The form of blind date

1. The man's parents, aunts, aunts, etc. Visit this woman's home one day. The woman's parents usually let her daughter show her face, such as serving tea and pouring water, while the man's family looks at the woman's appearance, figure, posture and manners. In Quanzhou, Liancheng and other places, there is also the custom of looking at a woman's palm. The palm of a blind date is not as elegant and mysterious as a fortune teller. Usually, a woman's happiness depends only on the hardness of her palm and the thickness of her skin. Soft palms, delicate skin are good looks, prominent bones and stiff muscles, and rough skin is bad looks without good luck. Han people in Fujian also generally taboo women's "broken palms" (also known as "horizontal palms", that is, there is a thick and deep line across the center from left to right on the palm, such as through the palm), and think that such women are "hard" and doomed to kill their husbands (men's broken palms are regarded as the lives of high officials).

2. It was the man himself who was taken to the woman's house by the matchmaker or elder for blind date. While observing women, he also accepts women's scrutiny. But the couple didn't sit together and talk for a long time. The woman just showed a little and then hid in the back room. In Zhangping, blind date is commonly known as "seeing the bride". Generally, the man stands in Daping (patio), and it takes only a short time for his daughter to walk from the left alley (slant hall) to the right alley after dressing up. At the same time, the woman's parents and other relatives are watching the man. In Jianning, the man went to the door for a blind date, and the woman peeked first. If there is no objection, she goes out to pour tea. The man took the opportunity to glance at it. If he agrees, he will take the tea. Local folk blind dates between men and women are not only held in women's or men's homes, but also quite a few so-called "meetings" between men and women at fairs and temple fairs. That is, both men and women are brought to meet by the matchmaker or parents, and the matchmaker is far away from the crowd. The two sides can only look at each other, but they can't see clearly. This method is called "looking back". Especially for men and women, one of them has physical defects or other problems, and some parents collude with the matchmaker to invite other men and women to take the place, referring to deer as horses and flowers as trees, commonly known as "being the number one." Only after marriage can the truth come out. It's too late for the cheated party to regret, and it's inevitable to feel sad secretly, submit to humiliation, hold tears and hold a grudge for life. In the old society of "being loyal to one's own life", since raw rice has been cooked, one has to admit that one's life is hard and one's life is sinful. After a long time, T will be happy with it for a long time.