Cousin's love, the third life, the third life.

This cousin is not the "big cousin Liu Wen", but the boss of my second aunt's house. She has nothing to do with her "big cousin". If she had to be far-fetched, they all had similar bright smiles.

As a child, she was a tomboy, climbing high and low, climbing trees and rivers. The boy got up his courage and she did it again because she broke her arm climbing a tree. Fortunately, I am protected by my grandparents, and my second aunt and uncle have a little daughter and son to take care of. More than ten acres of land should be planted and cows and pigs should be fed. As long as I am not arrogant, I will go with her.

This kind of ruffian temper is thus cultivated, and at the same time, people have grown into: big eyes, double eyelids, high nose, red lips and white teeth, oval face and high head-standard good-looking.

I dropped out of junior high school before finishing my cousin. After two years of farm work at home, I went to work in the county seat. I am old, and my relatives in the county gave me a date. The young man is called Stone, as the name implies, honest and honest. Have a house and a formal job in the county. This is already a good condition for a rural family.

The two hit it off at first sight, and they were also a good match, and the matter became. Get married and have children. 19-year-old cousin has completed two major events in life without stopping.

Marriage is the real test. My cousin grew up in a single-parent family, and the widowed mother had to control her son's life everywhere after he had his own child. However, if you don't let go when it's time to let go, contradictions will naturally arise. Cousin is not a stone now, but a soft straw that my mother holds tightly and falls without wind. He listens to his mother everywhere. Although his cousin is kind, how can she endure it for a long time?

Both of them are young, married for the first time, parents for the first time, and they play other roles except family background for the first time. As a result, after two or three years, both sides were exhausted and broke up in discord.

At that time, she was in her early twenties, in the prime of her life, but she was exhausted and sad. Sad, my cousin went to work in Guangdong. There, because of a wrong message, I met a young man in Xianyang, Shaanxi, who was tall and burly and had a strong boyfriend.

Later, when he followed his cousin back to her mother's house, the strong Shaanxi accent Mandarin made us laugh. This is another story. However, what I want to express is that my cousin's family has a good impression on him.

You have come and gone, giving me warmth and comfort. I tasted your love for the first time. The result is naturally together. Admittedly, the best way to treat emotional injury is to start a new relationship.

Cousin loves to laugh, has a loud voice and a big heart. Sometimes she is surprised, but she has a good heart. The important thing is that she can afford it and put it down.

She just bid farewell to the old year and ushered in the new year, without any ambiguity. The two returned to the young people's small village in Xianyang from the south, and soon they had a lovely son. Cousin and brother-in-law discussed buying a house in the county town for two years, so that children can receive a better education. Both of them strive for a better life in the future. One works in a brick kiln factory, and the other rents a shop in a small town to sell clothes. Although it's hard, they love each other very much.

My second aunt and my cousin also went to my cousin's house one year. The first time I slept on the kang, I ate the "small fish noodles" in Shaanxi for the first time, which were small fish-shaped bumps made of noodles, and it didn't seem to be very delicious either. I also went to my cousin's clothes shop to help, but my cousin thought that our clumsiness would scare away the guests and wouldn't let us help. Cousin is good-looking, kind-hearted and dare to talk, so business is very good.

After staying for a few days, my cousin and I ran away when we were hungry, because their family only ate two meals a day, and we both had no money, so we were embarrassed to ask for something to eat every day. However, we all think that it is not difficult for my cousin to buy a house according to this trend.

Later, I also met the dog blood story of life, and I was caught in the quagmire and had no time to take care of him.

One year, I went to my uncle's house on the second day of the Lunar New Year and listened to my second aunt and my mother discuss my cousin, only to know that my cousin had left the house in Xianyang.

My first reaction was: Why did you leave again? Isn't this a good life? My second aunt shook her head repeatedly and said, I don't care about her anymore. I can do whatever I want. She is doomed to failure.

Later, I vaguely learned that it seems that because of the house demolition, my mother-in-law failed to keep her promise and favored her brother-in-law's brother. What kind of agreement doesn't count ... anyway, it's a mess, and she can't escape the relationship between her parents, the discord between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, and the relationship between the boss and the second child. While sighing, I have to admire my cousin's courage and wonder what will happen to her if this continues.

It will take 14 years to contact my cousin again. She asked my mother for my number and wanted to introduce me to someone. On the phone, she spoke authentic Shaanxi dialect. I didn't know she was in Weinan until I asked her, but she still didn't "escape" from Shaanxi. I tease her, you really have a hard time with Shaanxi in your life.

After much contact, I know her situation in these years intermittently: she was very ill, depressed for several years, and almost didn't die ... until she met her current husband again. ...

She also sent me a photo. In the photo, a four-or five-year-old girl who looks like a cousin is sitting on the edge of the bed, very beautiful. There is also a little boy about two years old. He is chubby and cute. His cousin sat next to him with a happy smile and long curly hair, and looked gentle and virtuous.

Last Spring Festival, our cousins reunited in my house after several years. Cousin looks very good-even better than a few years ago, still screaming like that, while loudly saying "My aunt's steamed steamed bread is delicious", she pulled a piece of steamed bread and stuffed it in her mouth, just like ten years ago.

At the dinner table, my brother-in-law is fine now. My cousin won't let me drink, so he won't drink. My cousin told him to eat less cold food, saying it was bad for his stomach, so he stopped eating it. Cousin told him to pour wine for his uncle quickly, so he quickly got up and poured wine for his uncle, uncle and other elders …

My uncle later told several of our younger generations, alas, this (third brother-in-law) is too ugly, with yellow teeth and short stature ... We all feel the same way. Cousin (cousin's sister) went on to say, "Sister said that this person is very kind to her and listens to her. My sister doesn't like him smoking, so he quit smoking for 20 years, 20 years. " We all fell silent. Everyone knows how difficult it is to give up smoking. My uncle nodded and said, just be good to her.

I don't know if my cousin is really good. At least now, it seems that she is so good and so happy.

She gave up again and again, looking for it, giving up again and again, looking for it again and again. Whether I am looking for true love, following my heart or pursuing a better life, each one can be the reason why I admire her. No matter what others say, no matter what kind of pain she has experienced, no matter what she has lost along the way, I believe that every choice is the result of her own measurement.

It always takes courage to start over, and there are always gains and losses. Especially after several severe blows, how many people can make such a big start? I believe my cousin is really happy now and will be happier in the future.

As for the second aunt's "that's her life", she once asked someone to calculate a divination for her cousin. The fortune teller said that her cousin was "destined to drink water from seven wells to settle down", that is to say, she had to meet seven people to settle down for the rest of her life. I wonder if my cousin knows about it. I hope she won't. After all, he is very compassionate.

However, maybe I worry too much. Because now, even if I know this kind of nonsense, my cousin will say: Fuck it, my life has always been decided by myself, how can I be at the mercy of fate?

The so-called "fetters of fate" have always worked only for those who believe in the existence of these fetters. If you are weak, it will be strong, and if you are strong, it will naturally be timid.

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