As the saying goes, "if you don't move the grave, you will lose nine times." Is it reasonable for the older generation to attach importance to it?

In rural areas, people will pay special attention to feng shui, especially for moving graves, so it is generally not easy to move graves in rural areas.

First, let's explain the meaning of this proverb. The superficial meaning of this sentence is easy to understand, that is, people should never touch the grave. If you insist on moving their graves, you may not be able to move them ten times. Of course, no one will move a grave ten times in a lifetime. Even under special circumstances, ten times will not really fail nine times, so unlucky. The reason why this proverb is so exaggerated is actually to warn and remind us not to touch the grave when something happens.

Then why does this proverb say so? Why has it been passed down to the present? In fact, this stems from the provisions of filial piety in ancient China. As we all know, China has been a country that respects filial piety since ancient times. We have been educated since childhood, and teachers often teach us that all virtues are filial piety first. This shows the weight of the word "filial piety" in the hearts of China people. What is the relationship between filial piety and moving the grave or not? This is because the older generation believes that filial piety should be reflected in all aspects. If the elders in the family die, they can't be filial in the world. They should be properly placed and can't be moved at will. If you move the grave at will, you will be disturbed, which is a disrespect for the deceased and a filial piety to the elders.

Of course, there is also a folk saying that the deceased died on the day of burial. If you move his grave in the future, it will make the deceased angry, and you will be unlucky from now on. From this point of view, that is to say, the proverb exaggerates the failure of moving graves in nine cases out of ten, in order to tell you not to move the graves of the dead easily, so as not to bring bad luck. Having said that, we may think that people around us did say something unlucky after moving their graves, which shows that this proverb is also more useful.

In fact, in the final analysis, proverbs are a way to teach young people to see some people and do some things. Of course, everything can be guaranteed to be completely accurate, and proverbs are no exception. Therefore, when reading proverbs, we should not only pay attention to their experience, but also learn to distinguish right from wrong, and we should not blindly think that they are worth learning from or that they are not worth mentioning. Of course, my personal opinion is that this proverb should be based on respect and filial piety for ancestors.

As the saying goes, "Don't move the grave, move the money ten times." Is there any truth in this?

Generally speaking, no matter how you lived before your death, you must be at ease when you die. It's disrespectful of you to disturb people by moving their graves when they are already dead. There is a good saying: "All virtues and filial piety come first". If a person is not good to him when he is alive, and you still want to find a good position for him when he is dead, is this "filial piety"?

Secondly, the thought of "moving the grave" is selfish. Many people want to be promoted and make a fortune on their own. Thinking about moving the grave is not using the dead? If you really want the dead to bless you, you might as well be kind to them all your life.

Third, people always want to be clean, and so do people when they are dead. People always like to live in places they are familiar with, and you always move to the grave. Isn't this a neat addiction that disturbs the elderly?

Finally, add: rural graves are very particular, and the location and orientation of graves should be carefully considered, and every step can not be wrong. If you move the grave again, your fault tolerance rate will increase greatly. If you don't do it well, you may be killed. Although you are a little superstitious, there are some things you can't believe.

In short, moving graves in rural areas is a very important thing, and Mr. Feng Shui is usually invited to see it. But in real life, if our fortune is not good, or things are not smooth, we can't say that the location of the ancestral grave has not been chosen, but we always want to change our destiny by moving the grave. This idea is wrong, we should find the reasons from ourselves.

In rural areas, everyone believes in geomantic omen. Major events such as "moving graves and breaking ground" can only be moved by seeking the guidance of geomantic omen masters, and we must be cautious in matters related to future generations.

I often hear from the older generation that if you don't move your grave indiscriminately, you will become poorer and poorer, which is similar to "if you don't move your grave, you will lose nine times." "The dead are the biggest", so don't disturb their purity and feng shui, which will be regarded as unfilial. Don't move easily unless you have to. I wonder if you will get poorer and poorer. I tell a true story for reference only.

After less than two years of marriage, grandparents told her that the bed was too wet, full of water and too cold. Then my father-in-law went to see the cemetery. Sure enough, to the west of the cemetery is a depression with water in it. Let's discuss it with the three companies. Moreover, the land has been occupied recently, and the village is also mobilizing everyone to move. So the three families discussed it, found a famous feng shui master to have a look, and began to prepare when choosing the terrain and orientation.

When the coffin was dug up and opened, there was still a lot of water in it. I heard afterwards that the situation was good. According to Mr. Feng Shui's instructions, everything is ready. Sometimes you have to believe that after moving the grave, the three families are all smooth sailing and safe, and they are all better off than before, which may also have psychological effects, but it is really much smoother than before.

Therefore, don't disturb the purity of family ancestors easily. They also hope that their descendants can live a good life and don't move their graves easily without necessity, which will ruin Feng Shui.