Sometimes you have to have it in your life, and you can't always insist on it. Is that self-deception?

Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. This sentence is very philosophical, not self-deception. People live in the world, struggling and working hard. To what extent, it is what degree, let nature take its course, let nature take its course Can't be forced. Forced, easy to go wrong. If some people do whatever it takes to get rich, they will end up in jail or even lose their lives. Zeng Guofan said that the benefits are inseparable. China people have been paying attention to morality since ancient times. If virtue is not worth it, it will suffer disaster. Philosophy and depth. Some people engage in extramarital affairs, gambling approaches thieves, and adultery approaches murder. In order to live together for a long time, he did not hesitate to kill his husband and wife. As a result, I lost my reputation and my life. This goes against the idea that sometimes there is bound to be a hit and there is no need to force it all the time.

Man's life is predestined. Hit only eight meters, travel around the world dissatisfied with the rise; If you hit a child, you must have it. If you hit a child, don't force it. I replied to Wukong earlier that there is a deputy section chief in our unit who wants to have a son at the expense of demotion and salary reduction. After the wife is pregnant, it must be foolproof. She had a B-ultrasound, and the doctor told him it was a boy. As a result, he gave birth to a girl, which surprised him for a long time. In the dark, there are indeed many things that cannot be explained. My nephew's son-in-law wanted to have a boy, and he found someone to save his life. The fortune teller said that he had no children, but he didn't believe it. I used to be a girl. Fortune teller: My father is only half of Queena Ding's blood, and he hasn't been with him all his life. Sure enough, I didn't even send him in the end. Of course, all this is self-comfort, and through struggle, fate can be changed.

This is a false proposition, which has been circulating for a long time and does great harm to people. It deceives others and makes excuses for laziness.

Life experience tells me that three points are meant to be, and seven points depend on hard work. I am born after 50, and this generation has bad luck, poor fate and the same starting line. You will only die if you sit on the ground and wait for the flowers to bloom.

I refuse to accept my fate. I have always believed in personal struggle. At that time, I didn't advocate reading and studying. I have been in the countryside for eight years, so hard. I insist on self-study of cultural knowledge whenever I have time, always thinking that cultural knowledge must be useful.

1at the end of 978, I was recruited into a state-owned enterprise. The working environment, living environment and learning environment are better than when I was an educated youth, and I study harder.

After the national college entrance examination was resumed, there was an upsurge of taking diplomas among young people all over the country, and I actively participated in it. 1Feb. 979, Central Radio and TV University enrolled students. Because of his love of learning, he was admitted and studied for three years with pay. After graduating from college diploma in June 1982, a person's fate really changed.

From workers to national cadres, they soon became civil servants, and their work and life have been greatly improved. 20 13 retired, satisfied with the old-age care, and the quality of life of the elderly was high.

Looking back on life, I walked a road, bumpy, upstream, with goals in my heart and pursuits in life. Don't believe in life, don't wait, don't rely on it, and try to succeed. There are nearly 20 million educated youths going to the countryside, and the starting line is the same. Not many people are willing to run, and even fewer people succeed. Most of them follow the crowd and eventually become vulnerable groups.