know that a lazy person is actually difficult to change, so we must change it step by step.

You can find some good role models for her to see, such as next-door neighbors or their good friends, hardworking men, and let him see.

3, or we can change it by changing his living habits and routine, because these habits are all small details step by step.

4, or we can put some pressure on him, such as letting him finish this lazy habit, or breaking up or something.

At the same time, two people can communicate well, that is to say, face-to-face communication, not implicit communication.

6. Other words are lazy, but we also need women's care and tolerance, instead of complaining blindly.