Three realms of life: prosperity is not crazy, adversity is not annoying, and leisure is not urgent.

A philosopher said: when life is good, remember to converge; In adversity, remember to be patient; You need to accumulate in your spare time.

I'm impressed.

In the long river of life, we can't be smooth sailing. On the journey to success, occasionally we will ride the wind and waves, sometimes we will encounter stormy waves, and more often we will be as calm as water.

However, in either case, it is the highest state of life to be able to be happy in prosperity and adversity.

0 1 Prosperity is not madness, and success can always be achieved.

A netizen of Tik Tok told his story:

After graduating from college, this netizen started his own business, founded an educational institution and started to do foreign trade business.

Although there were some difficulties in the early stage of starting a business, the company never lost money because it caught up with the dividend of the times.

In the past two years, the business of institutions has been getting better and better, and foreign trade has become more and more profitable. At this time, he felt that starting a business was too simple and making money was too easy. It seems that as long as you are a little serious, you will succeed, and there is no so-called difficulty in starting a business.

With more and more partners around him, more and more people are willing to invest in him, which makes his vanity strongly satisfied.

Later, without doing any research or listening to other people's advice, he founded a baseball club, a pizza shop and made some investments in the website.

However, in less than a year, all the projects failed. Not only did he lose everything, but he also owed more than 6 million yuan in debt. His house is gone, his car is gone, and his girlfriend left him.

These reasons are all caused by impulsiveness and arrogance. By the time he understood, he had paid a painful price for it.

As the saying goes, "Born in sorrow, died in happiness".

Prosperity is actually just a state of ease. If we are not worried or even complacent in this state, we will lose the game.

And those who have a successful career have one thing in common, that is, they are neither arrogant nor impetuous, and they are modest and prudent.

If life is a house, then success and failure are two adjacent bedrooms. People should not be too high-profile and arrogant when they succeed, or they will sound an alarm for the failure next door.

Being a man, everything can't be smooth sailing. Success without hard work is like a house without a good foundation, which is in danger of collapse at any time.

In good times, only by laying a solid foundation and actively innovating can we be invincible.

Only when adversity is not annoying can we break through the world.

Yang Guang, the champion of "Avenue of Stars", is a versatile blind singer and is known as a wizard in the art world. In 2008, he participated in the opening ceremony of the Beijing Paralympic Games and appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Evening in the same year.

Such an excellent singer, his childhood is bitter.

When Yang Guang was born eight months ago, he was blind due to illness.

When I was a child, Yang Guang was often laughed at and bullied by others because he was invisible. I often fall down while walking.

However, he did not give up because of this depression, but began to become optimistic and strong with the gentle encouragement and care of his mother.

Once someone called him a little blind man, and grandma was very angry. In turn, he comforted her and said, "Grandma, don't be angry. I am blind. Let him shout. It doesn't matter. "

At the age of eight, Yang Guang fell in love with music, complicated courses and boring practice, but he didn't beat the boy who didn't give up easily: in order to practice the piano, he played until his arms were sore and his fingers were stiff; In order to imitate, sometimes I repeat a sentence until my voice becomes hoarse;

"Hard work pays off." .

Yang Guang finally relied on his own efforts and persistence to overcome the difficulties of life and walked out of his own world.

Facing adversity, we should smile and face it calmly. If Yang Guang had given up on himself at an early age, he wouldn't be so strong and optimistic now.

There is a saying in Mencius: "Therefore, if God entrusts the people of Sri Lanka with a heavy responsibility, they must first suffer their minds, work hard on their bones and muscles, starve their bodies and empty their bodies."

If God wants him to succeed, he must endure all kinds of sufferings.

Some people give up on themselves in the face of difficulties and are confused and degenerate. Such people can only accomplish nothing in the end;

And some people are indomitable, and the more frustrated they are, the more brave they are. Such people will eventually shine in the world.

If you are not in a hurry, you can make a blockbuster.

I studied Chinese language and literature in college, and A Ying was my classmate. At first, her grades were not outstanding, or even worse.

Freshman courses are relatively basic, but many students feel that the foundation is enough, so they start to write articles on Chinese studies, and under the guidance of teachers, they also throw out a few articles.

But the teacher advised us that if we want to write for a long time, we should focus on accumulation. But the students tasted the sweetness of the manuscript and couldn't listen to the teacher's instruction. The following courses are even more confusing, and I just want to write and contribute.

But A Ying is a "very obedient" student. She reads books, listens to lectures, takes notes and does her homework.

I once asked her that all her classmates had written manuscripts. Aren't you in a hurry? Inging smiled faintly and said, "The teacher said it was not yet time. Wait, don't worry. "

It was not until the first semester of senior three that A Ying's first article was published in National Research Magazine and reprinted by national newspapers. In the following year, several classic articles on Chinese studies were all one-off manuscripts. Before graduation, I also received a signing opportunity for a column on Chinese studies!

Those students who are eager to write articles are rejected again and again because they think they are perfect, and they haven't written many good articles until graduation.

In this era of paying attention to speed, we always have a sense of anxiety when we are "idle", and we are ready to move when we see others succeed. In fact, leisure is an opportunity for us to accumulate wealth.

Xunzi wrote in "Persuasion": "If you don't accumulate steps, you will have a thousand miles; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas. "

Without small steps, you can't walk thousands of miles; Without the gathering of small streams, there would be no vast rivers and seas.

I couldn't agree more.

In leisure, only considering speed and ignoring quality, even if the scenery is temporary, it will not be successful forever. Don't worry when you are free, you can accumulate strength and wealth.

04 written at the end

The poet Ibsen said: "Don't rest on your laurels because of good luck, and don't be depressed because of bad luck. The real strong are good at finding shadows from prosperity, looking for light from adversity, and always calibrating their goals. "

Our attitude towards each situation determines our attitude towards everything in life:

Don't be crazy about prosperity, be modest and eager to learn, in order to retain brilliant achievements;

Don't be bothered by adversity, face up to difficulties and you will get proud harvest;

Leisure is not urgent, calmly lurking, and will eventually be extraordinary.

Wish us: prosperity, not complacency; Adversity, not discouraged; Idle, no hurry.

Encourage each other