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The meaning of gestures when speaking.

The meaning of gestures when speaking.

The meaning of gestures when speaking, interpersonal communication is a very common thing, many people will have some small moves when speaking, and many people have strange meanings of gestures. After all, these contents are meaningful in psychology. Let me give you a brief understanding of the meaning of gestures when you speak.

When speaking, the gesture means 1 1. Cover your mouth with your hand when you speak. Cover your mouth with your hand and press your thumb on your cheek. In your mind, your brain instructs your hand to make such gestures to suppress lies from coming out of your mouth. Sometimes just a few fingers, sometimes the whole fist covers your mouth, but the meaning is the same. Covering your mouth is a unique gesture to hide your inner activities.

Many people will use a fake cough to cover up this mouth protection posture. Humphrey bogart often uses this posture when playing bad guys or criminals, especially when he discusses the details of the crime with other bad guys, or when he is summoned by the police. This behavior implies dishonesty.

If the speaker uses this posture, it means that he is lying. The most disturbing scene for the speaker is that almost all the audience use this posture when he speaks. If the audience is small or one-on-one, it's best to pause and ask the audience if anyone has any comments on your words. This will ease the opposition of the audience and give you a chance to consider the content and answer some questions.

Touch your nose when you speak. The posture of touching the nose is a precise and subtle change of the posture of protecting the mouth. It may rub its nose back and forth gently, or it may touch it quickly. Women will be very gentle and cautious when doing this kind of action, because they are afraid that the makeup on their faces will be messed up.

There was a saying in ancient times: "The nose goes straight into the brain."

People think that the nose is a tool for transmitting signals. The nerve endings of the nose are stung when lying. Rubbing your nose is to relieve this feeling. This is a saying about rubbing your nose. Another credible point of view is that when a bad idea enters the brain, the subconscious will instruct you to cover your mouth, but at the last minute, you have to touch your nose quickly for fear of being too obvious. Touching your nose is the same as covering your mouth. The gesture of touching the nose indicates deception when the speaker uses it, and doubts the speaker when the listener uses it.

3. Rub your eyes with your hands when you speak. As the old saying goes: "see no evil", this gesture means that the brain wants to cover up the deception and doubt seen by the eyes; Or when lying, avoid looking directly at each other's faces. Men usually rub hard. If they lie, they usually look away, usually the floor. Women gently rub under their eyes. First of all, they often look at the ceiling to avoid each other's gaze.

4. Cover your ears when you speak. "Don't listen to heresy." This gesture is to prevent bad things from reaching the ears. Children don't want to listen to their parents' scolding, so they cover their ears with their hands. Adult ear scratching is a complicated form. Other changes include rubbing behind the ear, pulling out the ear, pulling the earlobe or covering the earlobe with the whole ear, indicating that he has heard enough or wants to talk. Pulling an earlobe means that you are a little anxious and bored with what the other person says, and it is necessary to stop others from talking.

5. Scratching your neck with your hand means scratching the lower part of your ear or one side of your neck with your forefinger. Observing this posture, we can find a very interesting point: scratching about five times at a time, rarely more or less than five times. This gesture indicates doubt or uncertainty. The characteristic of users is that they often say things like "I'm not sure if I agree". This gesture is especially obvious when what others say is untrue, such as "I can understand your feelings".

6. Pull the collar by hand when you speak. Desmond Morris found that when people speak, it will cause sensitive facial and neck tissue tingling, which must be relieved by rubbing or scratching. It seems that a liar's neck will sweat when he feels that the other person suspects him. When a person is angry or depressed, he will also pull his collar and let his neck breathe cool air. If you see the other person using this posture, ask him, "Would you please say that again?" Or "Would you please speak more clearly?" Questions like that will make him spill the beans.

However, it is not only the people who have the above actions in conversation who are lying. Sometimes people touch their noses just because this part itches. Of course, as long as you look carefully, there is still a clear difference between touching your nose because of itching and expressing negation. People usually use a lot of force when scratching, but when putting on airs, they are gentle and elegant, accompanied by coordinated gestures, such as squatting on the chair or shaking their bodies.

The meaning of gestures when two people talk hand in hand.

Most of them belong to neurotic people. When they talk to each other in a serious manner, subconsciously, this kind of action may occur. Holding hands, or fiddling with each finger, fidgeting with a key ring or winding a watch, all these actions can show that this person lacks self-confidence, looks inferior when facing each other, and is too nervous because of timidity. This kind of person has poor psychological endurance, can't take responsibility, is cautious and timid.

A man with his hand on his thigh.

Sitting there quietly, hands casually on thighs, such a person gives people a relaxed feeling. Such people are confident, helpful, calm and independent, often able to make an accurate assessment of things, tolerant and compassionate. Most of these people are ambitious, but their faces never show it. If he unconsciously rubs his hand back and forth on his thigh, it shows that he is very nervous and tries to calm his emotions. In addition, if he acts quickly and makes a decisive decision, then his purpose is to cover up his self-distrust.

A person who often gestures.

Gestures are often made. When gesturing, open your palms and put them up. Such people are honest, frank and easy to trust others. They look naive at ordinary times, but they show maturity when they encounter great events. They are affable and easy to satisfy, instead of making further efforts. People who speak with gestures, if male, are somewhat proud and self-reliant. Once others hold the opposite opinion, they get angry easily. A woman likes to use gestures, which shows that she is lively and likes to take care of others.

Pointing at each other when talking.

Pointing at each other when talking. Such people may be conceited. He always looks like a leader, ambitious and sometimes daunting. He always insists on showing his position in front of others. People are jealous and have the desire to dominate others.

chin

Hands folded, fingers on chin, eyes firmly looking at each other, this kind of person is very shrewd, usually taciturn, but strong and stubborn, adaptable and determined. If he is under pressure, he shows indomitable will and is a strong person who is not afraid of pressure. Strong service spirit, hate the wrong things, will resent the lax partners in the work.

People who are used to touching their mouths

Both men and women are basically introverted and shy people. Because he is not good at expressing his sincerity in words, he is easily misunderstood by others. Even in front of the person you like, you dare not express your feelings clearly. Feelings are negative. Some places are shy and timid. This gesture can often be seen in children under great pressure. They are sensitive and mysterious. They often try to be brave, but they are gentle at heart.

A person who is used to pinching his nose.

Most people like to play tricks on others, but they dare not "dare to do it" and like grandstanding. This kind of person is ultimately dominated by others. He does what others ask him to do, and he often makes up his mind when shopping.

Mouthwasher

When the other person speaks, he occasionally covers his mouth with his hand, indicating that he may be lying. Covering her mouth with her hand is to cover up her inner anxiety, because she knows that lying is wrong and will bring harm to others, but in order to achieve a certain goal, he still continues his lies.

Nose-touching person

When chatting, some people often touch their noses intentionally or unintentionally, some people touch their noses quickly with very inconspicuous movements, and sometimes people don't notice. People who use this gesture are trying to hide their confusion, or they want to divert their attention, because they feel that other parts of themselves are more likely to expose themselves as liars.

Hold your arms or cross your wrists.

When talking, the person holding the arm. When talking, arm-in-arm often happens when you don't like each other and are psychologically excluded. Sometimes it means that you don't want to listen to the other person and want to end the conversation. They are conservative and irrational people, who maintain a unique view of things, often giving people the feeling of indifference, because they do not refuse other people's demands, and may suffer losses and be a little self-centered.

A man with his hands in his pockets.

This type of person is very confident in himself. As for others, likes and dislikes are very obvious; People you like are enthusiastic, while people you hate talk too much. So making friends is easy to go astray. In addition, some behaviors are pretentious. Many people like to reach into their pockets and play with coins, keys, etc. People who like to play with coins have only two kinds of psychological demands. First, they value money very much. Second, lack of money, I hope to get the money right away.

Someone who always touches his head or plays with his hair.

An easy-going and considerate person. Most of these people are honest and will not take advantage of others or do bad things. They can be said to be friends of justice. But be careful to quarrel with others. While speaking, I unconsciously touched my hair with my hand. This is an emotional person who often feels depressed and anxious. This type of person is very concerned about the people around him and often pays attention to what others think of him. Very sensitive to fashion, but hot and cold. Therefore, I am often worried and concerned about many failures and mistakes.

A person who breaks a joint.

This kind of person is used to snapping his fingers. They are usually energetic, very talkative and like to get to the bottom of things. He is very picky about his career and working environment. If it is something he likes to do, he will work hard at any cost.

A slap on the head

This action is to express regret and self-condemnation. This kind of person is hard on people, but he is pioneering in his career. They are generally outspoken, sincere, compassionate and willing to help others, but they can't keep a secret.

A violinist.

Most of these people are women, generally more introverted, and do not easily expose their feelings. Another feature of them is that they are earnest and practical. There are usually symposiums, parties or dances, and everyone breaks up, but they always clean up the venue in the end. People who are used to fiddling with gadgets such as keys may also be used to reminding others that "you should pay attention to me."

A man who shrugged his shoulders and spread out his hands.

This kind of action means that you don't care. Most of these people are enthusiastic, sincere and imaginative. They can create life and enjoy it. The greatest happiness they pursue is to live in a harmonious and comfortable environment.

Someone who touches or massages the neck.

There are many nerve endings in our neck. As long as a little massage can effectively reduce blood pressure and heart rate and eliminate tension. In addition, massaging the forehead or touching the earlobe is also an action that ordinary people will appear when they are nervous. If a boy wears a tie or a girl plays with a necklace around her neck, it means the same thing. Another situation is to touch your neck all the time when you talk. This little trick is also used to cover up lying. Someone has carefully observed the behavior of touching the neck. If you use your right index finger every time, the part you scratch is the neck below the earlobe, and the number of times you scratch your neck is generally more than 5 times. This action represents doubt or uncertainty, that is, the speaker may be thinking, "I'm not sure what I said 100% is correct."

Palm-rubbing person

The most common psychological password for rubbing hands is what to expect, and this expectation is full of confidence. Another meaning of this action is nervousness. For example, people who speak for the first time are at a loss and often rub their hands.

A person whose middle finger is placed on the index finger.

This action used to be popular in Europe and America, but now people are more and more used in negotiation occasions, whether in the East or the West. When one party makes a request, they will cross their fingers. This action expresses the hope that your request will be accepted. In addition, crossing fingers also means that the parties wish good luck. In Latin America, crossing fingers is also used to show friendship with each other, meaning "We are as close as these two fingers".

Eye-rubbing person

There are men and women who rub their eyes with their hands. Men rub their eyes hard. If they lie too much, they will look elsewhere. They will look at the ground more, and some will look at the surrounding scenery to avoid eye contact when lying down. Most women gently touch the bottom of their eyelids, fearing that it will damage the makeup around their eyes.

Ear grabber

Scratching the ear, pulling the earlobe, or pressing the whole ear to cover the ear hole may indicate that the other person is lying, and they use these small moves to cover up their inner anxiety. These actions also show that they are timid and generally young.

A man with a clenched fist

People who always clench their fists may be insecure, so they have a strong sense of defense. They are not going to attack others, but they may just be wary of other people's attacks. Their creed of being a man is probably "if people don't attack me, I won't attack, and if they attack me, I will attack." People who often clench their fists are not only insecure, but also considerate, compassionate and considerate, and impulsive behavior is accompanied by biting their nails. This is undoubtedly a symptom of nervousness and fear, indicating that such people lack security.

Ten fingertips touch each other in the steeple to show confidence.

This gesture is to put the fingertips of both hands together to form a "church spire", which obviously shows self-confidence, but also shows complacency, authority, conceit or pride. Confident people like to pose like this when talking to others. This clearly shows that a person is sure of what he says. When a famous leader explains a conclusion or tells a question to his biographer or columnist, he often makes a gesture of putting his fingers together, which shows his absolute confidence in himself. Sometimes you look confident, but if you lean back, you will be more arrogant. This kind of action is more common in the west.

People whose fingers touch each other.

In addition, the finger-like action is mostly used in more formal occasions, especially when the meeting host, leader or teacher presides over the meeting or attends class, to show arbitrariness or arrogance, so as to deter students or participants.

Nail biter

Anxiety increases and I want to relieve it. If some people frequently bite their fingers and nails during the conversation, or fiddle with their lips with their fingertips, it shows that this person is anxious and nervous, and his personality is still immature and extremely naive.

In conversation, gestures can strengthen the tone and make the expression more vivid. Gestures can also express a certain meaning independently in communication. Let's briefly introduce Linger Fortune-telling Network, such as:

(1) thumbs up-like, like;

(2) the little finger is tilted-indicating contempt, degradation, "bad" and so on;

(3) Cross your fingers in front of your face to show hostility or dissatisfaction;

(4) Fingers crossed, thumbs facing each other or turning in circles-a dilemma;

(5) the two points are folded upwards-arrogance and self-confidence;

(6) The two directions are folded downwards-yielding or not interested;

(7) Holding the wrist, elbow and arm of the other hand with one hand-covering up your depression, weakness and psychological tension;

(8) Hands behind your back (hands clasped)-supreme, confident and even arrogant.