Are ancient mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that good? What will it be like to be a husband?

In ancient times, Xu was not good, which not only had high requirements for Xu himself, but also had little benefit for Xu. Xu is the husband chosen by the emperor and queen for the princesses, and the person the princess marries cannot be ugly or low-ranking. Therefore, if you want to be Xu, you must satisfy the emperor, be talented, have morality, have looks and have a family background. If you choose a husband for the princess loved by the emperor, the conditions will be more harsh, so it is not easy to become a husband. In addition, if you are elected as Xu, there is no possibility of rejection. If you refuse rashly, it will make the emperor angry and bring trouble to his family.

In ancient times, under the circumstance that men were superior to women, Ma Xu was really different. Because the status of the princess is higher than that of Xu, it is not applicable to the royal family that men are superior to women. Once you make disrespect to the princess or make her dissatisfied, you should be careful of the accountability of the emperor and queen. So, under the circumstances at that time, was Xu quite restrained? No dignity? . If Xu unfortunately marries an eccentric princess and goes her own way, there is no other way but to endure it silently. In history, there are many princesses who run amok and openly look up, regardless of Xu's face. But Xu Can can't be kind to the princess, and she must endure the discussion and ridicule from others.

In order to prevent excessive concentration of power, Xu is often not awarded any important official position, and becoming Xu means the termination of his official career. The princess is an extremely noble and powerful existence. If you add a powerful Xu, they will easily usurp the throne. Therefore, once a person is elected as Xu, he is far from the center of power and can only be an idle person all his life. In addition, Xu Ma in the past dynasties was mainly revered and supervised by the emperor.