Will Xu Xian tell a lady's fortune _ Will Xu Xian tell a lady's fortune?

The white lady lost? Just because you don't know how good Xu Xian is!

During the Spring Festival, "The Legend of the New White Snake" (referred to as "The New White Snake") was replayed, which once again attracted attention. Many people say that it's a great loss that the White Snake married Xu Xian, a poor silly boy, after practicing hard for 1700 years. Some authors also think that white snake is white and hates marriage. When she met Xu Xian, she married herself hastily. As a result, the white snake became a negative textbook. I hope that girls will take this as a warning and never discount themselves.

For this reason, Yu Lin, who has been married for nearly ten years, can't help writing this article.

Yu Lin wrote before that Lu Xun can't get married, and marrying Lu Xun is neither stable nor peaceful in this world.

Jason Wu can't get married: Don't be silly, a man like Jason Wu can't get married.

Xu Xian is at Yulin Station this time. Yulin's core view is:

1, Xu Xian is a promising and rare man worth marrying.

2. White snake is not white, who hates to marry. Their marriage is happy and enviable.

If you have to care about profit and loss, Xu Xian is the real loser.

Not satisfied? Listen to the detailed breakdown of Yulin. To discuss these issues, we should take the story and characters of the new White Snake, a TV series produced by Taiwan TV Company and starring Angie Chiu Cecilia Yip, which is based on the Legend of Leifeng Pagoda by the owner of Yushan Mountain and the Legend of White Snake by the owner of Menghua Pavilion. Starting from the plot and the effect presented, don't make far-fetched associations.

Xu Xian is a good man for the following reasons:

First of all, Xu Xian is educated, good-tempered, gentle and eloquent.

Some people may question: Is this an advantage?

The answer is of course! This is a very important advantage in married life!

If people's needs are divided into material needs and spiritual needs, speaking well and treating each other gently will give each other spiritual enjoyment, make people happy physically and mentally and create a warm family atmosphere.

Many authors have written articles on this subject, for example,

How important it is to marry someone who can talk;

The happiness of a family begins with talking well;

Proper speech is the most precious family style of a family;

Talking well is the greatest gentleness to people;

How lovely people are who speak well;

……

These are articles that we can often read. Think about it, many tragedies in life begin with never having a good talk. It's not important to talk well!

There is an "easy to talk" in "New White", who claims to be talkative and can say good things. In fact, the person who really speaks well is Xu Xian.

Second, Xu Xian is warm and considerate, and she is a good companion who is like-minded, willing to hold hands and carefully thrush.

This is also one of the reasons why Xu Xianneng talked about it in Kan Kan.

Xu Xian, a medical student, is a talented and gentle scholar. You see, he is considerate to the White Snake, he will say the most beautiful words to make his wife happy, and he will comb his hair and thrush, which many people can't do in reality. The married life of two people is very happy from the spiritual level, and they envy others.

He is also modest and polite to the people around him, gentle and sociable, so he always goes out to see the dignitaries.

Third, Xu Xian couldn't resist the temptation and fell in love with the White Snake.

Xu Xian was sent to Suzhou and lived in Jirentang. Jirentang boss's daughter, young and beautiful, fell in love with Xu, courted Xu, and went deep into the bedroom in the middle of the night under the banner of sending tea. At this point, if Xu Xian is not focused enough, he is likely to do something deviant. Xu Xian can be said to be a quiet gentleman. Such loyalty and persistence are still very valuable today. Imagine if something similar happened today, how many people would be like Xu Xian?

After the White Niangzi was killed in the Leifeng Pagoda, Xu Xian chose to leave the place where he and his Niangzi once loved each other, which was a man's escape. On the other hand, in order to repay his Niangzi's merits, he boldly chose to become a monk, which is also a manifestation of loving his Niangzi, and not all men can do it. It fully proves that his love for his wife is beyond the reach of any man!

Some viewers commented:

Every time I dare not look at my wife's memories at home, my heart is broken when I look at her deeply grieved expression. How much do you like her? Every time I see this expression, my heart breaks.

Fourth, knock on the blackboard: Xu Xian has knowledge, talent and understanding of the world. He is not a man who has nothing to do with his wife. Although Xu Xian is pedantic as a scholar, he is not cowardly, but his physical strength and mana are not as good as that of a snake lady.

Xu Xian is a mortal. He is neither a god nor a demon. We can't just compare them from the perspective of ability, otherwise it is unfair to put doctoral students and kindergarten children together.

Xu Xian worked hard and read a lot of poems (part of Xu Shilin's reading talent came from Xu Xian). In order to treat patients, he can forget all about eating and sleeping, and his medical skills are brilliant and constantly improve. Knocking on the blackboard: medicine, not magic.

Medical skill is that ordinary doctors treat ordinary patients. Solve the poison of crane's top red, rob the soul from the impermanence of black and white, look for the elixir of heaven and earth, see at a glance that the magistrate's wife is pregnant with twins and babies, and solve the problem of dystocia with a pill. Is everything magic, fairy monsters, beyond the reach of human beings? Not only can Xu Xian fail, but Bian Que can be reborn, and neither can Hua Tuo.

As a doctor, Xu Xian is excellent. At first, he was rich in theoretical knowledge. He was only an apprentice when he went to Suzhou. Later, I continued to study and explore, and my medical skills became more and more refined. He was already a mature and talented doctor when he opened Baohetang drugstore in Hangzhou. The profession of a doctor is to accumulate experience constantly, and the older you get, the more popular you become. Therefore, Xu Xian said, there was little achievement in the previous year.

Xu Xian's character and ability are excellent. What he lacks from the grassroots is resources and contacts. White Snake provided him with material resources and accelerated Xu Xian's fame through various efforts. But it is conceivable that Xu Xian could become a famous doctor without the help of a powerful lady, but at a slower pace.

Xu Xian has a good personality, can talk, is good at making friends, knows how to advance and retreat, and understands the world. In the play, the master, uncle, Wu Yulian and Xu Gan were all made by Xu Xian himself, and these people were willing to help Xu Xian. People can gradually accumulate business, improve their medical skills, and finally nothing will happen.

Sometimes, haste makes waste, and being too anxious will do bad things. In episode 1 1, Chen Lun, the magistrate, recommended Xu Xian as the first official leader of Huang San Zushi Association. The white lady readily agreed, but Xu Xian hesitated. This does not mean that Xu Xian is indecisive. It just shows that he has a sense of proportion, knows how to advance and retreat, and understands the world. The fact is, Xu Xian is young after all, and few people know him in Suzhou. He only stayed in Suzhou for three years at most. Unlike the local gentry in Suzhou, he has always lived in Suzhou, with a wide network of contacts and deep experience, and he can talk to everyone. Xu Xian can't. He is too young to do any work.

The good plan is that Xu Xian should join the Huang San Grandfathers Association first, instead of being a leader, and gain recognition by virtue of his medical skills. At the same time, he should make friends in the Huang San Ancestors Association, and slowly let others nominate him as a leader. The world is too sophisticated to be anxious.

The White Snake is too anxious to help Xu Xian succeed as soon as possible, and often makes mistakes. When the security office in Suzhou opened, Bai Niangzi privately decided to have a free clinic for 30 days. Although this was a big charity event, it led the doctors of Huang San Ancestors Association to unite and crowd out Xu Xian, which laid a hidden danger for the future. Think about it, a poor boy from other places was sent to Suzhou for stealing, and he is still in charge. When he first came here, he opened a drugstore and dared to rob business openly for 30 days. How can he tolerate him!

Maybe I learned my lesson. Later, Baohetang opened in Hangzhou, which was only a free clinic for one day. Some elderly people with chronic diseases and poverty have been treated free of charge for a long time. This appropriate method has been welcomed by patients and colleagues.

The white lady was too anxious, so she kept making mistakes and stealing things. Stealing silver, gunpowder and tributes ... No matter how justified the starting point is, it is wrong to continue stealing, which leads to the lawsuit in Xu Xian and the constant displacement of husband and wife.

At the same time, Xu Xian is eloquent. Facing the oppression of the government and Liang, he was fearless and argued, but most people couldn't beat him at all.

Fifth, Xu Xian respects and tolerates his wife without male chauvinism. Knocking on the blackboard: it is respect, tolerance, love, not cowardice.

It seems that the white snake is in charge of everything, and Xu Xian just passively obeys orders, but it is not. And look at the evaluation of a gay man:

When his wife is not around, Xu Xian is a real big man, who is good at being a man and doing things. But when his wife is around, he leaves everything to her to do, while he hides behind the scenes. The lady did the right thing, so she poured her water and sat on her stool. When she did something wrong, she walked out of the front desk and accused her of being wrong. There is no need to quarrel, just slam the door and go out, and the lady will know that she is wrong. Xu Xian has a lot of authority in front of ladies!

Xiaoqing and his wife are a white face and a red face, and Xiaoqing will always be the bad guy. The wife and the official are also a white face, a red face, and the official is a good person. Sometimes it is misunderstood as cowardice!

It is also commendable that there is no male chauvinism in Xu Xian. He feels that his daughter-in-law doesn't have to listen to herself, nor will she constantly brush the sense of existence of the head of the family in front of others and show her uncompromising authority. Many men can't do this now, let alone in ancient times when men were superior to women.

Xu Gan and Xiaoqing said more than once that Xu Xian depends on women. Magistrate Chen Lun even directly asked Xu Xian "Who is in charge of the security hall", and Xu Gan also had such doubts. However, Xu Xian was not offended by the dignity of the head of his family, but became angry from embarrassment and tried to defend his sense of existence. Instead, he praised the white snake lady in front of them like a crazy woman. On the one hand, it shows that Xu Xian has a heart, on the other hand, it also proves that Xu Xian doesn't listen to his wife in everything as outsiders see. With inner enrichment, you won't care about the eyes of the outside world.

In addition, when Xu Xian wants to quarrel, he will hold back, or leave, without chattering, swearing or even fighting. It shows that he has good cultivation, cares about his wife very much and doesn't want to hurt his feelings. As a husband, Xu Xian did a good job!

Seeing how powerful Xu Xian is, all he needs is the Buddha's sleeve to leave. At most, he will go home in the middle of the night and let his wife do whatever she wants. You don't need to yell, scold or even fight at your wife!

Sixth, Xu Xian has no bad habits.

Don't smoke, drink or play cards. When you have time, study medical books, spend time with your family and think about how to make your wife happy.

Seventh, Xu Xian is responsible, responsible, a man, a pure man.

For the first time, the silver given by my wife was treasury silver. Above the lobby, she also protects the people by the bed and is willing to bear it.

The second time, I clearly knew that my wife might instigate Xiaoqing to steal the treasure, and I argued that my wife was right. Let's just say Xu Xian is rare. In any case, she has to defend the lady, thinking that everything she does is for him, and even if the lady is wrong, she will be wrong because of herself. Even though Mrs White Snake admitted that he had stolen the treasure, Xu Xian was still melodramatic in front of Chen Lun, so he had to protect his wife first.

This is the family. At home, officials can criticize how the wife can do this. Outside, she must protect her first! It's really not easy for couples to understand each other.

The third time, Xu Xian was tortured in Liang (his collarbone was punctured). After returning to Suzhou to recuperate, he went to Liang alone. Knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, he prefers to walk in the mountains. Although he seems to bite off more than he can chew, he can also see Xu Xian's deep feelings for this lady. As long as it is for his wife, he is willing to do anything and give his life.

Why not put these on the man who keeps saying that Xu Xianniang eats soft rice? I'm afraid it's already a disaster.

Eighth, Xu Xian is always grateful.

The same is true of this lady and her sister and brother-in-law. Xu Xian lost his parents when he was a child, and his sister brought him up. He lived in his brother-in-law's house for a long time. Later, White Snake was raised by a small town, Xu Xian became a monk, and Xu Shilin was raised by his sister and brother-in-law.

Looks like my brother-in-law is a big head. With such a brother-in-law, I will worry about him all my life. However, my brother-in-law never stopped or complained. On the contrary, he took care of him wholeheartedly. Why?

Of course, because my sister and brother-in-law are good people who value their families, this is also related to Xu Xian's good character and good cultivation. Let's imagine, if Xu Xian's mouth is vicious, unappreciative, ungrateful and free to live, will she still live in harmony with her brother-in-law? I'm afraid I have been kicked out.

The shop assistants, the shopkeeper Tao, the Five Ghosts headed by the White House and Dewey are all very polite and courteous, and they never put on airs with their hosts. So people from top to bottom have a good evaluation of him.

In a word, Xu Xian is an almost perfect person set for the audience in this play. As Bai Niangzi commented: Officials are good people. Such a person can achieve something without magic. Moreover, such people are very popular with girls. Without the White Lady, there would be the Wu Lady. It is not difficult to marry a beautiful and capable daughter-in-law with good family conditions. Look at Wu Yulian.

Let's look at some misunderstandings about Xu Xian.

First of all, Xu Xian has a soft ear and listens to rumors.

The reason is that Wang Daolin said that there are monsters at home, so 30 Liang bought two symbols; Fahai said that the woman was a snake spirit and wanted to hurt him, so he began to suspect. If it weren't for his soft ears, there would be no flood.

This is human nature and a normal reaction, which does not mean that Xu Xian is soft-eared. First of all, Wang Daolin is telling the truth, and at least half of what Fahai said is true. He did see the snake at home, and he also saw the five ghosts in their true colors. As a mortal, it is impossible not to worry. The luxurious house suddenly turned into ruins, and there were ghosts and monsters in the house. Aren't you worried or suspicious? The man next to you is a snake, who once showed his true colors. Aren't you scared at all?

This has something to do with the fact that the lady has been lying to him and keeping it from him, because people don't know, so they have to do their own thing. If the family doesn't tell him the truth, others will tell him, and he can only think for himself. In fact, this lady can tell you frankly, so that Xu Xian won't make wild guesses, let alone listen to others' embellishment and distortion of the facts.

Facts have proved that after they get along for a period of time, Xu Xian will not be afraid even if she knows the truth, just like telling her sister. My sister is also a mortal and a homely woman. I don't know if she is afraid, but she also helps to hide and take care of it everywhere.

Second, in this relationship, the lady gave everything, and Xu Xian enjoyed the fruit of gratitude, which she deserved.

The fact is, Xu Xian's contribution is no less than The Legend of the White Snake. For this relationship, Xu Xian devoted most of his life, almost giving everything.

After marrying White Snake, Xu Xian became entangled in official affairs. Bai Qing and Bai Qing had good intentions, but the method of stealing was really bad, which kept Xu Xian in prison.

After separation, Xu Xian left home to practice in Jinshan Temple for twenty years.

After more than three years of husband and wife getting along, I have been tossing and turning for most of my life, away from my relatives in my hometown for 20 years. I want to catch up with my sister and brother-in-law for the rest of my life. Although she finally became a fairy, but what about the relationship between husband and wife who are obsessed with each other? What about fathers, sons, brothers and sisters? In any case, this account is at a loss.

It is wise to leave Xu Xian alone and let him marry a mortal wife, just like Wu Yulian, and gradually achieve his career and live a peaceful and happy life.

In The Harem, An Lingrong said to Zhen Xuan before he died: I'm sorry, I ruined your stable life after all. We can also say, Xu Xian, your stable life was destroyed by Mrs. White Snake after all.

Therefore, people and ghosts take different paths, which can not be accepted by people in heaven after all. This can only be a tragic story after all, although the creative team has been deliberately downplaying the tragic color.

Let's see what Xu Xian gave his wife.

First, I gave my wife the grace to save her life. It was not saved by Xu Xian, but by Xu Xian's ancestors, but Xu Xian began to enjoy this gratitude. There's nothing wrong with that. When ancestors accumulate virtue, future generations will be rewarded. This is the home of goodness, and there must be Qing Yu.

Secondly, it gives the white snake and others equal respect and love.

The shemale took a different path. People are not as good as God, demons are not as good as people, and everything in heaven and earth is in order. The heroine aura of a lady makes us feel the importance of this article.

In the Journey to the West, the Monkey King will punish the demon when he sees it. On the way to the girl country, the Tang Priest said directly to the scorpion essence, how can a shemale compete?

This point was dealt with romantically in the play. Imagine if our classmates and colleagues were all children of snake spirits, what would everyone think?

Such a transnational marriage is doomed to be short-lived and cannot be forced. The ending is doomed to be tragic.

Thirdly, it gives the white snake family love, warmth, emotion and strength.

White snake was punished for 1700 years, and never felt the warmth of the world. Xu Xian gave him love and marriage, and together with her sister and brother-in-law, she gave her family warmth, which is commendable. It is these white ladies who are determined to become immortals who soon gave up the goal of soaring during the day and are willing to stay on earth. This is the so-called Yuanyang does not envy immortals.

In fact, this is mutual. This lady also gave Xu Xian love and marriage. They are like-minded partners. Although it is a flash marriage+naked marriage, it still does not hinder their sweet love.

In other words, the mode of getting along with each other has always been the most beautiful appearance of love and marriage in my heart.

When the play was broadcast on the mainland, Lin Yucai was in primary school. Later, I learned that the so-called love is like oxygen, harmony between the harp and the harp, and congenial feelings are like this. Like Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng in the Northern Song Dynasty, and Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu in modern times.

Before, I couldn't figure out why such a happy couple, White Snake is a demon, and Xu Xian should be played by a woman. After nearly ten years of marriage, I realized that the perfect wife and perfect official are the best things in love, which only exist in legends and myths.

Finally, I reiterate my view that Xu Xian is a good man who deserves to be entrusted for life.

Write this article before Queen's Day on March 8th. I hope that all queens will not be confused by love rat and miss a good man like Xu Xian.

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