What are the four signs of marriage in name only?

Were you ever in love with me？ Maybe I once loved you.

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In the wild years, perhaps for a woman, a good marriage is the harmony of each other's souls. You don't need too many words, you can know what the other person is thinking at a glance, and you can hide your deep feelings in your bones and warm her heart unscrupulously.

Moderate marriage is to accompany each other and support each other until they are old. There are not too many sweet words, but you can be down-to-earth and walk to the white head step by step.

The worst marriage is to meet a man with unreliable personality, only to know that he is a wolf in sheep's clothing after marriage.

I don't know how to respect women, what is marriage and what is responsibility. I gradually turned my marriage into an airtight cage.

Chen Juan's marriage belongs to the last kind. When I met Li Liang, Li Liang wore a pair of black-rimmed glasses and was gentle. He had two pear vortex when he smiled.

Chen Juan took a fancy to him the first time he saw him. The matchmaker always said that Li Liang was an honest man and would harm his wife in the future. She was very moved. She wanted to find an honest man to spend the rest of her life with.

In the process of communication, Li Liang has been pretending to be very good and considerate and gentle to Chen Juan. As the matchmaker said, he knows a lot about hot and cold. So, three months later, Chen Juan and Li Liang got married. At that time, Chen Juan thought he would be happy all his life, but unexpectedly, everything was the beginning of a nightmare.

Suhomlinski once said, "If you get married in a hurry, you are willing to take risks and become an unfortunate person."

All flash marriages involve incalculable risks, and the worst thing is that you dare not divorce knowing that the marriage has existed in name only.

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Marriage is both a fortress and a cage. Marrying a high-quality man will give women different brilliance. If you marry a man with poor character, there is only a hell of a life waiting for a woman.

Li Liang and Chen Juan have been married for less than two years, and what little novelty and love they once had has been exhausted. I don't know who initiated the divorce. Since then, Li Liang has been hot and cold to Chen Juan, no longer caring about her, and a word is inconsistent with the cold war.

One day, Li Liang came home late and had a drink. Chen Juan said something about him, but he lost his temper and hit her. Chen Juan still can't forget such a scene. Li Liang out of control is like a wild animal. She is in endless fear.

The first sign of marriage in name only: couples can't talk well, can't communicate well, can't control their temper, quarrel in the cold war or even fight if nothing happens.

In marriage, a man beats his wife, but it is the mutual affection between husband and wife that is destroyed.

On that occasion, Chen Juan decided to divorce, but after Li Liang calmed down, she knelt in front of her and cried bitterly, begging her forgiveness. But just then, Chen Juan found herself pregnant.

Li Liang is like a different person. She is full of warmth and takes good care of her. Chen Juan relented and gradually gave up the idea of divorce. She thought, he must still love her?

Women often live in their own fantasies, thinking that love can change a person and let him know how to cherish it.

However, when Chen Juan was eight months pregnant, she found that Li Liang had betrayed her. At first, Li Liang denied this fact, but when Chen Juan threw the evidence in front of him, he knelt in front of her and said that he had accidentally cheated.

The second sign of marriage in name only: whether men and women betray marriage, it means declaring to each other that they don't love each other. All betrayal stems from not loving enough.

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After the baby is born, Chen Juan intends to divorce him. But Li Liang strongly disagreed. He said he wanted to give his son a complete family.

During that time, Li Liang always repented for Chen Juan and prayed for her forgiveness. Chen Juan's heart is dead, but it hurts to look at her lovely son. She really can't bear to let the child lose his father's love at birth.

Li Liang seems to have sincerely changed after returning home, working hard, taking care of children and doing housework. Chen Juan had never seen Li Liang do housework before, nor had he seen this side of him.

Despite his best performance, Chen Juan couldn't help losing his temper, quarreling with him and sulking.

Whenever he is lying on the sofa playing with his mobile phone, she will wonder if he is chatting with other women again; Whenever he comes back late from working overtime, she can't help wondering if he has gone to see that woman again. ...

The third sign of marriage in name only: there is no trust between husband and wife, full of suspicion and doubt, no sense of security, and marriage can't see the future and hope.

Because of Chen Juan's suspicion, he gradually lost patience and showed his true colors. He didn't go home at first, and after chatting with her for less than two or three sentences, he began to quarrel and casually talked about divorce.

What amuses Chen Juan is that she has asked for a divorce countless times, but he doesn't want to. But since the birth of the child, he began to talk about divorce unscrupulously.

She felt so tired that she was a stranger to him and could never go back.

The fourth sign of marriage in name only: casually talking about divorce, like a broken jar, unwilling to run the marriage well again and unwilling to repair it in time.

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Chen Juan dare not divorce easily. She knew Li Liang's temper, so she endured it silently until the child was one year old. She took the children back to her parents' home and soon found a job.

When she got up the courage to file for divorce, Li Liang tore her face and tried to hit her again. This time, Chen Juan chose to call the police and handed him a divorce agreement.

Chen Juan once dared not divorce because she was too weak. After experiencing disappointment and despair again and again in marriage, she learned to be independent, to grow up and to choose for her children.

Marriage should not be a woman's whole life. When marriage exists in name only, it is also a kind of wisdom to choose to let go. The same is true for men.

Marriage needs to be run by both men and women. When there are problems in marriage, please sincerely repair the loopholes in marriage and stop the loss for marriage in time. And if the marriage has quietly deteriorated, maybe we can still be happy when we are separated.

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