Why do you sometimes have a bad feeling?

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Have you ever had such an experience? Before I go to bed every night, I say to myself, "The alarm clock will definitely not wake me up. I need to adjust it more. " Sure enough, the alarm clock didn't wake you up tomorrow morning.

In class, the teacher said to call the roll to answer questions. You thought the teacher would call you, but you did.

The child's academic performance has deteriorated several times. You think he's going to get worse. You called him a scum and called him a loser. As a result, he really got worse and worse and became a real scum.

Why do bad hunches always come true? It's not your intuition, it's actually a psychological effect.

An old fortune teller said that you had a mass annihilation. You didn't believe it at first, but there was a voice in your inner corner that I might really have a mass annihilation, so you would be distracted at work and hurt yourself.

These thoughts in our hearts for a moment have actually come true. Isn't it as simple as a blessing to get what you want?

Not really, because there is an effect in psychology called self-testifying prophecy.

Why do bad hunches always come true? It's not your intuition, it's actually a psychological effect.

0 1 What is a self-certified prophecy?

Self-testifying prophecy is also called self-fulfilling prophecy. Simply put, it is what you think in your heart and how things will develop.

There is a fable of "the last bank" in psychology, which describes the phenomenon of self-testimony prediction.

Like all capital banks, this bank has some liquid cash reserved for customers to withdraw money from time to time, and most of its assets are used to invest in some high-risk and high-profit projects. One day, a large number of customers came to the bank. Some customers were worried that there was something wrong with the bank and went to the bank to withdraw money. Later, more and more customers want to withdraw money while the bank can still withdraw money.

Why do bad hunches always come true? It's not your intuition, it's actually a psychological effect.

More and more customers withdraw money, and people are convinced of the rumor that banks are insolvent and about to go bankrupt, so more customers go to banks to withdraw money, and finally banks are insolvent and bankrupt.

People have a definition of situation, which leads to a series of behaviors. Finally, this definition was made permanent, and things had the same result as the original definition. This is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

What is the impact of self-testimony prophecy?

There is a real case in the psychology book. There was a woman who divorced her three husbands because of domestic violence. The woman is puzzled. She doesn't understand why all three husbands are gentle before marriage, but they will abuse her after marriage. The woman's psychiatrist got the answer from her third husband.

It turns out that when women were young, they often saw their fathers abusing their mothers, so they made up their minds not to marry a gentle man when they grew up. But after marriage, she always had a hunch that men are virtuous and she would be beaten by her husband like her mother.

Therefore, every time I have a little conflict with my husband, she always says, "Come and hit me, if you don't like me, hit me!" " Come on! "

Why do bad hunches always come true? It's not your intuition, it's actually a psychological effect.

Under his wife's repeated verbal provocations, the husband became dizzy and began to beat his wife.

She is afraid that her husband will be like her father, so she has been trying and guessing. Finally, at her own suggestion, her husband really became a domestic violence man.

I also have a real case around me. Xiaomei is a repeat student. The reason why she chose to repeat her studies is because she thinks she will be admitted to the university she wants to go to.

So she has been working hard to do and brush the questions, staying up late to review, and in the first exam, her score was nearly 200 points lower than that of the university she wanted to take, but she did not give up. She thinks that the second college entrance examination is sure to be admitted to that university.

Why do bad hunches always come true? It's not your intuition, it's actually a psychological effect.

When she took the provincial entrance examination for the first time, she was still far from the predicted ranking of her favorite university. Her family advised her to change her goal and not to give herself such a big burden. But she still believed that she would be admitted to that university in the college entrance examination, so she ignored anyone's dissuasion and continued her study. Finally, her college entrance examination score exceeded the average, and she was really admitted to the school she wanted to study.

What I want to tell you through these two examples is that it depends on ourselves whether self-certification prediction will bring positive or negative effects. When we conclude that one thing has such a possibility, we give up our efforts on other possibilities, virtually killing the other possibilities that already exist in this matter.