The widow living next door had nothing to do, so she found a reason to let my husband go to her house. How can I gently tell her that this is appropriate?

Marriage problem is one of the important factors that seriously affect health. "Happy families are all similar, but unhappy families are different!" . A happy marriage is the special secret core of a happy family; As we all know, a happy marriage can make people live a long and healthy life. From the scientific research of medicine, behavior, sociology and psychology, the unanimous analysis holds that a bad relationship between husband and wife in a marriage that often expresses regret and failure in words will lead to many troubles and health problems. "Understanding and tolerance is a panacea for resolving contradictions, and restraint and gentleness are effective bandages for dressing mental trauma!" ; In particular, the health status of psychological quality, like ethics, is a kind of quality connotation, which largely maintains the stability and happiness of modern families! ? And many problems involving future generations, if the word "chain reaction" is used to describe, it is not too much! This shows how important a happy marriage is!

Some people say that a happy marriage is created and established by both men and women, and has nothing to do with fortune-telling marriage. If that's the case, as the old saying goes, only Yuanyang is admired, so I wonder, which couple in this world don't want to hold their children's hands and grow old together? Some people say that marriage is destiny takes a hand, who to marry, who to marry, how many times to get married in one's life, and how many times to get divorced are all destiny takes a hand and cannot be changed. These two views are only half right. From the perspective of numerology, whether a marriage is happy or not is directly related to the matching degree of the eight characters between men and women. In numerology, Foucault's female life is eight characters with wounded officials to see officials. Strong officials rob the weak, weak officials kill the prosperous, and officials and stars merge or rush. Wives and men are robbed of their wealth, weak in health and prosperous in wealth, robbed of their wealth and merged or destroyed their wealth stars. There are many peach blossoms outside the eight-character wall for men and women, which is the main factor leading to unsatisfactory marriage. It can be seen how important it is for both husband and wife to match marriage according to numerology and marriage law!

The so-called fate is what a person will do in this life when he is born, whether he is a farmer, an official or a businessman ... just like a person born with a brand-name car or bicycle, it is doomed. As for luck, luck is the various time periods that people experience in the world. Luck is divided into Universiade and Small Luck. Universiade changes every five years, and Small Luck changes every year. Fate together is like a car driving on the road. The road it passes is Universiade, and the road is flat and smooth, bumpy and tortuous.

Some people say that their destiny is in their own hands, while others say that it is doomed and cannot be changed. These two views can only be said to be half and half. If a person can really control his own destiny, who in this world, except fools and mental patients, doesn't want to control his own destiny, glorifying his ancestors and shining the threshold? Some people will say that since it is destiny takes a hand, can money fall from the sky if you don't go to work to make money? In fact, everyone is not the Monkey King, but they are all in the five elements. After everyone is born, his life is doomed, and the water, fire, earth and fate of Jin Mu's horoscope will also be dominated by the earth's magnetic field. Many people should have felt this way. When they are lucky, due to the influence of the earth's magnetic field, they will naturally have great motivation to struggle and work hard. You meet all your own noble people and help you a lot. Because of your good luck, you can sleep soundly. If the big business is not done well, the whole person will become decadent and lack the motivation to make money. They are all villains, fighting against themselves everywhere, wanting to get married and not getting married, wanting to have a career and not having a career, and often suffering from insomnia. The Fu Ji written by Lv Mengzheng, the prime minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, can better illustrate all this. Everything is life, but not people. Before the dragon meets, it lurks between fish and shrimp. The gentleman lost no time in surrendering to the villain. The weather is out of date, the sun and the moon are dull, the land is out of date, the vegetation is not long, the water is out of date, the wind and waves are uneven, people are out of date, and the fortune is blocked. Fate is doomed or changeable. For example, a chicken can grow better, bigger and stronger after being born from an eggshell, but it is still a chicken. No matter how it is raised, it can't develop into a duck or a cow. Everyone can achieve the greatest success of his own destiny through hard work and change the day after tomorrow, but not everyone can become a general or an emperor through hard work. Fate together, you can see many true stories. Some people have a high numerology pattern. Although I became an official, I was unlucky, so I was not good at being an official. People everywhere want to make him feel bad, and the official is getting smaller and smaller. Some people with low numerology pattern are farmers, but they are lucky, so they live happily, farm well and work for more than a year (/class _ 361_1.html). For example, someone's eight-character gold is booming and declining, which is most suitable for oriental wood transportation and career orientation is also most suitable for the development of oriental cities based on their birthplace. The so-called wealth is in the east, and the wrong direction misses the opportunity. If this person doesn't understand Zhouyi and develops to the west of his birthplace, plus the bad luck of the Universiade, it is either a loss of wealth or a disease. Even if the Universiade is very good, he should earn 10 million a year, and he may only earn 5 million (/bencity _ id = 4&; fid=33 1。 Id=2474 12), the first line of azimuth error, wealth does not meet. It can be seen that the realm of fortune-telling is not accurate, but how to change your destiny on the basis of accurate calculation, avoid misfortune, and take fewer detours, so as to obtain the greatest wealth of your life as soon as possible and quickly move toward the other side of your success.