Marriage Customs of Yangmei Town Girls in Chongyi County, Ganzhou, Jiangxi Province

I'm a local. Marry the girl here, go to the woman's house for the first time and get a red envelope, about 4000 yuan, including her parents, grandparents, grandparents, brothers and sisters and other close relatives. When you set the wedding date for the second time, you should wrap a red envelope, ranging from 20,000 to 40,000, depending on your own financial ability and the attitude of her family. There are many relatives attending the engagement. The banquet on this day costs 3000 yuan, usually four to six tables. In addition, when the woman marries her daughter, the man is responsible for the banquet money at home or in the store. The woman should report the number of banquet tables, for example, 30 tables and 50 tables, and then a table varies from 400-600 yuan, where it is about 30,000-40,000. In addition, I will give my girlfriend's mother a big red envelope, ranging from 6000 to 10000. This is called a red envelope to repay the kindness of childbirth. There are also large items such as color TV refrigerators sent by the woman's family, all of which are paid by the man, bought by the woman at home, and given by the woman on the wedding day. This costs about 8000 yuan. I also want to buy a gold ring, a gold necklace and gold earrings for your wife, which is the three gold mentioned by the man above, about 6000 yuan. In addition, you have to get 50 tables for your own banquet at home. Money depends on whether you want to take high-end or ordinary, about 30 thousand. If the woman asks you to buy a car or house, you can do it yourself.

If you are a foreigner, it is very likely that the number said by her parents is 50,000 to 60,000. Some parents will also ask for a lot of money, and some sensible people will not ask for a lot. Just take people away. You don't have to go to other programs.

You can give 180 thousand if you have money.

As long as you have money, you can't do without money.

In a word, you brought up your daughter, so you should show it anyway.