No smoking, no drinking, no fortune telling.

Du is one of the three giants of green gang in old Shanghai. He said that "men who don't smoke or drink should not pay" has some truth, but it is not entirely correct. Because it is obviously biased to measure a person only by smoking and drinking, it should be based on his character and how he is.

Of course, what Du means should be that men who don't smoke or drink are men with strong self-control, which is intentional. It's hard for ordinary men to do it, so he thinks such a man should be a man with deep talent and hide himself deeply, so he thinks such a man can't be handed over. If you make friends with such a man, you are easily calculated by him. Therefore, I think that men like Du should not pay.

So, are there any men around me who don't smoke or drink? Yes, but it is a minority. Historical rambles are divided into the following categories:

1. A man who doesn't smoke or drink when he is old due to illness. His friend's father-in-law was addicted to alcohol and tobacco before he was 68. Whenever they persuade him to give up smoking and limit alcohol, he always says that he can't eat rice, but he must have these two things, otherwise what is he doing alive? Might as well be dead. After n failed suggestions, they all gave up. After that, the old man fell ill and was hospitalized for more than a month. The doctor's advice is that he must give up smoking and drinking. My friend, they think this is wrong, but what I didn't expect was that without supervision, the old man would never touch alcohol and tobacco again.

I have to say that in the face of diseases, people's desire for survival is so strong! There are no cigarettes and alcohol that you can't quit. The key is whether the parties are aware of the harm.

Second, my friend Xiao Jia doesn't smoke or drink. My friend Xiao Jia is a warm man, and his wife and children are his favorite. He doesn't smoke or drink, goes home to cook after work, takes care of children, envies a group of middle-aged women and says why he hasn't met such a good man.

However, even a good man in others' eyes is still a loser in Xiaojia's wife. Often criticizing Xiao Jia in front of others, from appearance to ability, is useless in the eyes of his wife.

At that time, Xiao Jia really had a wine field to go to, and he happened to meet his wife who was riding a bicycle home. Nuo Nuo spoke his request passively, saying that he would take care of it. He must have taken care of it and come back soon.

Xiaojia's wife kicked directly on the rear wheel of Xiaojia's bicycle, and then went home angrily. Xiao Jia arrived in the car, shook his head and went home with his wife.

Alas, Xiao Jia is timid.

Third, my friend Xiao Wang basically doesn't touch alcohol and tobacco because of physical reasons. Xiao Wang has never smoked, but he hardly touches alcohol. In fact, Xiao Wang doesn't hate wine either. One thing is that his body doesn't allow it. He is allergic to drinking. After drinking wine, I blush like a big red cloth, which is scary at first sight. Even the people sitting with him, seeing his blushing and thick neck, advised him to put down his glass.

How can Xiao Wang raise his glass when you say so?

There are not many other adult men I know who don't drink or smoke. Most men drink and don't smoke, and even fewer men only smoke and don't drink.

Often on the wine table, eight out of ten men are greedy. Five or six of them were smoking with cigarettes. It can be said that the air on the whole wine table is turbid, and it is very uncomfortable to drink six. Even those men or women who don't smoke or drink, sitting next to them, smell of wine and smoke. Even when I got home, the smell on my clothes lingered for a long time, so I had to put it in the washing machine to wash it.

So, according to Du's theory, can all men around me make friends? Obviously, it is not established. And men who don't drink or smoke can pay the bill? Obviously, it is not established. Therefore, I don't agree with what Du said.

To sum up, there may be many dimensions to evaluate whether a man can make friends, but it should never be judged by smoking and drinking.