In life, is a miserable woman doomed?

Every day, different things happen in the world. The wheel of fate turns quietly, and everything is coming quietly.

Some people believe in fate, that everything is arranged by God, and that life can be completed step by step? Mission? .

However, fate is merciless. Once they encounter injustice or misfortune, they are often used to complaining about the hardships of life.

But alone, isn't it? Bad luck? In fact, the responsibility is not entirely in God's hands.

So-called? My life is up to me. God? Some people will only blame others in the face of disasters, and finally they will be devastated and become? Bad luck? .

Some people are indomitable, struggle with fate and finally break out of their own world.

So? Bad luck? Still lies in itself.

In real life, we often hear some women complain about their husbands, children and even their origins.

They attribute all their misfortunes and injustices to their own hardships, but don't think about who made life like this.

Half the misfortunes in a person's life come from accidents, and the rest have already appeared in her.

Just like a talented and capable person will never be buried, a person who will never give in to life will never be defeated by life.

You are the only person in the world who can beat you. Whether a woman is bitter or not is predestined.

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Independently decide the style.

People will always see such examples in their lives. Many women give up their jobs and independence after marriage and choose to believe that their husbands can entrust them for life.

Such unconditional trust is, of course, proof of deep love, and the abandonment of one party can really make a family.

But beyond that, does a woman's value stop at her wife and cooking?

Once the trustee is not a person, only the woman will bear all the consequences.

In the TV series My First Half Life, Luo Zijun is such a woman.

Because of her husband, she can live in a mansion and wear famous brands, but after choosing to divorce, she suddenly becomes? A cripple? One.

Is Luo Zijun miserable? It would be unfortunate if she chooses to make a living in marriage or lose it.

Fortunately, she has a good girlfriend and a strong personality, which enabled her to survive as an independent person in society after losing her, so Luo Zijun left? Bad luck? And farther and farther away.

What does a woman live like, not completely entrusted to others, not being? The second cycle of marriage? You can change your life.

Only by holding your destiny in your own hands can you choose the style and height of your life. Independently decide your own style and control your own life. No? Bad luck? .

Vision determines the future.

How far a person can go in life depends on how far she can see.

How big is the heart, how big is the stage? The same is true in life.

What if women only care about themselves? Three cents per acre? At present, I can only see the immediate interests and haggle over every ounce of life. How can I expect her to pursue more futures?

In real life, when men make mistakes, some women always complain: when they meet people, they complain that they are unlucky, and when they meet people, they complain that they are miserable.

But what if they really want to give up and leave this? A quagmire? They immediately made excuses.

Life is limited, and dwelling on the past will only make the future worse.

Sometimes it's just a simple breakup, in order to welcome the future after a short period of pain? Freshman? .

Vision determines the future. If you only see the gains and losses in front of you, you will miss the beauty in life.

Being strong inside is king.

A truly powerful person can live a life he likes no matter what environment he is in.

Because it is not the external interference that determines life, but the sureness of one's own heart.

Women can encounter misfortune, but they must never give in to it from the heart.

When a thing is a foregone conclusion, it is useless to complain more than to talk about it? Bad luck? Try to change your destiny.

Abandoned wife in the Republic of China? Zhang Youyi refused to accept her husband's change of heart and forced divorce, and went to Germany to pursue his ambition.

Who is such a person? Abandon? However, after choosing to leave, she became the first female banker in China.

Life is your own, and it is not up to others to decide whether life is bitter or not.

When faced with misfortune, a person with a strong heart will not appeal to fate, but change himself. Only strength is king.

Whether a woman's life is bitter or not has long been doomed.

All external misfortunes cannot make you depressed. Only inner submission can make you lose control.