What does it mean to chat in love? Please give an example.

One way to avoid embarrassing chatting is keyword chatting.

1, catch the key words of the chat.

Everyone has a key point when expressing themselves. This kind of emphasis can highlight the true intentions and thoughts of the narrator. The same is true for grabbing other keywords. In her sentence, find out the point she wants to say most, and then reply to her according to this point.

Doing so is commonly known as "going straight to the point", and girls will naturally feel that they can talk to you and that you have a tacit understanding. As soon as she says it, you will understand.

How to correctly capture keywords lies in a logical analysis. For example, let's give an example. Girls sometimes complain to you: "I'm too busy today to eat, and I have a meeting later."

This keyword is not "meeting" or "heavy workload", because these are her negative emotions. So the key word here, you should grasp the "eating" related to chatting, instead of paying attention to her negative emotions.

When choosing keywords to chat, remember to choose the topic you are best at to chat, so as to successfully show your advantages in front of her.

2. Extend each other's keywords

Learn to grasp the key words, and you can hit the nail on the head according to the topic of girls.

Then extending her keywords will ensure that your topic can continue, instead of falling into a shameful embarrassment after one sentence.

For example, a girl goes out to travel and comes back to say to you, "I'm exhausted from traveling." At this time, the key word is tourism. You can express your concern first. After all, it is necessary to calm the mood. The correct answer is that you can simply say, "Thank you, go and have some water." Show your concern. Then you can choose the following two ways to extend the topic with her according to the actual situation.

* Listen to her story and be a patient listener.

If you don't know what to say, let her talk enough and be a patient listener. Of course, in this process, don't just reply "hmm", "ah" and "really" You are chatting and interacting, not talking to each other.

It is easy for girls to think that you are perfunctory and have no interest in chatting with her. Here is a very simple interactive method, which can make girls feel that you are not perfunctory. That's what she said. Just be curious.

This will make the girl feel that you are interested in what she says, and she will be interested in continuing to chat with you.

Share your story appropriately according to her topic.

If you have a similar travel experience, you can also share your story with her, which is also an opportunity to show yourself. At the same time, it can make girls feel that you have the same topic. The point is that you let girls see your good side and your unique perspective and understanding through the stories you share.

3. Show your keywords

In the first two methods, you are trying to choose keywords according to the chat content of girls.

In addition to this passive acceptance, you can also take the initiative. Give her some keyword signals when chatting, and judge where her interest points are through her reply.

But be careful not to backfire when displaying keywords.

We show our keywords to let girls see your high value. If the topic is not prominent or obvious enough, it is easy for girls to shift their attention to other places, which is counterproductive.

So, if you want to show your keywords accurately and clearly, remember to say only yourself, not others.

This not only gives her a topic to chat with you, but also paves the way for your next invitation.

Keyword chat can not only make girls feel that you know her well, but also give you the opportunity to extend the topic, so it can be used as a way of chatting.