Did the husband and family come out for dinner? When his father treated him, his husband went out to count money. When my parents treated him, my husband didn't count as money, but my father paid.

I think there must be such a situation as you said, because after all, he is related to his parents, who raised him so much. Then his father said that he would invite him to dinner. It must be normal for him to spend money by himself.

But when it's your parents' turn to treat you, your husband doesn't count. That's your father's money. Actually, your husband didn't go out to calculate the money either. You can check out. After all, it is your parents. Why not take the initiative?

So sometimes don't count these things too clearly. Your husband's behavior may be selfish, but you can't just sit there and do nothing while your father spends money. After all, those are your own parents.