My husband hit me. Should I forgive him?

I'll call again after I open this hole.

But I don't think you really want a divorce. You should try to improve your way of getting along, and then try not to be willful and reckless.

There should be several reasons why he will hit you:

1, men and women are different!

Men's needs for feelings sometimes tend to be fresh; And women's feelings are like wine, the older they get, the more fragrant they get. So if the husband and wife don't get along well, your values are completely opposite: do you think you should love me more after we have been together for eight years, and he will think that after eight years, you still won't let me turn over and liberate? Do you think you are still that flower and bone?

Therefore, men's feelings decline with time. I'm not saying that when men get married, they gradually stop loving you. After a long time, the family will be deeper. This feeling of decline refers to the meticulous consideration and tolerance shown by men when they pursue you, that is, what you think is good for you and romantic. The longer a woman lives, the more affection she adds to her love, and the more she loves her husband, which is just the opposite of men.

Everyone has the bottom line of patience.

We generally think that men are older than women, men should be more tolerant of women, and I am a woman, of course! But I think men are human beings, and they also have their own emotions, and they may get out of control. As I said above, when he still remembers you clearly, in order to maintain this relationship, he will choose to make up, but no one will really apologize to a bad-tempered wife like a lifelong friend. The so-called three things, that's all.

Not to mention that he has a bad temper and you are not gentle, then the tit-for-tat contradiction between you and Maimang will certainly intensify.

3, hitting people is an escalation of his emotional out of control, and there are also your own fans in it.

I want to tell you something. I thought about it for a long time after reading it.

There used to be cases of wife killing in Shanghai or Beijing. The husband has an affair and wants a divorce. My wife has a bad temper and is very angry at being cheated. She has been causing trouble. Finally, her husband killed her on impulse and committed suicide himself, leaving a very small child.

This thing is extreme, but what impressed me the most was that I saw a post on a fortune-telling forum when I was searching, in which an expert said that she suspected that the lady who contacted her a while ago was the deceased and posted a chat record. All aspects of the situation are suitable.

I don't know whether the tall man is tall or not, but he did count the mass murder of the woman at that time (the details and privacy of the deceased were hidden in the record), and then advised the deceased to relax and not to intensify the contradiction. The woman said at the time, "He can still kill me!"

I think fortune tellers know human nature well. He has a thorough understanding of people's character and way of doing things. Because he knows human nature, he can probably guess what someone will do and what the result will be. This is also the wisdom I always thought of fortune telling.

I was so impressed because that woman didn't listen to other people's advice. She was so angry that she even talked to outsiders. I think her death may have something to do with her mood.

This example is by no means that your husband will escalate domestic violence to breaking the law! It means that when you encounter a problem, your own way of handling it is very, very important!

Your husband hit you in a rage, which shows that his patience is running out in your quarrel. He hit you, which is equivalent to opening a hole. If you can't solve your mode of getting along, he will still hit you in the future. But I have to say, this is also related to your own attitude!

You have a good relationship, but it's only because the husband and wife are impatient and won't let anyone, so it's so serious. But that doesn't mean that one of you is bad or that your relationship is broken.

Frankly speaking, your personality (grumpy, reckless and impulsive) is a taboo in husband and wife's life, and your values of "be good to me if you love me, and leave me alone if you are good to me" are also wrong. These are termites in a harmonious family. If you can't control yourself, there will still be problems even if you change your husband.