Gone with the Wind: Rhett &; Why did you leave when you were deeply in love?

In Gone with the Wind, Rhett and Scarlett are the most striking and controversial couple. They are so similar in character and attitude, so from the day they met Scarlett, Rhett was keenly aware that she was of the same kind as himself. So he never hides his appreciation for her.

Before knowing Rhett, Scarlett once said in a chat, "Kinsey's mother told me that I would marry a man with black hair and beard."

Rhett is just such an image.

They first met at a party, when she found him standing alone in the hall, staring at her with cold and impolite eyes, which made her feel complicated. On the one hand, she is proud that she can arouse his interest, on the other hand, she thinks his eyes are rude.

Soon, while chatting with others, she learned that he was a man with a bad reputation because he stayed out with a girl all night. Although he later explained that nothing happened between them that night, the girl's brother asked him to marry his sister on the grounds that he had ruined her reputation, but he resolutely refused, because he thought she was a-stupid-goods, so the girl's brother insisted on fighting with him to win or lose. In the battle, she decided to win or lose.

Scarlett secretly admired him because he refused to marry a stupid woman.

When Scarlett confessed her refusal to Ashley, this conversation happened to be heard by Rhett lying on the sofa. Rhett joked, "Eavesdroppers often hear something beautiful and beneficial."

Scarlett scolded him for not being a gentleman.

Rhett answers blows with blows: "You are not a superior woman either. No matter who I just heard say or do, I can't think she is a superior woman. " "But a good woman has no charm for me, and you, you are a little girl with extraordinary spirit and admirable spirit, so I take my hat off to you."

It was the first time they met, and Rhett angrily kicked Scarlett out of the door. In the past, she had never seen anyone dare to talk to her like this, so she instinctively became interested in this man.

Later, she got married several times for various reasons, and each time she ended in a dismal situation. During this time, Rhett has been by her side, bickering with her and waiting patiently for her to fall in love with him.

However, she never showed any love for him, and even when she borrowed money from him to save Tara during the war, she never said a word of love for him.

Naturally, Rhett didn't lend her money. In his original words, the reason is: "When I found out that you needed my money instead of me, disappointment and pain tore up my feelings."

Of course, another reason is that he was in prison and could not get her money.

So, in order to get the money to save Tara, Scarlett once again married an old man she didn't love at all-Frank Kennedy, because this man owned a shop and had cash.

In this way, Tara was saved, but two weeks after her marriage, Frank Kennedy caught the flu and his sawmill had to be taken care of by Scarlett.

This sawmill quickly became colorful under Scarlett's care, but there was no woman like her in business at that time, so the outside world kept making irresponsible remarks about her.

But after she got out of prison, Rhett appreciated her practice and was the only one willing to listen to her talk about how to run the business, which made her unconsciously look forward to his arrival, because every conversation with him was a kind of fun and challenge for her and a little interest in her boring marriage life.

In fact, at that time, Scarlett had already fallen in love with him, but her emotional intelligence was really not high and she was a very affectionate person, so she didn't realize it.

It is also possible that she vaguely realized it, but she didn't want to admit it or think deeply.

Later, Frank Kennedy was shot by a disorderly party, and Scarlett became a widow again. Rhett didn't wait any longer this time, but immediately proposed to Scarlett.

Scarlett was puzzled, so Rhett explained, "I've always wanted you. I have always wanted you since the first day I saw you throw a vase at Twelve Oaks, which makes me think you are not a good woman. " I can't wait for you all my life, hoping to get you when you change husbands. "

This time Scarlett finally agreed.

After getting married, Rhett personally bought her all kinds of beautiful clothes and built a beautiful house for her, which made her the envy and jealousy of the local people.

In addition, he encouraged her to say whatever she had, and to be free and unfettered.

Therefore, after marriage, she wore beautiful clothes every day and spent it at a banquet full of guests. When she is tired of dancing and lying in Rhett's arms in a daze, she always unconsciously thinks of Ashley and wonders if it is Ashley who is holding her at the moment.

Whenever she does this, Rhett will get up and run away from home until the next day. But every time he came back, Scarlett didn't take the initiative to greet him or apologize to him, which made him deeply lost.

His wife, like a child, is not good at taking care of and comforting her husband's emotions at all.

But whenever she dreams of war and hunger, Rhett will hold her tightly in his arms and comfort her with gentle words, saying, "I will definitely let you live a stable life."

Later, they had a child, a beautiful girl, and they named her Bonnie.

Rhett dotes on Bonnie, not only constantly accompanying her, but also buying her a horse, trying to correct her crying at night.

Scarlett has never seen a man who likes children so much, so she doesn't like it. What she doesn't know is that Rhett knows that he can't get Scarlett's heart, so he transfers his love for her to their children.

Later, Bonnie unfortunately fell off her horse and died, which brought a great blow to both Rhett and Scarlett, especially Rhett, as if the sky were falling, and he became much more depressed than before.

Scarlett refused to have any more children, which made Rhett feel disappointed and helpless, but out of the dignity and respect of men, he did not force her.

It's just that their feelings are a little subtle, and Scarlett doesn't care about his feelings. She often talks back to him and says something that makes him feel sad and disappointed, so the two will stage the drama of the cold war from time to time.

When Melanie died in childbirth, Scarlett realized that Ashley and Melanie were the most suitable couple, and she and Ashley were not the same kind of people at all, so she gave up her obsession with Ashley.

At the same time, Scarlett suddenly realized that Barrett was the one who loved her the most and the one who was most suitable for her.

Only then did she realize that she had been relying on the rock of Rhett's love for her for so many years, but she took this love for granted. Not only did she not cherish it, but she also acted willfully according to her own will many times, which undoubtedly hurt his heart.

Now she finally sees it clearly. She knew that she had always loved him. But because she doesn't know how to cherish, this relationship has been fragmented, and she must find a way to repair it quickly.

So she immediately went to Rhett and confessed to him, but Rhett, who was already disheartened by this relationship, said, "I quarreled with you that night and ran out." When you come back the next morning, even if you come out to meet me, give me a hint. I thought I would kneel down and kiss your feet, but you didn't. "

"It was my fault that you were ill. I stood at your door, hoping you would call me, but you didn't. I felt stupid. "

"I love our child Bonnie very much because she is different from you-she loves me. So I am very happy to give her the love you don't want. "

Rhett went on a little wryly, "Scarlett, I'm 45 years old. At this age, a person should begin to cherish things that are easily abandoned when he is young, such as family harmony, stable reputation and deep roots. " I am too old to live in a seemingly decent disillusionment under the burden of lies. "

This is what Rhett said to Scarlett before he left, from which we can see that his disillusionment with Scarlett is the main reason for his decision to leave. At the same time, he also found that his ideas have changed from those when he was young. Now he begins to pay attention to things he didn't pay attention to before, such as family and reputation, so he yearns for a gentle and considerate wife, a good reputation and a stable and harmonious family.

Scarlett and he have come this far because their thoughts have different frequencies. Scarlett is still the same as when she was young, but he began to yearn for a gentle and considerate wife like Melanie and the warmth of several children around him.

These are exactly what Scarlett doesn't have, at least at this stage, and she often does the opposite, so Rhett, who has been waiting patiently for many years, loses the confidence to continue waiting and decides to leave.

How many people's marriages began with mutual appreciation, but in later years, their marriages broke down because of the increasingly different frequency of thoughts, which is quite worth pondering.

Scarlett and Rhett got back together in the sequel, but it was written by another author and did not represent the original author's intention.

If we carefully analyze Gone with the Wind, we may understand that the chances of Rhett and Scarlett finally getting back together are relatively low.

With Rhett's wisdom and insight, he must have thought carefully before making the choice to leave. He knows that even if a woman like Scarlett who lacks emotional intelligence lives for another 30 years, she may not be able to give Rhett proper love feedback and give him the tenderness and consideration he wants, so he doesn't want to spend it any longer.

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