What does the fortune teller mean when he says, "Don't lend money to others at the age of 40, and you can't get it back after borrowing it"?

My father is a Phoenix man. Rural relatives like to borrow money from him when they build houses and bring their wives. At that time, my father was young and would lend it out one after another. 00, 65438+89 can't get it back. Even if the exchange is divided into several years, there will be no relatives to do it.

Now my father has let go and won't borrow any more money. Dad said that if I didn't borrow it, maybe a relative would do it. I really have nothing to do if I borrow it.

I see that when people borrow money now, they always get everything ready first. They have a lot of spare money, and there is no problem with enjoyment and investment, and then they will slowly consider whether to pay you back. Don't expect him to take the initiative unless they are urged.

Our family doesn't like to borrow money from others, so we must pay it back as soon as possible. It's rare to see anything like us.