Family relations, in men's minds, who is more important, wife or mother?

Throughout the ages, all kinds of encounters have been written, Romeo and Juliet met until death do us part; Qian Zhongshu went to Jiang Yang? I am in front of you: I don't want to get married. After meeting you, I don't want to marry anyone else? Once in a lifetime.

Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu? Where does this sister seem to have met? Unforgettable encounter; Xiao Bei and Chen nian? You protect the world and I protect you? Guarding the encounter of a lifetime. The order of appearance in life is really important. Everyone we meet is predestined and arranged by heaven.

With the development of social times, although the social and economic level has improved, there will also be many family conflicts. For example, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or the contradiction between husband and wife, will bring bad influence to this family.

In fact, in a boy's heart, who is the most important, mother or wife, he already knew it in his heart and didn't need any intervention. If he is a good man, he will solve the relationship between his mother-in-law and his wife and let them live in harmony without family conflicts and disputes.

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Jia is an ordinary rural woman. She was born in the countryside since childhood and has never been to the city. She has seen the world and is a typical rural woman. So after she got married, she always wanted to go to the city to see the world.

After she got married, her mother-in-law was very kind to her, buying her all kinds of things, giving her delicious food and drinks, and not letting her do housework. Six months later, light light blue was pregnant. The doctor told her to rest at home and not to go out for activities. This child will have problems.

Light light blue doesn't go to work, and has been giving birth at home. My mother-in-law really wants a grandson. Every day, she sends a lot of nutrients to light light blue for her to eat.

At first, light light blue had no appetite. She only eats a little, and then she will vomit. My mother-in-law was also very distressed after seeing it, but she always cared about the safety of her eldest grandson and didn't notice the joys and sorrows of her daughter-in-law.

Soon after, Lan Lan's husband went home and brought her many supplements. Her mother-in-law was very happy after seeing it and took a lot home. Light light blue's husband couldn't stand it any longer, saying it was for light light blue's health and wouldn't let his mother take it away. Mother said: I asked the fortune teller, and he said that Lan Lan is pregnant with a girl, so there is no need to make up for it? .

When Lan Lan's husband heard this, he was very angry and shouted at his mother angrily. Children are all the same, all descendants of our family. Don't have such an old social concept. Isn't that right? After that, I went to visit my wife.

A few months later, light light blue really gave birth to a girl. This girl is very cute and doesn't cry very much. Mother-in-law also put down her own and began to accept children. She won't refuse her because she is a girl and don't give her enough love.

At the end of the story, we all know that whether a man loves you or not is reflected in some small details. If this man really loves you, it is good for him to know how important you are in his heart. Dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also let you see your position in his heart and make you feel at ease.

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Liu is a teacher in a county town. She bought her own house in the county and lived with her husband. After they got married, life was very happy and beautiful.

On holidays, the two of them will open their own world, travel and enrich their horizons.

However, it didn't take long for the calm days to be defeated. Liu is pregnant and can't go to work anymore. She can only stay at home safely. However, when she is alone at home, she is bored and has no one to accompany her.

So, her husband took her mother to their home, accompanied Liu, took care of her life, and made her not so lonely.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well without fierce quarrel. Therefore, the relationship between the two people is still relatively harmonious, and there will not be too many contradictions and conflicts.

Soon after, after the baby was born, there were many differences and contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because of some problems of the baby. However, under the persuasion of her husband, her mother-in-law finally compromised and solved this contradiction.

In this story, the mother-in-law is more reasonable. She didn't have a fierce quarrel with her daughter-in-law, but compromised under her son's persuasion and didn't put her son in a dilemma.

At the same time, we also respect the view that young people take care of their children, and no longer instill some old ideas into the next generation. Therefore, if a man really loves you, he will face you in front of the mother-in-law relationship and won't embarrass you.

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As the saying goes:? Every family has its own problems? One of them is called. Mother-in-law classic . In the family, the most obvious and common contradictions and conflicts between the two generations appear in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem that many people shake their heads and sigh when they mention it.

In modern family life, the most common contradiction is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is particularly important in family relations.

When such contradictions and conflicts occur, men will play a key role. Don't be embarrassed between two people. Learn to adjust disputes and prevent greater contradictions.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be said to be a traditional problem in the interpersonal relationship within China's family. In the long feudal society, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an unequal interpersonal relationship. Daughter-in-law must obey her mother-in-law and has no independent and equal personal dignity.

However, with the development of social times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has gradually become equal, and women have begun to rise gradually. They have their own values and need to be respected.

Therefore, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family, we can all see whether this man loves you or not, and we can also see our position in this family.