Modern people living in condoms

? With the rapid development of society, I often think that people's lives should be more exquisite, people should live more chic and transparent, and their thoughts should be more active in order to stay comfortable in this society. However, the fact is that the more you grow up, the more difficult it is to deeply integrate into society. More is the deterioration of autonomy, followed by the deterioration of acceptance, and finally learning to deceive yourself. Compared with the cruelty of society, being a man living in a condom is probably more cruel.

This life is like writing. Sitting in a tall building with the same pen and notebook every day, sometimes I can't write a paragraph, even if I do, and these words will be deleted after learning. I always feel that the written words are too stiff. But if you change the writing place into a park or a quiet bamboo forest, the articles you write will be different, at least with a little breath of life and a sense of yearning for beauty. Therefore, for everyone's life, there is always an environment and way suitable for their own survival, but in this way we often can't adapt to the life outside. Like me, I know what kind of articles are most popular with the public, but I can only write articles in old-fashioned language and in a self-satisfied mode. If you can really achieve self-satisfaction, it will be a harvest, but this kind of old-fashioned article is not necessarily the author's own meaning, but more of a restriction on one's thoughts and experiences, just like a person clearly knows how to make life better, but if the past experience tells him that it is not bad now, it is bound to lose the motivation to fight for it.

Some people will say that the result will not be too bad, and at most it will only maintain the status quo, but unrealistic self-satisfaction is equivalent to chronic suicide. Lao Wang is a famous zipper repairer in our street, and his craft is not bad. It is said that he has been working for 30 years. His wife died unexpectedly in her early years, and he also has a son, who is in his twenties and often follows him. Usually he takes his son to set up a stall in the street. The equipment is very simple, just a small sewing machine, a work box and all kinds of small furniture inside. According to neighbors, Lao Wang's son has never been to school, and Lao Wang intends to let him inherit the skill of zipper repair. That sounds right, but in fact Lao Wang never lets his son do it, just staring at the stall. Whenever passers-by ask, Lao Wang just smiles and says that his son did it. He is afraid that he will fail to live up to his expectations. Passers-by felt reasonable and didn't ask. A few years ago, Lao Wang saved a sum of money. Originally, it was said that he wanted to expand the facade and prepare to open a shop as a facade to do his craft work. But I don't know where a fortune teller came to find him and told him that his son must get married before the age of 20, or he would be in trouble. Later, Lao Wang didn't know who arranged it and paid a lot of money to marry his son. I thought life would go on like this. Who knows it hasn't been two years? Lao Wang is very angry. Besides, due to his age, he is sick from time to time. He often spends money on medicine to save his life. Seeing that life was getting harder and harder, he began to teach his son skills. His son always tells him that he can't learn for decades. Who will set up a stall now? Don't open the door until he has money. Every time Lao Wang hears his son say this, he is full of tears. He regrets that he listened to the fortune teller and chose the wrong way. He is worried that his son's future will not be smooth sailing. A few years later, the old king died, leaving his 30-year-old son alone, unmarried and unemployed, quarreling with several women in the street all day for some trivial things.

In fact, from the surface of these things, it is difficult for us to find out who did something wrong. It is true that Lao Wang sought happiness for his son's health, but he finally regretted it, because he himself knew that what the fortune teller said was not credible, but his stubbornness of thought made him insist on believing what the fortune teller said. He thinks that his son has never done this job, and he is afraid that he can't do it well. This is also a fact. In a responsible attitude towards customers, he fell into the trap of drowning his son. It was he who deluded himself and always thought that he could do it in the future, so that his son would not suffer from the hardships of life, which led to his contempt for his current job, lost the motivation to sew zippers as a way of life, and finally led a muddled life.

In our lives, this is also slowly infiltrating into our lives. Enlightening yourself with an old man's Mandarin is "people can't accept being old". In fact, I think mental aging is more terrible than this skin aging. I often feel that I don't like the complicated family relationships revealed to me in some family dramas now. I prefer to watch mystery cases. Even the TV series "Nothing but 30" and "Don't mess with 20", which have been heated up recently, have no interest at all. When many young people choose to watch this kind of TV to find their own feelings, I feel that watching this kind of TV series is easy to be brainwashed. But isn't it actually a TV series? Why am I so resistant? Just because I hate some ideas that conflict with my ideas? Unconsciously, I once again resisted being close to the public and lived in my own condom because of reasons I didn't like. Most importantly, I have never tried to understand the side of things that people like, and I am always eager to draw conclusions according to my own ideas. Later, I learned that everything we complain about in life is because we can't get rid of the condom we put on ourselves, and we actually don't know what it is!